Found a condom in my husband's car
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Anonymous
| Does anyone else think hookers when there's condoms and lube in the car? |
Anonymous
| I think gay sex |
Anonymous
| Jeez, hookers and gay sex? Do straight people not use condoms? |
Anonymous
Married people? No. |
Anonymous
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I'm so sorry, OP. The additional condoms and lube tell you all you need to know in terms of knowing he's had sex with at least one other person if not people.
Honestly, and maybe it's just because this happens to me, the lube plus car condoms suggests same-sex anonymous hookup to me. There are lots of oubliy straight guys in the DC area (probably everywhere) who will meet another guy for quickie sex, no questions asked. If your DH's time is mostly accounted for and you can't imagine him being able to have a full time affair, that would be my guess. For me, it was somewhat a comfort to know that the sex was anonymous and not at all emotional or personal, but I still couldn't live with the breach in trust and eventually split up. SurvivingInfidelity.com can be a huge help to you now. I'm so sorry, OP. |
Anonymous
Married people, yes. If they don't want to use chemical birth control. Or are having an affair. |
Anonymous
+1 15 year olds play jokes like that. |
Anonymous
Many do. But OP would know. |
Anonymous
| Where does OP say there was lube?? |
Anonymous
| Op. I'm so sorry. The lube doesn't bode well. I, too, can thinking same sex or a pro. Or a same sex pro. |
Anonymous
| All women are programmed to have the "talk" that they will divorce you if the man cheats. A desperate attempt to keep men loyal. Women know that older men can have a lot of younger nookie since men age so much better than women |
Anonymous
DH here: sadly, this sounds like the most plausible scenario to me, too. I'd gather more evidence before confronting, however, since it is not entirely definitive and if he stonewalls and goes dark because he knows you know, you will drive yourself crazy wondering. |
Anonymous
We are talking about a married person having an affair. Why would you assume he couldn't be having an affair with another woman?? Also, plenty of married people use condoms because they can't or don't want to take hormonal birth control. |
Anonymous
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If he is that obvious about it there's probably tons of evidence for OP to find, unless she has already had suspicions and has just been ignoring them.
I don't think it suggests her husband is sleeping with men, though he could be. Condoms in a car = trying to keep sex secret, period. |
Anonymous
| Condoms can get handed out at traffic lights as part of health campaigns. |