No, I want the opposite, OP. I want the nitty gritty of how you treat a woman, and how she treats you; whether your friends are "high-value" and whether they are in healthy, long-term relationships. You can think you're high-value all you want, you can look great on paper, but the proof of the pudding is in the eating. My husband could be, according to your lights, a high-value man. In real life, he's on the spectrum and is impossible to live with. I will leave him. If you insist on being too highbrow, you're going to miss what's really important in a relationship - emotional connection. |
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I treat women with respect, but I'm not obsequious towards them. Reciprocity is important and increasingly rare to find these days. I have a protective impulse, but I have learned to temper this impulse and make sure that my needs are being met as well. All women are different, so you have to listen to their particular wants, needs and desires and adjust accordingly without completely sacrificing yourself or compromising who you are. I don't like being too rigid, so I accommodate, but only up to a point. I have dated some women who liked one thing and then found it was the complete opposite with others. What other nitty gritty would you like? |
Yes. This is the sound of a high value man falling in the forest. Or the sound of one high value man's gums flapping. |
Aristotle would never... |
Trolling and bowling |
I had higher hopes for this thread, honestly. |
So...average? |
I don't think this thread is a terrible idea, except for labeling yourself as a HVM, which is giving that Samuels guy.
I think if you had said you were average and wanted to answer questions about how men think you would have gotten a better reception. That is how women think, and you are welcome. LOL |
GPT chat? |
Height is silly you only need to be equal to or taller than your female partner if you’re heterosexual. D size unless you’re unusually small, average or above average is fine and not the be all end all. A mere 6 figures is no longer the threshold. That’s not even meeting HVM bare minimum for a man over 30. These are stupid criteria. |
Ya I think OP is playing around with AI too |
You arent a high value man if you are still single past 30. Sorry not sorry. All the good ones (the actual good ones, not whatever you think you are) are snapped up early and stay committed.
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Any man who sees his value through the opinion of another woman is a man devoid of any value. Love yourself, know yourself, be kind, normal, generous and have healthy hobbies. When you have these qualities it doesn't matter whether a woman thinks you are low or high value because with these traits you will be happy being by yourself even if no woman ever finds you worthy of dating.
And the same goes for a woman. |