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I'm sorry, OP, maybe you're a great person in real life, but your choice of words on this thread are cringe-inducing and devoid of any actual meaning. Native gifts? Aristotelian? That's really too vague. You're giving nothing away. You're just a tease.
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What do you wanna know? [b]Do you want a treatise on ethics?[/b] It's just shorthand for character mattering for being a HVM, and that is something that must be consistently cultivated. The other stuff has already been addressed.[/quote]

No, I want the opposite, OP. I want the nitty gritty of how you treat a woman, and how she treats you; whether your friends are "high-value" and whether they are in healthy, long-term relationships. You can think you're high-value all you want, you can look great on paper, but the proof of the pudding is in the eating. My husband could be, according to your lights, a high-value man. In real life, he's on the spectrum and is impossible to live with. I will leave him. If you insist on being too highbrow, you're going to miss what's really important in a relationship - emotional connection.

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I treat women with respect, but I'm not obsequious towards them. Reciprocity is important and increasingly rare to find these days. I have a protective impulse, but I have learned to temper this impulse and make sure that my needs are being met as well.

All women are different, so you have to listen to their particular wants, needs and desires and adjust accordingly without completely sacrificing yourself or compromising who you are. I don't like being too rigid, so I accommodate, but only up to a point.  I have dated some women who liked one thing and then found it was the complete opposite with others.

What other nitty gritty would you like?[/quote]

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