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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Questions for high value man:

1) long term marriage with a comparable value wife. Dead bedroom. Not fix for years. What do you do?

[i]I think this depends on whether you have kids or not and what the home situation looks like. Presumably, if you have properly vetted your wife and she is a high value woman, then she deserves the benefit of the doubt to see if things can be worked out and if there is some underlying reason. I would be willing to prolong the dead bedroom period a bit for the sake of kids/stability, but eventually after a good faith effort to fix things, I would leave if the lack of sex is that important to me at that juncture in my life but make sure the kids would be ok. If I got the sense that the lack of sex was bothering me to the point that it was casting a pall over the household, I would first seek counsel and help to try to work through it, but then eventually leave. I've never been in that scenario, so I have no idea how I would feel after such a prolonged period.[/i]

2) does high value man work for money? Or does money work for you?

[i]If I had to pick, I would say the latter. That being said, I don't believe that being in the former category precludes you from being a HVM. It also depends on what stage of life you are in.[/i]

3) how does high value man spend his leisure time?

[i]Depends on his interests. I read, play sports, spend time with friends and family and travel. Business takes up a lot of time and energy though.[/i]

4) suppose high value man is in the middle aged dating market. Good not great first date with a possible high value woman. What is your next move?

[i]If you are really are a high value man, you should have prospects and a good amount of interest. Your time is valuable. The situation you're describing sounds full of doubt. When you encounter the type of woman that will be worth your time, it should be self-evident. You shouldn't be operating from a scarcity mindset.[/i]

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