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Anonymous wrote:Why aren't you married?
I had other priorities after a breakup that consumed my energies and attention.
What were those priorities?
Building a business and helping a sick family member. Both kind of draining.
How long ago was that break up?
4 years ago
Which # relationship ( 104 ) was it?
Not sure what 104 means. If you mean the chronological order of my serious relationships, it was 2nd.
Why did y'all break up?
Disagreements on big issues like kids, geography, etc.
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Do you consider yourself a feminist?
No. IME, they tend to be bad vibes and purport to be about choice but have very strong opinions about how other women should live their lives.
Who are you voting for this election?
They're both not very inspiring candidates and I am increasingly disillusioned with politics. The craft is dead. Will probably vote Democrat.
What are your thoughts on SAHMs?
I think it's a great option if a woman has the luxury to afford to do so. Nothing like a mother's touch. Whenever I see SAHM's getting a lot of grief it smacks of other women trying to impose their own ideas. These are old/tired debates though.
Answers in italics. Lot of questions, so I kept it pretty terse.
Boring answers from a basic man.
What, if anything, makes you truly exceptional?
Exceptional is a pretty high bar. I'm not that. There are plenty of men like me around. I live a good, well-balanced life though and that has been attractive to more than enough women.
If you are in such dire need of entertainment, might I suggest Netflix?
So... you're average? Why did you frame yourself as a 'high-value man' when you bring nothing above average (save your fragility, which is somewhat striking) to the table?
No. This may just be semantic differences. Someone exceptional is like an Obama. The few exceptional people that I know personally often lack balance though.
High-value, in this context, is just a man who is desirable to women for various reasons as attested by them. It is often about the totality of the package rather than any particular trait. In my case, a combination of good education, stability, commitment to self improvement, being in shape, good relationships and social circles, mindfulness/attentiveness are some of what they've told me. This really shouldn't be like finding a unicorn.
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