He doesn’t want to see me after I disclosed health results

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand why you are so mad at him. Wouldn’t you do the same thing? It seems reasonable. He is probably wondering if you have been sleeping around.

He is well within his rights to ask for time, consult a doctor, etc. He could continue to see me if he wanted to but he’s choosing instead to cut off contact, which is very rejecting and hurtful.

Good point. Why can’t he even go to dinner or watch a movie with you while he figures this out. He could just put a pause on intimacy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand why you are so mad at him. Wouldn’t you do the same thing? It seems reasonable. He is probably wondering if you have been sleeping around.

He is well within his rights to ask for time, consult a doctor, etc. He could continue to see me if he wanted to but he’s choosing instead to cut off contact, which is very rejecting and hurtful.

If you think he is hurtful. Move on.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand why you are so mad at him. Wouldn’t you do the same thing? It seems reasonable. He is probably wondering if you have been sleeping around.

He is well within his rights to ask for time, consult a doctor, etc. He could continue to see me if he wanted to but he’s choosing instead to cut off contact, which is very rejecting and hurtful.

Good point. Why can’t he even go to dinner or watch a movie with you while he figures this out. He could just put a pause on intimacy.

Obviously afraid of complicating things and reading OP's posts, rightfully so.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand why you are so mad at him. Wouldn’t you do the same thing? It seems reasonable. He is probably wondering if you have been sleeping around.

He is well within his rights to ask for time, consult a doctor, etc. He could continue to see me if he wanted to but he’s choosing instead to cut off contact, which is very rejecting and hurtful.

If you think he is hurtful. Move on.

Yes. That’s the plan. (You don’t think he’s hurtful by doing this PP?)

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand why you are so mad at him. Wouldn’t you do the same thing? It seems reasonable. He is probably wondering if you have been sleeping around.

He is well within his rights to ask for time, consult a doctor, etc. He could continue to see me if he wanted to but he’s choosing instead to cut off contact, which is very rejecting and hurtful.

What does this mean?

Good point. Why can’t he even go to dinner or watch a movie with you while he figures this out. He could just put a pause on intimacy.

Obviously afraid of complicating things and reading OP's posts, rightfully so.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Obviously afraid of complicating things and reading OP's posts, rightfully so.

What does this mean

[Anonymous]

It's OK, OP. He's entitled to consult his doctor and think about it. I think it's a good sign that he's not a risk-taker. You wouldn't want that in a husband, would you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's OK, OP. He's entitled to consult his doctor and think about it. I think it's a good sign that he's not a risk-taker. You wouldn't want that in a husband, would you?

Think about what? The equivalent of a common cold of sexually active adults? He can’t see OP anymore because of that? And sounds like he probably passed it to her too

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Op, this doesn’t make sense. Why did your doctor test you for low risk strains? My doctor only tests for the high risk strains that cause cancer. I didn’t know doctors even tested for low risk strains. I know the test exists but it’s not normal to test for low risk hpv in a screening hpv test if the paps are all normal.

OP here—I checked my results page and it said negative for strains 16, 18 and 45. It didn’t say anything about being positive for anything else. The person who called me with results said I tested negative for the three cancer-causing strains and positive for a low-risk strain but didn’t give a number. They said come back in a year to get rechecked. I went to a Planned Parenthood clinic if it makes any difference.

This doesn’t make sense. Get the full results and follow up with doctor

[Anonymous]

OP sounds exhausting. I can see this as him using it as his way out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP sounds exhausting. I can see this as him using it as his way out.

What did OP do wrong?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP sounds exhausting. I can see this as him using it as his way out.

She seems pretty composed. And I agree with the guy taking time to understand.

[Anonymous]

Let s be real.
He most likely gave it to you.

And he most likely got it from another woman he was sleeping with recently.

Bottom line he's a cheat. Who is now going to pretend he's not and is going to scapegoat you.

Drop him.

[Anonymous]

It’s a non cancerous strain. What’s the big deal? If it were a plantars wart would people have the same hang ups? Weird.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s a non cancerous strain. What’s the big deal? If it were a plantars wart would people have the same hang ups? Weird.

You don’t think genital warts are a big deal?