S/O You can be canceled even if you aren’t a bigot, it happened to me

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Unless you tell us what you said, you are a racist. Bcs not posting what you said means you know it was wrong.

No, it’s protecting my identity. What I said was NOT wrong.

So you say. I had a guy at work rant at me about how he was labeled a racist for saying we are all IMMIGRANTS here unless we are native, and what is racist about that?
Honestly, at this point, you are coming as horribly defensive and a bigot. Narcissist as well.

Are you trying to say the guy at work said something wrong?

Yes, 100%. I am an immigrant here; he is not.I immigrated to this county, whereas his family was colonists. Are we calling colonists immigrants now? No doubt this is op, who is a bigot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Unless you tell us what you said, you are a racist. Bcs not posting what you said means you know it was wrong.

No, it’s protecting my identity. What I said was NOT wrong.

So you say. I had a guy at work rant at me about how he was labeled a racist for saying we are all IMMIGRANTS here unless we are native, and what is racist about that?
Honestly, at this point, you are coming as horribly defensive and a bigot. Narcissist as well.

what IS racist about that?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Unless you tell us what you said, you are a racist. Bcs not posting what you said means you know it was wrong.

No, it’s protecting my identity. What I said was NOT wrong.

Of course it was. Thank you for being the poster child for racists that never believe they are racist. It’s too bad you haven’t taken the time to reflect on your bigotry.

Jesus, are you a right-wing troll trying to make the left look foolish? Because you are succeeding. You sound like an idiot, PP. Stop your knees from jerking uncontrollably before you post again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Unless you tell us what you said, you are a racist. Bcs not posting what you said means you know it was wrong.

No, it’s protecting my identity. What I said was NOT wrong.

So you say. I had a guy at work rant at me about how he was labeled a racist for saying we are all IMMIGRANTS here unless we are native, and what is racist about that?
Honestly, at this point, you are coming as horribly defensive and a bigot. Narcissist as well.

Are you trying to say the guy at work said something wrong?

Yes, 100%. I am an immigrant here; he is not.I immigrated to this county, whereas his family was colonists. Are we calling colonists immigrants now? No doubt this is op, who is a bigot.

Are you kidding? We are all immigrants in this country, unless we are native americans. It doesn't matter if it's you, your parents, your grandparents, whatever. We are all immigrant families. You are just apparently generation zero. So what. Your kids are first generation and it goes on from there. Just like all the rest of us.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Unless you tell us what you said, you are a racist. Bcs not posting what you said means you know it was wrong.

No, it’s protecting my identity. What I said was NOT wrong.

So you say. I had a guy at work rant at me about how he was labeled a racist for saying we are all IMMIGRANTS here unless we are native, and what is racist about that?
Honestly, at this point, you are coming as horribly defensive and a bigot. Narcissist as well.

what IS racist about that?

Just BCS, you don't know you are racist does not make you any less racist. The guy at work is a bigot. Plus, way to showcase your lack of knowledge about discrimination. There is a reason he said that, to prove that he is just as disadvantaged!!!! as those immigrants. Plus, to showcase his hate for new immigrants.
Way to go bigots of the world.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Unless you tell us what you said, you are a racist. Bcs not posting what you said means you know it was wrong.

No, it’s protecting my identity. What I said was NOT wrong.

Of course it was. Thank you for being the poster child for racists that never believe they are racist. It’s too bad you haven’t taken the time to reflect on your bigotry.

Jesus, are you a right-wing troll trying to make the left look foolish? Because you are succeeding. You sound like an idiot, PP. Stop your knees from jerking uncontrollably before you post again.

+1. Ironically, these posters are proving OP’s point.

I’m sorry that happened to you, OP, and I 100% believe it could.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Unless you tell us what you said, you are a racist. Bcs not posting what you said means you know it was wrong.

No, it’s protecting my identity. What I said was NOT wrong.

So you say. I had a guy at work rant at me about how he was labeled a racist for saying we are all IMMIGRANTS here unless we are native, and what is racist about that?
Honestly, at this point, you are coming as horribly defensive and a bigot. Narcissist as well.

Are you trying to say the guy at work said something wrong?

Yes, 100%. I am an immigrant here; he is not.I immigrated to this county, whereas his family was colonists. Are we calling colonists immigrants now? No doubt this is op, who is a bigot.

Are you kidding? We are all immigrants in this country, unless we are native americans. It doesn't matter if it's you, your parents, your grandparents, whatever. We are all immigrant families. You are just apparently generation zero. So what. Your kids are first generation and it goes on from there. Just like all the rest of us.

I am sure all those killed Native Americans should be ashamed of not embracing such an excellent "immigrant" Columbus!"

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I completely see why you don’t want to provide details OP. But you aren’t going to get a bunch of people rushing to support you without details.

I am an employment discrimination lawyer. The certainty with which people believe they have been wronged bears absolutely no relation to whether they have actually been wronged. On both sides of of the equation— the victims and the accusers.

Not looking for support, just trying to get people to understand that a person being cancelled is not evidence of them deserving it. Sometimes deeply unfair things happen to people.

But it becomes a self-reinforcing belief: if they were cancelled, they must have deserved it, and if they deserved it, we shouldn’t listen to anything else they say.

I also get tired of people conflating the “cancellation” of rich and powerful people who committed public or well known wrongs (most of these people are never truly cancelled because they are rich and powerful, so unless they wind up in prison, they’ll be ok).

And private people who are cancelled on the basis of a rumor or unproven allegation. They aren’t the same. There was no formal investigation into my situation (I wish there had been, as it would have vindicated me) and most of the people who canceled me knew nothing more about it than they had been told third or fourth hand. Very different than a public investigation.

I was compelled to post because the thread about the teen reminded me of how easily rumors and an eager audience can destroy a person’s life.

The way “cancelled” is thrown around in these threads is baffling to me. Like the way every act of rudeness/meanness/unfriendliness is now called “bullying.”

I thought cancellation was a conservative grievance term for the removal of a public platform, like his show/commercial/book publication was cancelled. How is that even possible in the context of a private person? If OP was dropped from a friend or work group for something they said, are we calling that being “cancelled’ now?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Unless you tell us what you said, you are a racist. Bcs not posting what you said means you know it was wrong.

No, it’s protecting my identity. What I said was NOT wrong.

So you say. I had a guy at work rant at me about how he was labeled a racist for saying we are all IMMIGRANTS here unless we are native, and what is racist about that?
Honestly, at this point, you are coming as horribly defensive and a bigot. Narcissist as well.

what IS racist about that?

Just BCS, you don't know you are racist does not make you any less racist. The guy at work is a bigot. Plus, way to showcase your lack of knowledge about discrimination. There is a reason he said that, to prove that he is just as disadvantaged!!!! as those immigrants. Plus, to showcase his hate for new immigrants.
Way to go bigots of the world.

Um, no. I am very proud to be the very first person on one side of my family born in this country. Why in the world would you interpret his comment as veiled hatred for immigrants, when he is in fact saying he himself is from an immigrant family -- as we all are? He's probably saying shut the f up about it already, we've all BTDT and just move on. Like the rest of us have.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Unless you tell us what you said, you are a racist. Bcs not posting what you said means you know it was wrong.

No, it’s protecting my identity. What I said was NOT wrong.

So you say. I had a guy at work rant at me about how he was labeled a racist for saying we are all IMMIGRANTS here unless we are native, and what is racist about that?
Honestly, at this point, you are coming as horribly defensive and a bigot. Narcissist as well.

what IS racist about that?

Just BCS, you don't know you are racist does not make you any less racist. The guy at work is a bigot. Plus, way to showcase your lack of knowledge about discrimination. There is a reason he said that, to prove that he is just as disadvantaged!!!! as those immigrants. Plus, to showcase his hate for new immigrants.
Way to go bigots of the world.

Um, no. I am very proud to be the very first person on one side of my family born in this country. Why in the world would you interpret his comment as veiled hatred for immigrants, when he is in fact saying he himself is from an immigrant family -- as we all are? He's probably saying shut the f up about it already, we've all BTDT and just move on. Like the rest of us have.

Are you that bigoted? Yes, you are. Plus, usually, bigots like you think they are the biggest victims and there is no talking prior needed to showcase your hate for immigrants. Shut up already? I would say that to you.

[Anonymous]

But, when I tell bigoted Muricans they are not ALL immigrants, and not you are not VICTIMS, they come back with more bigoted crap that they think is not bigoted at all.
Oh, no come scream how I insulted you calling you MURICANS.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Unless you tell us what you said, you are a racist. Bcs not posting what you said means you know it was wrong.

No, it’s protecting my identity. What I said was NOT wrong.

So you say. I had a guy at work rant at me about how he was labeled a racist for saying we are all IMMIGRANTS here unless we are native, and what is racist about that?
Honestly, at this point, you are coming as horribly defensive and a bigot. Narcissist as well.

what IS racist about that?

Just BCS, you don't know you are racist does not make you any less racist. The guy at work is a bigot. Plus, way to showcase your lack of knowledge about discrimination. There is a reason he said that, to prove that he is just as disadvantaged!!!! as those immigrants. Plus, to showcase his hate for new immigrants.
Way to go bigots of the world.

Um, no. I am very proud to be the very first person on one side of my family born in this country. Why in the world would you interpret his comment as veiled hatred for immigrants, when he is in fact saying he himself is from an immigrant family -- as we all are? He's probably saying shut the f up about it already, we've all BTDT and just move on. Like the rest of us have.

No, we are not all from immigrant families. My husband's family has been here since 1700; they are no immigrants. Next thing you know, I shall proclaim myself an immigrant to Ireland BCS Keltoi used to live in Central Europe and the Balkans and my family immigrated to Ireland in 500 BC.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Unless you tell us what you said, you are a racist. Bcs not posting what you said means you know it was wrong.

No, it’s protecting my identity. What I said was NOT wrong.

So you say. I had a guy at work rant at me about how he was labeled a racist for saying we are all IMMIGRANTS here unless we are native, and what is racist about that?
Honestly, at this point, you are coming as horribly defensive and a bigot. Narcissist as well.

Are you trying to say the guy at work said something wrong?

Yes, 100%. I am an immigrant here; he is not.I immigrated to this county, whereas his family was colonists. Are we calling colonists immigrants now? No doubt this is op, who is a bigot.

Are you kidding? We are all immigrants in this country, unless we are native americans. It doesn't matter if it's you, your parents, your grandparents, whatever. We are all immigrant families. You are just apparently generation zero. So what. Your kids are first generation and it goes on from there. Just like all the rest of us.

I am sure all those killed Native Americans should be ashamed of not embracing such an excellent "immigrant" Columbus!"

What does that have to do with it? Embrace Columbus or not, that has nothing to do with what we are discussing. Here's you trying to decide what tired cliche to use in an argument:

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Unless you tell us what you said, you are a racist. Bcs not posting what you said means you know it was wrong.

No, it’s protecting my identity. What I said was NOT wrong.

So you say. I had a guy at work rant at me about how he was labeled a racist for saying we are all IMMIGRANTS here unless we are native, and what is racist about that?
Honestly, at this point, you are coming as horribly defensive and a bigot. Narcissist as well.

Are you trying to say the guy at work said something wrong?

Yes, 100%. I am an immigrant here; he is not.I immigrated to this county, whereas his family was colonists. Are we calling colonists immigrants now? No doubt this is op, who is a bigot.

Are you kidding? We are all immigrants in this country, unless we are native americans. It doesn't matter if it's you, your parents, your grandparents, whatever. We are all immigrant families. You are just apparently generation zero. So what. Your kids are first generation and it goes on from there. Just like all the rest of us.

I am sure all those killed Native Americans should be ashamed of not embracing such an excellent "immigrant" Columbus!"

What does that have to do with it? Embrace Columbus or not, that has nothing to do with what we are discussing. Here's you trying to decide what tired cliche to use in an argument:

Stupid don't know they are stupid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Unless you tell us what you said, you are a racist. Bcs not posting what you said means you know it was wrong.

No, it’s protecting my identity. What I said was NOT wrong.

So you say. I had a guy at work rant at me about how he was labeled a racist for saying we are all IMMIGRANTS here unless we are native, and what is racist about that?
Honestly, at this point, you are coming as horribly defensive and a bigot. Narcissist as well.

what IS racist about that?

Just BCS, you don't know you are racist does not make you any less racist. The guy at work is a bigot. Plus, way to showcase your lack of knowledge about discrimination. There is a reason he said that, to prove that he is just as disadvantaged!!!! as those immigrants. Plus, to showcase his hate for new immigrants.
Way to go bigots of the world.

Um, no. I am very proud to be the very first person on one side of my family born in this country. Why in the world would you interpret his comment as veiled hatred for immigrants, when he is in fact saying he himself is from an immigrant family -- as we all are? He's probably saying shut the f up about it already, we've all BTDT and just move on. Like the rest of us have.

Are you that bigoted? Yes, you are. Plus, usually, bigots like you think they are the biggest victims and there is no talking prior needed to showcase your hate for immigrants. Shut up already? I would say that to you.

You are psychotic. There is nothing in what I posted even remotely akin to bigotry or hatred of immigrants, or victimhood. That's in your own head.