Oh and by the way, schools in NY offers free support and the families above, who are majority Asian also gives their kids resources. They work extra to do this and like I said sacrifice. They also instill a very tough work ethic. |
Those “poor kids” are the result of a self-selection process of immigration. |
Who are you implying here is not sacrificing? |
Those kids are getting in trouble because police and school administrators are racist. It's not their fault. If you look at arrest and incarceration rates, black males are way overrepresented. |
So they are being framed? |
Yea sure place all blame on racism and not any accountability on the kids. Guess you can say the 13 year old kid who died in DC while trying to steal cars at 3-4 am is doing nothing wrong. It’s just racism. Sure, all these people incarcerated is because of racism, even though a large part of the police officers in DC are black. Guess they are perpetuating racism against their own people. Guess the data that shows black males as the highest perpetrator of crime by far than anyone else is false too. |
This is laughable. Are you actually arguing that the family, their values, and the hard work these kids do is not why these kids are where they are? Are you saying they got there just by self selection of immigration and then by osmosis just for being that? I’ve got a bridge to sell you. You are ignorant. You do realize that there are different parts of Asia and the majority of families that come here are from poor areas or were forced to flee because of war, brutal authoritarian regimes, etc….. BTW, many kids at Stuyvesant are from poor, uneducated families who work in Chinatown. They came here for a better life for themselves and their kids. But hey, you do you in your fantasy world that immigrants here all do well just due to being an immigrant. |
While this tangent is related to the original point of shitty parents, I don’t want to take away from the overarching theme of a kids desire, drive, and want for academics is usually determined by parents and that some parents just don’t care. These may be single black mothers and fathers or married white parents, or married black parents. Shitty parents come in all shapes and sizes. I know several parents who’s sole focus is sports for their elementary school aged children and laugh at how poorly their kids do in school. Some of these kids are PoC and now because their parents don’t care and the kids, predictably, score poorly, and now we should be concerned with equity? Because their parents don’t prioritize education. Like I said, the school can’t fix shitty parents. |
NP. There are multiple components to the systemic racism that leads to higher incarceration rates. Redlining Lack of generational wealth Untreated learning disabilities Harsher consequences at school Lack of knowledge about education/college Bias in hiring Bias in arrests Harsher sentencing It’s pretty easy for a kid to make a few mistakes when they are young and then never be able to pull themselves out of that hole. |
Nope, never said my kid hit a triple. The fact remains that for a huge list of reasons some kids have a leg-up whether due to intelligence, race, or simply opportunity and right now school systems like FCPS and APS are not giving them what they equitably need because yes it does mean that for the most part the gap will never close. I remember reading somewhere when my kids were little that a child whose parents read to them consistently from infancy had been exposed to literally hundreds of thousands more words by K than a child whose parents did not do so. Some show up reading early chapter books, other kids don't even know all their letters. Guess what, those kids aren't getting reading groups with the same amount of time and instruction during the week that meet them where they are. That's not equity no matter how much you want it to be. You're trying to fix societal inequity by dumbing down the classroom. |
Where is the personal responsibility? Generational wealth - shitty parents, a whole bunch of them but realistically, there are tons of normal everyday middle class Americans of all colors without generational wealth. Untreated learning disabilities - shitty parents Lack of knowledge about college - shitty parents Bias in arrests, sentencing - don’t care, stop committing crimes. This isn’t rocket science Bias in hiring - racist quota systems set up in many institutions now. But remaining bias may also exist because all of the above is true. So how does removing advanced math/tracking fix any of that? The kids who have bad parents and/or learning disabilities will still get as good an education as the school system is capable of giving. Systemic discrimination of kids with greater learning capabilities seems like a stupid answer to problems created by perceived systemic racism. |
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I agree 100%. If we are going to raise kids up, we need as many family-based early intervention programs and incentives as possible. We are only making things worse by lowering standards in the classroom and crippling advanced programs. |
This is a problem right here. Most of us want to understand assertions of "racism built into our systems and worldview." But there are rarely any specific examples given. Instead of pointing out specific examples of racism in systems that can be worked on, the argument is made that unequal outcomes must indicate racism. Well, anyone with intelligence and a bit of honesty will say that there are lots of rational reasons for differences in outcomes that are not due to racism. So, we don't fix real problems because all we do is vaguely point to "systemic racism." And frankly, I think more racism is being created by the so-called "anti-racism" efforts. |
This is always the argument, but underneath all of your privilege arguments is the biological reality that not everyone has the same academic potential. I'm sorry, they just don't. So, our job is to maximize performance and development for each child within their abilities. A child born to a drug addicted mother, who has eaten junk food his entire life, etc. typically has both genetic and environmental handicaps that will limit his performance, regardless of the effort made by society to counteract those handicaps. And honestly, if a society has limited resources, it is better for the group as a whole to focus resources on the ones who might innovate or create jobs for those less capable. Everyone is better off then. |