Would you date a bisexual man?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's hard enough to keep a straight man sexually satisfied and hope he doesn't cheat. At least men have to put up a good effort to get a woman to sleep with them.

Bi and gay men can get on an app and have many sex partners in moments. I can't imagine a bi man being faithful

If this is one’s reason to not date man then by definition it’s bi-phobic. You are afraid a bi man can’t be faithful due to his sexuality. It’s fine to feel this way. I just think it odd one would deny they are bi-phobic in this situation.

Straight men would cheat just as often as bi men if it were as easy to find someone to cheat with. It's not like straight men are naturally any more faithful.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's hard enough to keep a straight man sexually satisfied and hope he doesn't cheat. At least men have to put up a good effort to get a woman to sleep with them.

Bi and gay men can get on an app and have many sex partners in moments. I can't imagine a bi man being faithful

If this is one’s reason to not date man then by definition it’s bi-phobic. You are afraid a bi man can’t be faithful due to his sexuality. It’s fine to feel this way. I just think it odd one would deny they are bi-phobic in this situation.

Straight men would cheat just as often as bi men if it were as easy to find someone to cheat with. It's not like straight men are naturally any more faithful.

From the perspective of a heterosexual man, I think I'd be more inclined to be unfaithful knowing I was on the lookout for not just women, but men as well. Hell I'd be having so much sex I might actually get tired of it. I agree that heterosexual men are no more faithful, but if I were bi, I'd certainly have MANY more opportunities to cheat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No

Men sleeping with men is not a turn on for me.

Men sleeping with men is a huge turn on for me, so I do date bi men.

[Anonymous]

I don’t mind when my bi husband hooks up with other men because it’s just sex. Both parties know that, and that’s the best part. I’m glad he can get his rocks off when I’m not in the mood for it and then come back and get back to family business.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's hard enough to keep a straight man sexually satisfied and hope he doesn't cheat. At least men have to put up a good effort to get a woman to sleep with them.

Bi and gay men can get on an app and have many sex partners in moments. I can't imagine a bi man being faithful

If this is one’s reason to not date man then by definition it’s bi-phobic. You are afraid a bi man can’t be faithful due to his sexuality. It’s fine to feel this way. I just think it odd one would deny they are bi-phobic in this situation.

Straight men would cheat just as often as bi men if it were as easy to find someone to cheat with. It's not like straight men are naturally any more faithful.

From the perspective of a heterosexual man, I think I'd be more inclined to be unfaithful knowing I was on the lookout for not just women, but men as well. Hell I'd be having so much sex I might actually get tired of it. I agree that heterosexual men are no more faithful, but if I were bi, I'd certainly have MANY more opportunities to cheat.

I find it hard to believe that a heterosexual man wrote this. Sometimes, gay sex isn’t cheating, because there’s no emotional component to it. It’s just about finding a hole to stick it in. If there was an emotional component to it, then yes, I’d consider it cheating, but I doubt I’d be married to a woman in the first place in that situation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The answers on this thread are why your husband keeps it on the down low, like I do. I'll be having sex with your husband, while you're at the mall on Saturday.

Are you a bi guy? You honestly shouldn't say things like this, it makes you all sound like sl*ts lol.

I love how everyone is implying - even you - that bisexual men are somehow whores who can't keep it in their pants. Like, I assume if a bisexual man is married, he's not messing around with men because that would be cheating.

[Anonymous]

I’m a bi male. I enjoy sex with men, but I don’t want to be in a relationship with one. I want to marry a woman.

[Anonymous]

Bi woman here.
1. I exist
2. I'm not a lesbian
3. I'm not looking for male attention
4. I'm monogamous and always have been. Have never cheated.
5. It is Bi-phobic to not date a Bisexual person. You are literally afraid of them and have prejudices against them. That's what a phobia is. That's what this entire thread is.

[Anonymous]

My gaydar won't allow it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The answers on this thread are why your husband keeps it on the down low, like I do. I'll be having sex with your husband, while you're at the mall on Saturday.

Are you a bi guy? You honestly shouldn't say things like this, it makes you all sound like sl*ts lol.

I love how everyone is implying - even you - that bisexual men are somehow whores who can't keep it in their pants. Like, I assume if a bisexual man is married, he's not messing around with men because that would be cheating.

Why are you assuming that sex is cheating and that a man who has sex with another man is a whore? Lots of gay couples understand that sometimes sex us just sex, and it doesn’t really mean anything. I personally don’t think that’s cheating.

https://www.politico.com/magazine/story/2015/06/gay-marriages-better-than-straight-marriages-119465/

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Bi woman here.
1. I exist
2. I'm not a lesbian
3. I'm not looking for male attention
4. I'm monogamous and always have been. Have never cheated.
5. It is Bi-phobic to not date a Bisexual person. You are literally afraid of them and have prejudices against them. That's what a phobia is. That's what this entire thread is.

I'd prefer not to compete with the entire human race. Competing against other women is difficult enough.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Bi woman here.
1. I exist
2. I'm not a lesbian
3. I'm not looking for male attention
4. I'm monogamous and always have been. Have never cheated.
5. It is Bi-phobic to not date a Bisexual person. You are literally afraid of them and have prejudices against them. That's what a phobia is. That's what this entire thread is.

I'd prefer not to compete with the entire human race. Competing against other women is difficult enough.

What? Why are you in competition? That's really a messed up thing to think. Also- just b.c a person is Bi doesn't mean they are attracted to the entire human race. We are human beings not sex robots.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No

Men sleeping with men is not a turn on for me.

Men sleeping with men is a huge turn on for me, so I do date bi men.

It’s a huge turn on for many, many women; even married women who never plan to act on their turn-on. Simply hot!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Bi woman here.
1. I exist
2. I'm not a lesbian
3. I'm not looking for male attention
4. I'm monogamous and always have been. Have never cheated.
5. It is Bi-phobic to not date a Bisexual person. You are literally afraid of them and have prejudices against them. That's what a phobia is. That's what this entire thread is.

That's simply false.

Some aren't attracted to brunettes.

Some aren't attracted to flat butts.

Some aren't attracted to white men.

Some aren't attracted to short or bald men.

And some aren't attracted to men who sleep with men.

We all have our own dating preferences. Is what it is.

[Anonymous]

Absolutely NOT