How do you get an affair/relationship started with another married person?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That damned HIV ruined everything!!

If you stay with one AP and you are both clean... How does HIV fit into the picture?

[Anonymous]

Hi, Im in Los Angeles and I would love to have a one time affair with my married former boss. He is handsome, and we flirted throughout our work relationship. It was so much fun, that I would like to give each other a farewell gift and take it to the next level. Just one time. I am in along term committed relationship, but it's become a bit dull. I think this will help with my own relationship, possibly his as well, since he has been married for 15 years. I am assuming his sex life consists of porn and naughty thoughts. I told him I was sexually attracted to him....

[Anonymous]

I was a second year associate who was helping prepare a case for trial with a very cute, older partner. We had a lot of late nights at the office together and occasionally a meal or drink after work. One thing led to another.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do everyone a favor, act mature and get divorced first.

Why do people assume that "monogamy" fits all marriages. My DW and I are more than happy to bring outher partners into our marriage. We are just very clear about expectations. Sometimes it is great to wake up between the naked bodies of my wife and another woman. Happy feelings all around.

[Anonymous]

I'd fuck you up if I found out you went after my man.

Consider yourself warned.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hi, Im in Los Angeles and I would love to have a one time affair with my married former boss. He is handsome, and we flirted throughout our work relationship. It was so much fun, that I would like to give each other a farewell gift and take it to the next level. Just one time. I am in along term committed relationship, but it's become a bit dull. I think this will help with my own relationship, possibly his as well, since he has been married for 15 years. I am assuming his sex life consists of porn and naughty thoughts. I told him I was sexually attracted to him....

Why post on a DC board?

[Anonymous]

I would like to get advise from an East coast perspective. I want to be as anonymous as possible, should any of my coworkers be reading through these threads. It takes two...he started with the flirting, and I enjoyed it. I would like to finish the business we started, once and for all. I told him I was very sexually attracted to him and that he made me hot, and since we don't work together anymore, I don't see him. He thanked me for the compliment and told me to make sure I attend the events the company has..it's a media company. So, I am assuming he was flattered and encouraging me to attend the events that he will obviously be at is only an invitation to continue this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would like to get advise from an East coast perspective. I want to be as anonymous as possible, should any of my coworkers be reading through these threads. It takes two...he started with the flirting, and I enjoyed it. I would like to finish the business we started, once and for all. I told him I was very sexually attracted to him and that he made me hot, and since we don't work together anymore, I don't see him. He thanked me for the compliment and told me to make sure I attend the events the company has..it's a media company. So, I am assuming he was flattered and encouraging me to attend the events that he will obviously be at is only an invitation to continue this.

Well, what did your long-term committed partner think when you discussed this?

I mean, since you think it will be good for your relationship and all...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would like to get advise from an East coast perspective. I want to be as anonymous as possible, should any of my coworkers be reading through these threads. It takes two...he started with the flirting, and I enjoyed it. I would like to finish the business we started, once and for all. I told him I was very sexually attracted to him and that he made me hot, and since we don't work together anymore, I don't see him. He thanked me for the compliment and told me to make sure I attend the events the company has..it's a media company. So, I am assuming he was flattered and encouraging me to attend the events that he will obviously be at is only an invitation to continue this.

Just send him a flirting email and see what happens.

[Anonymous]

Find a single person.

You aren't all that or you'd be able to land a hot, rich single guy with no kids....like his wife did.

You are trash,

[Anonymous]

Hey bitch, I am fucking your husband right now. You ain't all that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hey bitch, I am fucking your husband right now. You ain't all that.

Umm --he's sitting right next to me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do everyone a favor, act mature and get divorced first.

Why do people assume that "monogamy" fits all marriages. My DW and I are more than happy to bring outher partners into our marriage. We are just very clear about expectations. Sometimes it is great to wake up between the naked bodies of my wife and another woman. Happy feelings all around.

Of course it doesn't fit all marriages and your situation is different because you two are being honest so stop trying to be obtuse. If you're going to step out without letting your partner know, yeah, it's a bitch move and you should get divorced first.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Find a single person.

You aren't all that or you'd be able to land a hot, rich single guy with no kids....like his wife did.

You are trash,

+1

Not good enough to be a first wife. Sloppy seconds.

[Anonymous]

This thread is really interesting.

I've been occasionally hanging out with this guy for 3 yrs now. We seldom see each other but when we do I feel like I really wanna go for it and actually seduce him. The last time we hung out, I thought this was the night I was gonna go for it because he kept saying that he needed sex and he hasn't been getting much from his wife and was thinking of getting it on with these 2 girls at work but I felt that he needed a friend more than a lover. He was also telling me all of his problems with his sick parents and career. So I just listened to him all night.

Another reason that's keeping me from going for it is that I'm afraid that our friendship will end once we actually start an affair.

He told me a few years back that he's had an affair but terribly regretted it. I see that he is also attracted to me but I can't exactly tell if he's just a tease or the type of guy who'd really go for it.

Would a guy talk about sex with a female even if he doesn't want to do it with her and would prefer doing it with someone else?