| Just curious, how was the cheating discovered? Were you the cheater or cheatee? |
| First time his coworker called and was talking to him about a doctors appt. I kept questioning him about that. He confessed because I wouldnt shut up about it. Second time the woman's husband called me. My ex husband didn't know she was married. The husband had already spoken to mine. I didn't believe him. So he says hold on I'll put your husband on 3way. He asks my dumb ass ex if he needs to get checked, he wants to know if they used a condom. My ex says yeah every single time. |
| To date have not been discovered. Wipe all electronics, only use a secure phone, never use a home computer, no credit cards just cash and gift cards and always run a SDR before meeting AP. |
| SDR? |
| Sdr? |
| Surveillance Detection Run |
LOL ok James Bond |
Cash requires an ATM. That would be one way to get caught. |
No it doesn't. you can get a cash withdrawal at your bank, or cash back at any store where you use your debit and it doesn't show up on your statement as cash back. |
True, but it is a transaction, and let's say you get $100 from the grocery store, that would be an obvious hit. Of course, some couples use separate accounts for everything, so that is one way to not get caught I guess. Cash withdrawal at a bank is withdrawal on a statement, I know this from experience. |
ATMs don't track where the money was spent. Taking out a large amount would draw red flags so just take out smaller amounts over a period of time. |
| mileage on car |
| my best friend at the time told on me because he wanted the girl I was sleeping with. |
| DH came home from work reeking of pussy. Busted! |
I always thought about this on mad men. Or did everyone smoke so much they couldn't smell or taste anything? |