| My APs wife called me after she hacked his phone. I'm actually amazed she didn't catch him sooner with all of his strange "working late" hours and not answering her calls when we traveled. |
It wasn't much if a double life, to be honest. And it was really really wonderful. Best thing I did for myself that year. I miss it. I regret the hurt I caused my marriage, but not much else. |
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The location services on cell is very useful to see where they have been. |
Do you regularly track your SO? |
Of course not ! they said they were at a meeting I thought bs and showed they were screwing at a hotel at different location. Liars don't come clean without evidence. Yes, they were cheating and yes we are divorced |
How was your home sex life prior to the affair? |
NP here. Immaterial. |
Tracking won't always work. I never lied about my whereabouts. If I went somewhere, I told my DH, included something plausible about why I was there (e.g. picking up lunch and some new towels at whatever store ...) Plus, AP & I had sex at my house. So. I was at home. |
I've always been afraid to have sex at my house or Ap's house. Even when one of our spouses goes away. I worry someone will come home unexpectedly. We meet st hotels, or we cat sit for a good friend of mine |
Yeah, taking care of a pussy is a good excuse. :p |
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Two former friends got discovered by the wife from a hotel bill that came home for a time when the guy was supposed to be somewhere else. The guy got found out and gave up the affair to save his marriage. Woman's husband never found out but they got divorced soon afterwards anyway.
I often think of these former "friends" and how false they were to me and to their spouses. They often used me on restaurant dates as an "extra" (before I knew they were sleeping together) to throw off suspicion that they were spending so much time together and were an item. I thought they were friends, but they didn't really care about me. I was so dumb. |
So clearly he stepped for the sex and passion missing from home. |
Did you have sex with AP in the marital bed?
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Wow lots of naughty women on here! 14:49 15:02! You all are good operators. |