NY mom murdered

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Husband and 12th grader son were in Ann Arbor, Mich. visiting UMich at time of murder. Husband is a UMich alum. Pretty odd for the victim / wife / mom to not go with them on kid’s official college visit. Which suggests marital issues, right?

https://www.freep.com/story/news/local/michigan/2022/04/21/wife-found-duffel-bag-husband-son-college-tour-ann-arbor/7358919001/

No. That’s not weird. My husband and my daughter (a junior) are going to be taking 3 college trips (flying) this summer. I am not going because I have to stay home with our younger child who will also have a lot going on. I also work full time and would rather use that time for family vacation. DH owns his own business and has a much more flexible schedule than I do. We are happily married.

Agree people split up responsibilities all the time. It's pretty common. I don't find that unusual.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Husband and 12th grader son were in Ann Arbor, Mich. visiting UMich at time of murder. Husband is a UMich alum. Pretty odd for the victim / wife / mom to not go with them on kid’s official college visit. Which suggests marital issues, right?

https://www.freep.com/story/news/local/michigan/2022/04/21/wife-found-duffel-bag-husband-son-college-tour-ann-arbor/7358919001/

No. That’s not weird. My husband and my daughter (a junior) are going to be taking 3 college trips (flying) this summer. I am not going because I have to stay home with our younger child who will also have a lot going on. I also work full time and would rather use that time for family vacation. DH owns his own business and has a much more flexible schedule than I do. We are happily married.

Take this as you will, my friend's husband cheated and the affair partner would arrange things to get the husband away for the weekend with her teen sons. She actually scheduled a bunch of college trips for them for the purpose of getting her freak on. AND, she was a stay-at-home mom so it's not like she had a job to use as an excuse. She also had the husband do most of the boys' activities/sports, etc.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Husband and 12th grader son were in Ann Arbor, Mich. visiting UMich at time of murder. Husband is a UMich alum. Pretty odd for the victim / wife / mom to not go with them on kid’s official college visit. Which suggests marital issues, right?

https://www.freep.com/story/news/local/michigan/2022/04/21/wife-found-duffel-bag-husband-son-college-tour-ann-arbor/7358919001/

No. That’s not weird. My husband and my daughter (a junior) are going to be taking 3 college trips (flying) this summer. I am not going because I have to stay home with our younger child who will also have a lot going on. I also work full time and would rather use that time for family vacation. DH owns his own business and has a much more flexible schedule than I do. We are happily married.

Take this as you will, my friend's husband cheated and the affair partner would arrange things to get the husband away for the weekend with her teen sons. She actually scheduled a bunch of college trips for them for the purpose of getting her freak on. AND, she was a stay-at-home mom so it's not like she had a job to use as an excuse. She also had the husband do most of the boys' activities/sports, etc.

This is common. If they can't come up with reasons they need to be out of town---they can only use so many 'going to visit Susie', they start arranging things to get the rest of the family out of town. Suggest it will be a good 'father-son' bonding or 'I need to stay home with the dog' or 'teach my exercise class', some other BS.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This article says Bonola was a creeper who harassed the young women working at the local Starbucks to the point they had called the cops!

https://nypost.com/2022/04/22/orsolya-gaal-let-david-bonola-into-her-home-before-repeatedly-asking-him-leave/

I just read he was married and had kids too. Supposedly was 'separated' and not living with them currently.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This article says Bonola was a creeper who harassed the young women working at the local Starbucks to the point they had called the cops!

https://nypost.com/2022/04/22/orsolya-gaal-let-david-bonola-into-her-home-before-repeatedly-asking-him-leave/

I just read he was married and had kids too. Supposedly was 'separated' and not living with them currently.

YIKES--he not looking good in that courtroom photo. Looks scary.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This article says Bonola was a creeper who harassed the young women working at the local Starbucks to the point they had called the cops!

https://nypost.com/2022/04/22/orsolya-gaal-let-david-bonola-into-her-home-before-repeatedly-asking-him-leave/

I just read he was married and had kids too. Supposedly was 'separated' and not living with them currently.

YIKES--he not looking good in that courtroom photo. Looks scary.

Queens mom Orsolya Gaal willingly let her ex-handyman lover into her home early Saturday morning." WTF? She let her lover in at 1am with her 13-year old asleep upstairs. JFC.

[Anonymous]

“He even went as far as proposing to two of us, which is super unsettling because of how weird the interactions were,” she said. Good lord. This guy was openly a creep. Stalking and leaving love notes for young baristas. Why would this woman have a 2 year affair with this loser?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Husband and 12th grader son were in Ann Arbor, Mich. visiting UMich at time of murder. Husband is a UMich alum. Pretty odd for the victim / wife / mom to not go with them on kid’s official college visit. Which suggests marital issues, right?

https://www.freep.com/story/news/local/michigan/2022/04/21/wife-found-duffel-bag-husband-son-college-tour-ann-arbor/7358919001/

No. That’s not weird. My husband and my daughter (a junior) are going to be taking 3 college trips (flying) this summer. I am not going because I have to stay home with our younger child who will also have a lot going on. I also work full time and would rather use that time for family vacation. DH owns his own business and has a much more flexible schedule than I do. We are happily married.

Take this as you will, my friend's husband cheated and the affair partner would arrange things to get the husband away for the weekend with her teen sons. She actually scheduled a bunch of college trips for them for the purpose of getting her freak on. AND, she was a stay-at-home mom so it's not like she had a job to use as an excuse. She also had the husband do most of the boys' activities/sports, etc.

This is common. If they can't come up with reasons they need to be out of town---they can only use so many 'going to visit Susie', they start arranging things to get the rest of the family out of town. Suggest it will be a good 'father-son' bonding or 'I need to stay home with the dog' or 'teach my exercise class', some other BS.

Well, I can assure you that's not me. A lot of times, DH and I have to divide and conquer with our kids because we can't be in two places at once. Not saying it doesn't happen, but a mom staying home with a 13 YO while the dad is on a college trip with the son is not suspicious. Maybe the 13 YO had a hockey game or other activities/commitments and they couldn't travel as a family.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:“He even went as far as proposing to two of us, which is super unsettling because of how weird the interactions were,” she said. Good lord. This guy was openly a creep. Stalking and leaving love notes for young baristas. Why would this woman have a 2 year affair with this loser?

Because she needed her narc supply of attention and adoration. That's why she posted so many photos. I knew a narcissist who married a complete loser because he showered her with nonstop attention. Once he stopped she made his life a living hell.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This article says Bonola was a creeper who harassed the young women working at the local Starbucks to the point they had called the cops!

https://nypost.com/2022/04/22/orsolya-gaal-let-david-bonola-into-her-home-before-repeatedly-asking-him-leave/

I just read he was married and had kids too. Supposedly was 'separated' and not living with them currently.

YIKES--he not looking good in that courtroom photo. Looks scary.

Queens mom Orsolya Gaal willingly let her ex-handyman lover into her home early Saturday morning." WTF? She let her lover in at 1am with her 13-year old asleep upstairs. JFC.

In addition to the shock and hurt from betrayal, there is the seething anger that she endangered their son’s life.

This is why cheaters make me so angry. Just get divorced. They invite craziness and kooky people into the family’s orbit—betrayed spouses, crazy stalkers, mentally unstable women/men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This article says Bonola was a creeper who harassed the young women working at the local Starbucks to the point they had called the cops!

https://nypost.com/2022/04/22/orsolya-gaal-let-david-bonola-into-her-home-before-repeatedly-asking-him-leave/

I just read he was married and had kids too. Supposedly was 'separated' and not living with them currently.

YIKES--he not looking good in that courtroom photo. Looks scary.

Queens mom Orsolya Gaal willingly let her ex-handyman lover into her home early Saturday morning." WTF? She let her lover in at 1am with her 13-year old asleep upstairs. JFC.

In addition to the shock and hurt from betrayal, there is the seething anger that she endangered their son’s life.

This is why cheaters make me so angry. Just get divorced. They invite craziness and kooky people into the family’s orbit—betrayed spouses, crazy stalkers, mentally unstable women/men.

Grief mixed with complete anger at her, I’m sure.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This article says Bonola was a creeper who harassed the young women working at the local Starbucks to the point they had called the cops!

https://nypost.com/2022/04/22/orsolya-gaal-let-david-bonola-into-her-home-before-repeatedly-asking-him-leave/

I just read he was married and had kids too. Supposedly was 'separated' and not living with them currently.

YIKES--he not looking good in that courtroom photo. Looks scary.

Queens mom Orsolya Gaal willingly let her ex-handyman lover into her home early Saturday morning." WTF? She let her lover in at 1am with her 13-year old asleep upstairs. JFC.

In addition to the shock and hurt from betrayal, there is the seething anger that she endangered their son’s life.

This is why cheaters make me so angry. Just get divorced. They invite craziness and kooky people into the family’s orbit—betrayed spouses, crazy stalkers, mentally unstable women/men.

Grief mixed with complete anger at her, I’m sure.

And throw in humiliation as well, particularly the caliber of the guy and that it was shown she had a bunch of horse in the stable (online dating with 3 men on the hook), being cheated on like that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This article says Bonola was a creeper who harassed the young women working at the local Starbucks to the point they had called the cops!

https://nypost.com/2022/04/22/orsolya-gaal-let-david-bonola-into-her-home-before-repeatedly-asking-him-leave/

I just read he was married and had kids too. Supposedly was 'separated' and not living with them currently.

YIKES--he not looking good in that courtroom photo. Looks scary.

Queens mom Orsolya Gaal willingly let her ex-handyman lover into her home early Saturday morning." WTF? She let her lover in at 1am with her 13-year old asleep upstairs. JFC.

In addition to the shock and hurt from betrayal, there is the seething anger that she endangered their son’s life.

This is why cheaters make me so angry. Just get divorced. They invite craziness and kooky people into the family’s orbit—betrayed spouses, crazy stalkers, mentally unstable women/men.

Grief mixed with complete anger at her, I’m sure.

And throw in humiliation as well, particularly the caliber of the guy and that it was shown she had a bunch of horse in the stable (online dating with 3 men on the hook), being cheated on like that.

Maybe he was an innocent victim, maybe they had a horrible marriage, we really don't know...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This article says Bonola was a creeper who harassed the young women working at the local Starbucks to the point they had called the cops!

https://nypost.com/2022/04/22/orsolya-gaal-let-david-bonola-into-her-home-before-repeatedly-asking-him-leave/

I just read he was married and had kids too. Supposedly was 'separated' and not living with them currently.

YIKES--he not looking good in that courtroom photo. Looks scary.

Queens mom Orsolya Gaal willingly let her ex-handyman lover into her home early Saturday morning." WTF? She let her lover in at 1am with her 13-year old asleep upstairs. JFC.

In addition to the shock and hurt from betrayal, there is the seething anger that she endangered their son’s life.

This is why cheaters make me so angry. Just get divorced. They invite craziness and kooky people into the family’s orbit—betrayed spouses, crazy stalkers, mentally unstable women/men.

Grief mixed with complete anger at her, I’m sure.

And throw in humiliation as well, particularly the caliber of the guy and that it was shown she had a bunch of horse in the stable (online dating with 3 men on the hook), being cheated on like that.

Maybe he was an innocent victim, maybe they had a horrible marriage, we really don't know...

She didn't work so her solution was to live off hubby's $$ to keep the lifestyle while banging the swarmy AC repairman, and as he got crazier/dangerous--start looking for new lovers online.

Nice.

[Anonymous]

"Bonola, who hails from Mexico and had moved to the U.S. more than 20 years ago, was arrested on Thursday in the early hours of the morning. Why did he need a Spanish interpreter in court then? He had been in the US for 20 years.