NY mom murdered

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

You're disgusting. Having a fling doesn't mean the death penalty is warrented.

You know roughly 50% of marriages someone cheats right? So flip a coin, heads your husband (if you have one) has cheated on you or will.want him to be murdered? Pathetic.,

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

You're disgusting. Having a fling doesn't mean the death penalty is warrented.

You know roughly 50% of marriages someone cheats right? So flip a coin, heads your husband (if you have one) has cheated on you or will.want him to be murdered? Pathetic.,

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i unfortunately suspect the husband is abusive and he killed her. his facts are made up

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The daily mail is not a reliable news source. Pure unvetted tabloid.

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

You're disgusting. Having a fling doesn't mean the death penalty is warrented.

You know roughly 50% of marriages someone cheats right? So flip a coin, heads your husband (if you have one) has cheated on you or will.want him to be murdered? Pathetic.,

+1

She wasn't having a 'fling'. A fling is a one-night stand with a stranger you met at the coffee shop or a wine night.

She was literally having sex in her home under the roof of her children with an employee of the household over a long-term.

She was both unfaithful to her marriage and an immoral parent of her children and that's not even touching on the multiple men in her phone otherwise.

I bet the police had to make some fun household calls to interview those APs and their wives put 2 & 2 together quite quickly as this woman was all over the news.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:i unfortunately suspect the husband is abusive and he killed her. his facts are made up

What? The handyman already confessed.

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

You're disgusting. Having a fling doesn't mean the death penalty is warrented.

You know roughly 50% of marriages someone cheats right? So flip a coin, heads your husband (if you have one) has cheated on you or will.want him to be murdered? Pathetic.,

+1

She wasn't having a 'fling'. A fling is a one-night stand with a stranger you met at the coffee shop or a wine night.

She was literally having sex in her home under the roof of her children with an employee of the household over a long-term.

She was both unfaithful to her marriage and an immoral parent of her children and that's not even touching on the multiple men in her phone otherwise.

I bet the police had to make some fun household calls to interview those APs and their wives put 2 & 2 together quite quickly as this woman was all over the news.

You can stop being so jealous of her, she's gone.

Unclench your jaw.

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DP here-not sure why anyone would be jealous of her? She apparently had the trappings of a picture perfect life. Underneath she was deeply unhappy, probably stuck in the marriage for financial reasons. I’ll take my < 1 million home, imperfect looks and body but entirely happy self anyday.

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Anonymous wrote:DP here-not sure why anyone would be jealous of her? She apparently had the trappings of a picture perfect life. Underneath she was deeply unhappy, probably stuck in the marriage for financial reasons. I’ll take my < 1 million home, imperfect looks and body but entirely happy self anyday.

Jealous of a woman banging a 5’3” stinky illegal AC repairman who has a drinking problem and is a barfly. Yeah, ok.

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

You're disgusting. Having a fling doesn't mean the death penalty is warrented.

You know roughly 50% of marriages someone cheats right? So flip a coin, heads your husband (if you have one) has cheated on you or will.want him to be murdered? Pathetic.,

+1

She wasn't having a 'fling'. A fling is a one-night stand with a stranger you met at the coffee shop or a wine night.

She was literally having sex in her home under the roof of her children with an employee of the household over a long-term.

She was both unfaithful to her marriage and an immoral parent of her children and that's not even touching on the multiple men in her phone otherwise.

I bet the police had to make some fun household calls to interview those APs and their wives put 2 & 2 together quite quickly as this woman was all over the news.

Arnold Schwarzenegger did the same; should he have been murdered?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:i unfortunately suspect the husband is abusive and he killed her. his facts are made up

and you're one of those people who are certain the California family who died while hiking were killed by a boulder, murder/suicide, lightning, aliens etc. Amirite?

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

You're disgusting. Having a fling doesn't mean the death penalty is warrented.

You know roughly 50% of marriages someone cheats right? So flip a coin, heads your husband (if you have one) has cheated on you or will.want him to be murdered? Pathetic.,

+1

She wasn't having a 'fling'. A fling is a one-night stand with a stranger you met at the coffee shop or a wine night.

She was literally having sex in her home under the roof of her children with an employee of the household over a long-term.

She was both unfaithful to her marriage and an immoral parent of her children and that's not even touching on the multiple men in her phone otherwise.

I bet the police had to make some fun household calls to interview those APs and their wives put 2 & 2 together quite quickly as this woman was all over the news.

Arnold Schwarzenegger did the same; should he have been murdered?

Nobody said she should have been murdered. Just stop with that. They said she made risky choices and had questionable parenting. She had an active hidden extracurricular life with loose morals, possibly due to mental illness.

Arnold was trashed in the press. His housekeeper wasn’t. And where is Arnold? Like Clinton, his legacy diminished and he has been marginalized. And Patrick, his son, didn’t speak to him for years and was going to change his last name to “Shriver”— I think he did. Arnold was the punchline of so many jokes for a long time after.

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

You're disgusting. Having a fling doesn't mean the death penalty is warrented.

You know roughly 50% of marriages someone cheats right? So flip a coin, heads your husband (if you have one) has cheated on you or will.want him to be murdered? Pathetic.,

+1

She wasn't having a 'fling'. A fling is a one-night stand with a stranger you met at the coffee shop or a wine night.

She was literally having sex in her home under the roof of her children with an employee of the household over a long-term.

She was both unfaithful to her marriage and an immoral parent of her children and that's not even touching on the multiple men in her phone otherwise.

I bet the police had to make some fun household calls to interview those APs and their wives put 2 & 2 together quite quickly as this woman was all over the news.

Arnold Schwarzenegger did the same; should he have been murdered?

Ben Affleck did the same and everyone dogged Jennifer Garner saying she was frigid and a b@tch. Ben is an addict, yet people love to blame men’s cheating on the wife. And he did in the press too.

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

You're disgusting. Having a fling doesn't mean the death penalty is warrented.

You know roughly 50% of marriages someone cheats right? So flip a coin, heads your husband (if you have one) has cheated on you or will.want him to be murdered? Pathetic.,

+1

She wasn't having a 'fling'. A fling is a one-night stand with a stranger you met at the coffee shop or a wine night.

She was literally having sex in her home under the roof of her children with an employee of the household over a long-term.

She was both unfaithful to her marriage and an immoral parent of her children and that's not even touching on the multiple men in her phone otherwise.

I bet the police had to make some fun household calls to interview those APs and their wives put 2 & 2 together quite quickly as this woman was all over the news.

Arnold Schwarzenegger did the same; should he have been murdered?

Ben Affleck did the same and everyone dogged Jennifer Garner saying she was frigid and a b@tch. Ben is an addict, yet people love to blame men’s cheating on the wife. And he did in the press too.

I haven’t seen anyone questioning the Queen’s woman’s husband’s sexual ability or blaming him for her many, many infidelities like they do to betrayed wives. Yes- I see you Hillary, Beyoncé, Jen Aniston…

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

You're disgusting. Having a fling doesn't mean the death penalty is warrented.

You know roughly 50% of marriages someone cheats right? So flip a coin, heads your husband (if you have one) has cheated on you or will.want him to be murdered? Pathetic.,

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She wasn't having a 'fling'. A fling is a one-night stand with a stranger you met at the coffee shop or a wine night.

She was literally having sex in her home under the roof of her children with an employee of the household over a long-term.

She was both unfaithful to her marriage and an immoral parent of her children and that's not even touching on the multiple men in her phone otherwise.

I bet the police had to make some fun household calls to interview those APs and their wives put 2 & 2 together quite quickly as this woman was all over the news.

Arnold Schwarzenegger did the same; should he have been murdered?

Ben Affleck did the same and everyone dogged Jennifer Garner saying she was frigid and a b@tch. Ben is an addict, yet people love to blame men’s cheating on the wife. And he did in the press too.

I haven’t seen anyone questioning the Queen’s woman’s husband’s sexual ability or blaming him for her many, many infidelities like they do to betrayed wives. Yes- I see you Hillary, Beyoncé, Jen Aniston…

Don’t forget how people have abused Khloe K for Tristan’s cheating and how stupid she is. It’s absolutely awful how people treat women already in such trauma from these men and them from society and other women.