NY mom murdered

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Anonymous wrote:i unfortunately suspect the husband is abusive and he killed her. his facts are made up

and you're one of those people who are certain the California family who died while hiking were killed by a boulder, murder/suicide, lightning, aliens etc. Amirite?

such a tragedy

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Anonymous wrote:Her poor kids, and parents (in Hungary). What a nightmare..

Their lives have been ruined. So sad.

Why "ruined"?

Ummm because someone they love is dead. Not to mention the shock of the double life/lie.

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Anonymous wrote:Her poor kids, and parents (in Hungary). What a nightmare..

Their lives have been ruined. So sad.

Why "ruined"?

Ummm because someone they love is dead. Not to mention the shock of the double life/lie.

And the poor kid being dragged out of the house, handcuffed, in pjs with no shoes, loaded into a cop car when he didn’t even know his mother was just brutally murdered while he slept upstairs. And now he is going to read abs gear all about her affair and other infidelities/dates.

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Anonymous wrote:DP here-not sure why anyone would be jealous of her? She apparently had the trappings of a picture perfect life. Underneath she was deeply unhappy, probably stuck in the marriage for financial reasons. I’ll take my < 1 million home, imperfect looks and body but entirely happy self anyday.

Jealous of a woman banging a 5’3” stinky illegal AC repairman who has a drinking problem and is a barfly. Yeah, ok.

NP. Jealous of who you thought she was before all this came to light -- pretty, petite, handsome-ish husband, wealthy, didn't have to work, but mainly pretty and petite. And now you're gleeful at her fate because you can tell yourself that none of those things helped her in the end. In fact, bonus!, they contributed to her demise.

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Anonymous wrote:DP here-not sure why anyone would be jealous of her? She apparently had the trappings of a picture perfect life. Underneath she was deeply unhappy, probably stuck in the marriage for financial reasons. I’ll take my < 1 million home, imperfect looks and body but entirely happy self anyday.

Jealous of a woman banging a 5’3” stinky illegal AC repairman who has a drinking problem and is a barfly. Yeah, ok.

NP. Jealous of who you thought she was before all this came to light -- pretty, petite, handsome-ish husband, wealthy, didn't have to work, but mainly pretty and petite. And now you're gleeful at her fate because you can tell yourself that none of those things helped her in the end. In fact, bonus!, they contributed to her demise.

This. You hit the nail on the head...

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Anonymous wrote:How could she leave a 13 year old alone at night. Something is off here.
No way, my 13 year old would stay home alone at night.

I was “a 13 year old alone at night” babysitting other people’s children. This seems like a you problem.

Ha, so true. At 13 I was babysitting 3 kids between 1 and 5 years old until 2am regularly. PP would be HORRIFIED at the amount of (responsibility?) I had by 16.

I am not the pp.
I am horrified at your parents and the parents of the kids you babysat. 13 is way too young.

What? How old are you? I was also babysitting at 13, and so were all of my friends. You must be super young and your parents helicoptered you.

I was in the 80s, but 13-year olds are not staying up to babysit kids past midnight in my area. The fact is, if the dude hasn’t stood her up, she would have been out until the wee hours of the morning (like last time).

It’s what she was doing and why she was leaving the kids alone (to drink and cheat) that is the issue here.

+1. Let’s not pretend she was being a responsible parent.

omg who tf cares?

Because play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

Dear god, stop using that phrase.

No. Deal with it.

It makes you sound uneducated.

[Anonymous]

I feel so sorry for the victim, her husband, and their children. She did not deserve to be horribly murdered due to an affair. It would have been great if she had just ignored him and called 911 for a safety check. May she Rest In Peace.

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

You're disgusting. Having a fling doesn't mean the death penalty is warrented.

You know roughly 50% of marriages someone cheats right? So flip a coin, heads your husband (if you have one) has cheated on you or will.want him to be murdered? Pathetic.,

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She wasn't having a 'fling'. A fling is a one-night stand with a stranger you met at the coffee shop or a wine night.

She was literally having sex in her home under the roof of her children with an employee of the household over a long-term.

She was both unfaithful to her marriage and an immoral parent of her children and that's not even touching on the multiple men in her phone otherwise.

I bet the police had to make some fun household calls to interview those APs and their wives put 2 & 2 together quite quickly as this woman was all over the news.

You can stop being so jealous of her, she's gone.

Unclench your jaw.

Oh, sweetie, no one is jealous of a 50-something cheater posting desperate attention seeking selfies and screwing THAT.

I'm sorry if your mom told you in middle school that the girls were only "mean" to you because they were jealous. That's a lie mothers tell to make you feel better.

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Anonymous wrote:DP here-not sure why anyone would be jealous of her? She apparently had the trappings of a picture perfect life. Underneath she was deeply unhappy, probably stuck in the marriage for financial reasons. I’ll take my < 1 million home, imperfect looks and body but entirely happy self anyday.

Jealous of a woman banging a 5’3” stinky illegal AC repairman who has a drinking problem and is a barfly. Yeah, ok.

NP. Jealous of who you thought she was before all this came to light -- pretty, petite, handsome-ish husband, wealthy, didn't have to work, but mainly pretty and petite. And now you're gleeful at her fate because you can tell yourself that none of those things helped her in the end. In fact, bonus!, they contributed to her demise.

Many posters on DCUM have these things. No one whatsoever is impressed by her -- except, apparently, you.

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Anonymous wrote:How could she leave a 13 year old alone at night. Something is off here.
No way, my 13 year old would stay home alone at night.

I was “a 13 year old alone at night” babysitting other people’s children. This seems like a you problem.

Ha, so true. At 13 I was babysitting 3 kids between 1 and 5 years old until 2am regularly. PP would be HORRIFIED at the amount of (responsibility?) I had by 16.

I am not the pp.
I am horrified at your parents and the parents of the kids you babysat. 13 is way too young.

What? How old are you? I was also babysitting at 13, and so were all of my friends. You must be super young and your parents helicoptered you.

I was in the 80s, but 13-year olds are not staying up to babysit kids past midnight in my area. The fact is, if the dude hasn’t stood her up, she would have been out until the wee hours of the morning (like last time).

It’s what she was doing and why she was leaving the kids alone (to drink and cheat) that is the issue here.

+1. Let’s not pretend she was being a responsible parent.

omg who tf cares?

Because play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

Dear god, stop using that phrase.

No. Deal with it.

It makes you sound uneducated.

That's nice. My Ivy League advanced degree doesn't care about some weirdly persistent internet nobody's opinion.

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

You're disgusting. Having a fling doesn't mean the death penalty is warrented.

You know roughly 50% of marriages someone cheats right? So flip a coin, heads your husband (if you have one) has cheated on you or will.want him to be murdered? Pathetic.,

+1

She wasn't having a 'fling'. A fling is a one-night stand with a stranger you met at the coffee shop or a wine night.

She was literally having sex in her home under the roof of her children with an employee of the household over a long-term.

She was both unfaithful to her marriage and an immoral parent of her children and that's not even touching on the multiple men in her phone otherwise.

I bet the police had to make some fun household calls to interview those APs and their wives put 2 & 2 together quite quickly as this woman was all over the news.

You can stop being so jealous of her, she's gone.

Unclench your jaw.

Oh, sweetie, no one is jealous of a 50-something cheater posting desperate attention seeking selfies and screwing THAT.

I'm sorry if your mom told you in middle school that the girls were only "mean" to you because they were jealous. That's a lie mothers tell to make you feel better.

Pretty much this. How awful does your life have to be that sleeping with the unwashed handyman under the same roof as your teen sons while you’re 50-year-old drinking alone at the local bars til 1AM is an improvement?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:DP here-not sure why anyone would be jealous of her? She apparently had the trappings of a picture perfect life. Underneath she was deeply unhappy, probably stuck in the marriage for financial reasons. I’ll take my < 1 million home, imperfect looks and body but entirely happy self anyday.

Jealous of a woman banging a 5’3” stinky illegal AC repairman who has a drinking problem and is a barfly. Yeah, ok.

NP. Jealous of who you thought she was before all this came to light -- pretty, petite, handsome-ish husband, wealthy, didn't have to work, but mainly pretty and petite. And now you're gleeful at her fate because you can tell yourself that none of those things helped her in the end. In fact, bonus!, they contributed to her demise.

You are assuming pp isn’t pretty, petite and wealthy too, so she thinks what a frickin” waste and how could she be a prolific cheater taking suck risk like this when she had from all appearances, everything

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

You're disgusting. Having a fling doesn't mean the death penalty is warrented.

You know roughly 50% of marriages someone cheats right? So flip a coin, heads your husband (if you have one) has cheated on you or will.want him to be murdered? Pathetic.,

+1

She wasn't having a 'fling'. A fling is a one-night stand with a stranger you met at the coffee shop or a wine night.

She was literally having sex in her home under the roof of her children with an employee of the household over a long-term.

She was both unfaithful to her marriage and an immoral parent of her children and that's not even touching on the multiple men in her phone otherwise.

I bet the police had to make some fun household calls to interview those APs and their wives put 2 & 2 together quite quickly as this woman was all over the news.

You can stop being so jealous of her, she's gone.

Unclench your jaw.

Oh, sweetie, no one is jealous of a 50-something cheater posting desperate attention seeking selfies and screwing THAT.

I'm sorry if your mom told you in middle school that the girls were only "mean" to you because they were jealous. That's a lie mothers tell to make you feel better.

Pretty much this. How awful does your life have to be that sleeping with the unwashed handyman under the same roof as your teen sons while you’re 50-year-old drinking alone at the local bars til 1AM is an improvement?

This.

And that guy was just awful.

I wonder if she met him first romantically and then hired him as the handyman. Both were well known at local establishments. She was a barfly.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:DP here-not sure why anyone would be jealous of her? She apparently had the trappings of a picture perfect life. Underneath she was deeply unhappy, probably stuck in the marriage for financial reasons. I’ll take my < 1 million home, imperfect looks and body but entirely happy self anyday.

Jealous of a woman banging a 5’3” stinky illegal AC repairman who has a drinking problem and is a barfly. Yeah, ok.

NP. Jealous of who you thought she was before all this came to light -- pretty, petite, handsome-ish husband, wealthy, didn't have to work, but mainly pretty and petite. And now you're gleeful at her fate because you can tell yourself that none of those things helped her in the end. In fact, bonus!, they contributed to her demise.

Many posters on DCUM have these things. No one whatsoever is impressed by her -- except, apparently, you.

Her poor family. I wonder how much they knew about how messed up and promiscuous she was. Some really, really risky and stupid choices were made by a 51-year old who you think would have some common sense about safety risks.