NY mom murdered

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Anonymous wrote:I wonder if it is possible that she was not having an affair. Just because he said does not make it so. Was it possible she was friends with him and flirted and he became obsessed? Who cares about her drinks at a bar. I read that she would eat and have one drink by herself. That doesn’t seem like she was wild. I wonder if it is a cultural thing. We Americans always have to eat with someone and perhaps she didn’t feel that way. The slut shaming is awful.

Not at all. They gave all the electronic communications. It was sexual.

It has never been disputed that this was a highly charged on again/off again sexual affair-that was on again earlier this month.

Looking at that creature, if I were her husband in addition to funeral arrangements my first stop would be to have my blood drawn abs things swabbed to test for every STI disease, hepatitis, etc.

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Anonymous wrote:I wonder if it is possible that she was not having an affair. Just because he said does not make it so. Was it possible she was friends with him and flirted and he became obsessed? Who cares about her drinks at a bar. I read that she would eat and have one drink by herself. That doesn’t seem like she was wild. I wonder if it is a cultural thing. We Americans always have to eat with someone and perhaps she didn’t feel that way. The slut shaming is awful.

They were definitely having an affair. But I agree about the slut shaming, and the idea that it’s weird for her to have dinner and a drink alone at a neighborhood bar, even late at night. I’d love to have a dinner alone as a break from the kids, personally.

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

“DC Area Mom Brutally Murdered; Serial Poster of Nasty Comments on DCUM, Public Concludes Murder Was Justified”

This sums it up perfectly.

Or, a more accurate option, "DC area mom runs in the middle of the beltway for two hours. Everyone SHOCKED when she is hit by a car."

Are people who have affairs usually murdered by their affair partners?

Well, it obviously happens. See recent story about Queens mom killed by her handyman.

NP. I would venture to say a woman is more statistically likely to be killed by her husband than by her AP. So I guess married women are just asking for it, huh?

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.

+1. Why all of the judgement toward this murder victim? I'm pretty sure if this were a dad having a night cap at 11pm at a bar while his 13 yr old son is at home you all wouldn't be nearly as critical. People need to stop judging women so harshly. And sadly it's usually other women doing the judging.

Because if she’s a bottle-blonde slut that leaves her kid at home while she cavorts at a bar, then the PPs will never be the victims of violence! Easy peasy!

Really? When was the last time you hung out in a bar solo until 1:00 am?

If I hang out at a bar until 1 am, should I expect to be murdered?

There is a higher statistical chance if you are f@cking someone else’s spouse and your spouse or your affair partner’s spouse finds out.

Yup!

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So many of you are like “ugh, look at her thirsty selfies” but the thirsty selfies are why this case is getting so much attention, and because she was blonde and pretty and lived in a nice neighborhood. She was murdered by her boyfriend. Intimate partner violence is so common. You only care about this one because of the selfies and because the details are so lurid.

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Anonymous wrote:I wonder if it is possible that she was not having an affair. Just because he said does not make it so. Was it possible she was friends with him and flirted and he became obsessed? Who cares about her drinks at a bar. I read that she would eat and have one drink by herself. That doesn’t seem like she was wild. I wonder if it is a cultural thing. We Americans always have to eat with someone and perhaps she didn’t feel that way. The slut shaming is awful.

They were definitely having an affair. But I agree about the slut shaming, and the idea that it’s weird for her to have dinner and a drink alone at a neighborhood bar, even late at night. I’d love to have a dinner alone as a break from the kids, personally.

Her kids are not little that she needed to feed and can be tiresome. Her kids were in a good age that you can have adult conversations with. Why not have dinner with her son? She was having dinner by herself while her son probably was having dinner by himself as well, too sad

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She surely didn't deserve to die and her family surely didn't deserve to be put through this. The handyman is the killer, and he is the ONLY one at fault.

But saying that she entered into some pretty risky behavior isn't slut shaming, it's acknowledging that she made some very poor decisions along the way. I couldn't care less about selfies and sitting in bars alone at night. The reason I care about the affair is because she entered into a relationship with someone who was in and out of her home frequently, and she exposed her family to this affair partner who clearly has some emotional issues. This wasn't a one night stand on a business trip or something like that. This was an ongoing affair that introduces an enormous amount of risk into her family. To say that she exhibited questionable behavior in doing so is an assessment of the risk that she willingly took on, not a moral judgment on whether or not she was a slut.

The responsibility for her death lies squarely with the handyman. But let's stop this BS of asserting that because she was murdered, her behavior leading up to that is 100% above reproach and that anyone who questions it is slut shaming.

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.

+1. Why all of the judgement toward this murder victim? I'm pretty sure if this were a dad having a night cap at 11pm at a bar while his 13 yr old son is at home you all wouldn't be nearly as critical. People need to stop judging women so harshly. And sadly it's usually other women doing the judging.

Because if she’s a bottle-blonde slut that leaves her kid at home while she cavorts at a bar, then the PPs will never be the victims of violence! Easy peasy!

Really? When was the last time you hung out in a bar solo until 1:00 am?

If I hang out at a bar until 1 am, should I expect to be murdered?

No but if she have a secret affair with a know sexual offender psychopath you would know it’s a likely possibility

Was he known to be a sexual offender psychopath?

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.

+1. Why all of the judgement toward this murder victim? I'm pretty sure if this were a dad having a night cap at 11pm at a bar while his 13 yr old son is at home you all wouldn't be nearly as critical. People need to stop judging women so harshly. And sadly it's usually other women doing the judging.

Because if she’s a bottle-blonde slut that leaves her kid at home while she cavorts at a bar, then the PPs will never be the victims of violence! Easy peasy!

Really? When was the last time you hung out in a bar solo until 1:00 am?

If I hang out at a bar until 1 am, should I expect to be murdered?

No but if she have a secret affair with a know sexual offender psychopath you would know it’s a likely possibility

Was he known to be a sexual offender psychopath?

Cops had been called about him multiple times prior.

“Bonola was a regular at the Austin Street coffee shop in Forest Hills and left female staffers so startled by his advances, they called the cops on him numerous times, a former worker claimed.

“He would come up to us and ask for coffees and tell us that we looked pretty and make comments about how we look,” former barista Oliwia Pikulinski, 21, told The Post by phone Thursday.

“He was creepy, he stalked people… It was known. Everyone knew he was a weird individual, especially in the Starbucks on Austin Street,” said Pikulinski, who worked at the location for three years before quitting five months ago.

Bonola — whose estranged wife and children also live in Queens, according to police sources — would also “drop in the tip jar love notes and songs that he would make about us,” said Pikulinski.”

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.

+1. Why all of the judgement toward this murder victim? I'm pretty sure if this were a dad having a night cap at 11pm at a bar while his 13 yr old son is at home you all wouldn't be nearly as critical. People need to stop judging women so harshly. And sadly it's usually other women doing the judging.

Because if she’s a bottle-blonde slut that leaves her kid at home while she cavorts at a bar, then the PPs will never be the victims of violence! Easy peasy!

Really? When was the last time you hung out in a bar solo until 1:00 am?

If I hang out at a bar until 1 am, should I expect to be murdered?

No but if she have a secret affair with a know sexual offender psychopath you would know it’s a likely possibility

Was he known to be a sexual offender psychopath?

Cops had been called about him multiple times prior.

“Bonola was a regular at the Austin Street coffee shop in Forest Hills and left female staffers so startled by his advances, they called the cops on him numerous times, a former worker claimed.

“He would come up to us and ask for coffees and tell us that we looked pretty and make comments about how we look,” former barista Oliwia Pikulinski, 21, told The Post by phone Thursday.

“He was creepy, he stalked people… It was known. Everyone knew he was a weird individual, especially in the Starbucks on Austin Street,” said Pikulinski, who worked at the location for three years before quitting five months ago.

Bonola — whose estranged wife and children also live in Queens, according to police sources — would also “drop in the tip jar love notes and songs that he would make about us,” said Pikulinski.”

“He even went as far as proposing to two of us, which is super unsettling because of how weird the interactions were,” she said.

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.

+1. Why all of the judgement toward this murder victim? I'm pretty sure if this were a dad having a night cap at 11pm at a bar while his 13 yr old son is at home you all wouldn't be nearly as critical. People need to stop judging women so harshly. And sadly it's usually other women doing the judging.

Because if she’s a bottle-blonde slut that leaves her kid at home while she cavorts at a bar, then the PPs will never be the victims of violence! Easy peasy!

Really? When was the last time you hung out in a bar solo until 1:00 am?

If I hang out at a bar until 1 am, should I expect to be murdered?

No but if she have a secret affair with a know sexual offender psychopath you would know it’s a likely possibility

Was he known to be a sexual offender psychopath?

Cops had been called about him multiple times prior.

“Bonola was a regular at the Austin Street coffee shop in Forest Hills and left female staffers so startled by his advances, they called the cops on him numerous times, a former worker claimed.

“He would come up to us and ask for coffees and tell us that we looked pretty and make comments about how we look,” former barista Oliwia Pikulinski, 21, told The Post by phone Thursday.

“He was creepy, he stalked people… It was known. Everyone knew he was a weird individual, especially in the Starbucks on Austin Street,” said Pikulinski, who worked at the location for three years before quitting five months ago.

Bonola — whose estranged wife and children also live in Queens, according to police sources — would also “drop in the tip jar love notes and songs that he would make about us,” said Pikulinski.”

Yes – and that is indeed gross – but I don’t think the victim would have known that.

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

Yeah....but we are supposed to forget all of that lest we victim shame. We apparently can't feel great empathy for her death while also recognizing her reckless behavior. As with everyone on DCUM, there is no nuance to this position, apparently.

Come on, now. None of the recent posters talking about what an awful mom/person/cheater she was have shown a speck of empathy toward her. And the fact that so many are talking about her instead of her killer is telling too.

You are absolutely correct.

I really do not have any empathy for her. She made one bad decision after another and, well, it finally caught up with her.

I do have empathy, however, for her poor husband and children. At the end of the day, her bad decision making will affect them for the rest of their lives.

He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.

+1. Why all of the judgement toward this murder victim? I'm pretty sure if this were a dad having a night cap at 11pm at a bar while his 13 yr old son is at home you all wouldn't be nearly as critical. People need to stop judging women so harshly. And sadly it's usually other women doing the judging.

Because if she’s a bottle-blonde slut that leaves her kid at home while she cavorts at a bar, then the PPs will never be the victims of violence! Easy peasy!

Really? When was the last time you hung out in a bar solo until 1:00 am?

If I hang out at a bar until 1 am, should I expect to be murdered?

No but if she have a secret affair with a know sexual offender psychopath you would know it’s a likely possibility

Was he known to be a sexual offender psychopath?

Cops had been called about him multiple times prior.

“Bonola was a regular at the Austin Street coffee shop in Forest Hills and left female staffers so startled by his advances, they called the cops on him numerous times, a former worker claimed.

“He would come up to us and ask for coffees and tell us that we looked pretty and make comments about how we look,” former barista Oliwia Pikulinski, 21, told The Post by phone Thursday.

“He was creepy, he stalked people… It was known. Everyone knew he was a weird individual, especially in the Starbucks on Austin Street,” said Pikulinski, who worked at the location for three years before quitting five months ago.

Bonola — whose estranged wife and children also live in Queens, according to police sources — would also “drop in the tip jar love notes and songs that he would make about us,” said Pikulinski.”

“He even went as far as proposing to two of us, which is super unsettling because of how weird the interactions were,” she said.

Another article said the police could not corroborate what the former star bucks employee said. Sounds like she was just a former employee looking for her 5 minutes of fame.

[Anonymous]

One look at him tells you he’s unstable. Yet she had crazy eyes too.

Banging your illegal AC repairman is so basic. (Anna Delvey voice).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Her poor kids, and parents (in Hungary). What a nightmare..

Their lives have been ruined. So sad.

Why "ruined"?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:One look at him tells you he’s unstable. Yet she had crazy eyes too.

Banging your illegal AC repairman is so basic. (Anna Delvey voice).

Lol