Well you can be a racist AND have coprolalia. It doesn’t automatically mean you are a perfect person if you have coprolalia. Not apologizing to the black presenters sure makes the probability higher. |
So, after an “entire life “ of “constant apologies for his involuntary behavior” why don’t you think this particular incident— which was very public — warrants an apology too? |
Apparently people on Twitter who have met John have said he immediately apologized to them after shouting obscenities. I guess we draw a line in the sand for Black people though. |
He has spoken to them privately. |
Are you his publicist? This solves nothing.What a big mess he's made. For what? |
My dude takes yet another opportunity to plug his project, to blame microphone placement, and then to plug his project some more. Meanwhile, in the ENTIRE interview, here is the sum total of what he has to say about his use of a vicious racial slur: "The N-word was one of these, and I completely understand its significance in history and in the modern world..." Note what is missing from this. We get hundreds of words about how hard his life is and how we should watch his film, and not one single word about the impact of his words on those who were targeted. |
We also have no idea whether that happened. The Variety article says he people reached out to the Sinners team, but not whether contact was made, nor whether he spoke with anyone. Moreover, we have two statements from him already and neither shows any understanding or empathy for anyone but himself. Even if he had spoken with them (which again we do not know happened), the track record suggests it was not meaningful. |
Have the people offended suggested that they understand that this was involuntary and not meant? I haven't seen that either. They seem to just want to reflexively call him a racist and a jerk then demand he apologize. |
Even if it was not meant, he has the opportunity here to show grace and engage in education by making it clear that he understands how his unvoluntary utterance impacted actual human beings. No one is saying he did it on purpose. We are saying his constant self-centering rather than demonstrations of empathy are off-putting. |
Engage in educational by people who couldn't be bothered to watch his movie? Clearly they don't want to learn. |
The people could have said " we understand that his disability...... but we are still offended " but of course they didn't. That is similarly off putting. I don't think these people are going to see eye to eye so why bother? |
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The actors haven't said they were harmed. They haven't required an apology, they aren't trying to make this somethign it isn't.
I am sure it was a shock and unsettling at first but I have confidence that once it was explained to them and maybe they even watched the movie that they understand context. Likely they have heard the word within the black community many times so they aren't harmed just by hearing it, and they understand that in this case it was also said without racist intent or belief or meaning. There are also black men with coprolalia. They also vocalize socialize socially inappropriate words about the people around them. So whatever you are saying about John you are also saying about everyone else with coprolalia. Should scorn, ridicule and hate and anger also be heaped upon the black man who doesn't make a heartfelt apology after any vocalization about a woman or a Latino or x, y, or z. Should we also show him zero grace, zero kindness, zero understanding? |
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“ What’s really happening right now is not about Tourette’s. This ain’t about a neurological tic. It’s about protecting whiteness. It’s about what jumps into formation the second whiteness feels exposed. What we’re witnessing is the full machinery revving up. The sympathy. The soft language. The “let’s be fair.” The calls for compassion. The think pieces. The tone policing. The accusations of ableism. All to make sure the spotlight moves off the rot and back onto our reaction.
Because the real crisis, in their eyes, isn’t that the word came out of that white man’s mouth three times in the same night. It’s that we’re refusing to pretend like it didn’t mean anything. That’s what they’re protecting. Not a diagnosis. A narrative. The narrative that racism is rare. That it is located elsewhere in something more extreme. That it is accidental. A glitch. Not a feature and not part of who they are.” https://newsone.com/6850861/black-people-dont-have-accept-john-davidson-apology/#comments |
Nailed it! Thank you for posting this — and including the link with the full article. |
I hate to bother you with the pesky facts, but the actors on stage were presenting at the time, not winning an award. But you're still standing by that presenting an award should be a bigger deal then having a movie made about you? |