NY mom murdered

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

Oh, no. He’d totally have let the witness live and said “go back to bed, sweetie. Nothing to see here.”

Do you even listen to yourself?

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I frankly don’t see why the police announced to the world that she had an affair(s). It seems to me that this is private behavior and it seems so cruel to her family to have people speculating on this.

It's fact, not speculation, and the only one to blame it on is the cheater. The police have no obligation to cover up for the cheater and I can't believe you would suggest they should.

On a separate note, I do not understand why he didn't just leave the body in the basement. Wheeling it away in the bag gave the police so much more evidence.

He does not seem very intelligent and didn't plan this, killed her in a fit of rage.

I think he thought he could dump it somewhere else or hide it, but he's such a tiny little man and he doesn't own a car and he got too tired carrying the body that he didn't get too far.

I don't think this was by any means 'compassion for her kid' as some suggest. The guy was a psychopath.

They always cite the cause of the crime and motive. Jilted, jealous lover, ex-affair partner, cheating are all the most common reasons for these violent crime of passion killings. Frankly, she put her entire family in such danger. This is what pisses me off about cheaters they bring potential psychos into the mix--angry betrayed spouses, psycho lovers they just met (and didn't know were psychos), etc. It's even more tragic when the ones that knew nothing about the cheating are killed--kids or spouse so they can get insurance or 'get them out of the way' w/out paying support/alimony. Somebody willing to cheat and play those games and lies is an unstable person.

Yeah. Anyone who buys that line after he stabbed her SIXTY times that he tried to move the body out of “compassion for her kid” is a moron.

Ok, genius. What made him decide to move the body out of the house, then?

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I frankly don’t see why the police announced to the world that she had an affair(s). It seems to me that this is private behavior and it seems so cruel to her family to have people speculating on this.

It's fact, not speculation, and the only one to blame it on is the cheater. The police have no obligation to cover up for the cheater and I can't believe you would suggest they should.

On a separate note, I do not understand why he didn't just leave the body in the basement. Wheeling it away in the bag gave the police so much more evidence.

He does not seem very intelligent and didn't plan this, killed her in a fit of rage.

I think he thought he could dump it somewhere else or hide it, but he's such a tiny little man and he doesn't own a car and he got too tired carrying the body that he didn't get too far.

I don't think this was by any means 'compassion for her kid' as some suggest. The guy was a psychopath.

They always cite the cause of the crime and motive. Jilted, jealous lover, ex-affair partner, cheating are all the most common reasons for these violent crime of passion killings. Frankly, she put her entire family in such danger. This is what pisses me off about cheaters they bring potential psychos into the mix--angry betrayed spouses, psycho lovers they just met (and didn't know were psychos), etc. It's even more tragic when the ones that knew nothing about the cheating are killed--kids or spouse so they can get insurance or 'get them out of the way' w/out paying support/alimony. Somebody willing to cheat and play those games and lies is an unstable person.

Yeah. Anyone who buys that line after he stabbed her SIXTY times that he tried to move the body out of “compassion for her kid” is a moron.

Ok, genius. What made him decide to move the body out of the house, then?

He thought it could help cover up his crime. And he was too stupid, high, or scared to make observations and logical decisions?

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I frankly don’t see why the police announced to the world that she had an affair(s). It seems to me that this is private behavior and it seems so cruel to her family to have people speculating on this.

It's fact, not speculation, and the only one to blame it on is the cheater. The police have no obligation to cover up for the cheater and I can't believe you would suggest they should.

On a separate note, I do not understand why he didn't just leave the body in the basement. Wheeling it away in the bag gave the police so much more evidence.

He does not seem very intelligent and didn't plan this, killed her in a fit of rage.

I think he thought he could dump it somewhere else or hide it, but he's such a tiny little man and he doesn't own a car and he got too tired carrying the body that he didn't get too far.

I don't think this was by any means 'compassion for her kid' as some suggest. The guy was a psychopath.

They always cite the cause of the crime and motive. Jilted, jealous lover, ex-affair partner, cheating are all the most common reasons for these violent crime of passion killings. Frankly, she put her entire family in such danger. This is what pisses me off about cheaters they bring potential psychos into the mix--angry betrayed spouses, psycho lovers they just met (and didn't know were psychos), etc. It's even more tragic when the ones that knew nothing about the cheating are killed--kids or spouse so they can get insurance or 'get them out of the way' w/out paying support/alimony. Somebody willing to cheat and play those games and lies is an unstable person.

Yeah. Anyone who buys that line after he stabbed her SIXTY times that he tried to move the body out of “compassion for her kid” is a moron.

Ok, genius. What made him decide to move the body out of the house, then?

He thought it could help cover up his crime. And he was too stupid, high, or scared to make observations and logical decisions?

That makes zero sense, no matter how dumb or high you are.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear): Her actions suggest otherwise.
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness: Hell no. Most of us are *not* struggling with life as a Cluster B. And anyway, being a Cluster B may be an explanation but it is NOT an excuse for poor behavior.
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes: cheating on one's spouse for years and leaving your minor kids home alone in order to pick up random guys at a bar aren't "mistakes."
* She and her family deserve respect: Well, her husband and kids certainly do. As for Ms. Gaal, well, while her killer needs to be brought to justice, it also wouldn't be wrong to say that she was a narcissistic ho-bag who epitomizes the phrase "play stupid games, win stupid prizes."

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me

: there's a time for compassion, and there's a time for judgment. Some of us would never end up in this situation because we wouldn't cheat in the first place.

Oh, thank God. She loved food and the arts! Totally makes it right to bring random strange men into the home where your son is sleeping.

: + 100

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Anonymous wrote:How could she leave a 13 year old alone at night. Something is off here.
No way, my 13 year old would stay home alone at night.

I was “a 13 year old alone at night” babysitting other people’s children. This seems like a you problem.

Ha, so true. At 13 I was babysitting 3 kids between 1 and 5 years old until 2am regularly. PP would be HORRIFIED at the amount of (responsibility?) I had by 16.

I am not the pp.
I am horrified at your parents and the parents of the kids you babysat. 13 is way too young.

What? How old are you? I was also babysitting at 13, and so were all of my friends. You must be super young and your parents helicoptered you.

I was in the 80s, but 13-year olds are not staying up to babysit kids past midnight in my area. The fact is, if the dude hasn’t stood her up, she would have been out until the wee hours of the morning (like last time).

It’s what she was doing and why she was leaving the kids alone (to drink and cheat) that is the issue here.

+1. Let’s not pretend she was being a responsible parent.

omg who tf cares?

Because play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

Dear god, stop using that phrase.

[Anonymous]

That NY Post article that was linked, said there was a “get a new handyman” note on her fridge.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That NY Post article that was linked, said there was a “get a new handyman” note on her fridge.

Ok that’s kind of funny

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Anonymous wrote:That NY Post article that was linked, said there was a “get a new handyman” note on her fridge.

He probably was mad he lost the job too

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

I frankly don’t see why the police announced to the world that she had an affair(s). It seems to me that this is private behavior and it seems so cruel to her family to have people speculating on this.

It's fact, not speculation, and the only one to blame it on is the cheater. The police have no obligation to cover up for the cheater and I can't believe you would suggest they should.

On a separate note, I do not understand why he didn't just leave the body in the basement. Wheeling it away in the bag gave the police so much more evidence.

He does not seem very intelligent and didn't plan this, killed her in a fit of rage.

I think he thought he could dump it somewhere else or hide it, but he's such a tiny little man and he doesn't own a car and he got too tired carrying the body that he didn't get too far.

I don't think this was by any means 'compassion for her kid' as some suggest. The guy was a psychopath.

They always cite the cause of the crime and motive. Jilted, jealous lover, ex-affair partner, cheating are all the most common reasons for these violent crime of passion killings. Frankly, she put her entire family in such danger. This is what pisses me off about cheaters they bring potential psychos into the mix--angry betrayed spouses, psycho lovers they just met (and didn't know were psychos), etc. It's even more tragic when the ones that knew nothing about the cheating are killed--kids or spouse so they can get insurance or 'get them out of the way' w/out paying support/alimony. Somebody willing to cheat and play those games and lies is an unstable person.

Yeah. Anyone who buys that line after he stabbed her SIXTY times that he tried to move the body out of “compassion for her kid” is a moron.

Ok, genius. What made him decide to move the body out of the house, then?

He thought it could help cover up his crime. And he was too stupid, high, or scared to make observations and logical decisions?

That makes zero sense, no matter how dumb or high you are.

It makes a lot more sense than someone murdering a woman and then immediately, in the same state of mind, caring about her kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That NY Post article that was linked, said there was a “get a new handyman” note on her fridge.

Maybe that's what set him off!

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I frankly don’t see why the police announced to the world that she had an affair(s). It seems to me that this is private behavior and it seems so cruel to her family to have people speculating on this.

It's fact, not speculation, and the only one to blame it on is the cheater. The police have no obligation to cover up for the cheater and I can't believe you would suggest they should.

On a separate note, I do not understand why he didn't just leave the body in the basement. Wheeling it away in the bag gave the police so much more evidence.

He does not seem very intelligent and didn't plan this, killed her in a fit of rage.

I think he thought he could dump it somewhere else or hide it, but he's such a tiny little man and he doesn't own a car and he got too tired carrying the body that he didn't get too far.

I don't think this was by any means 'compassion for her kid' as some suggest. The guy was a psychopath.

They always cite the cause of the crime and motive. Jilted, jealous lover, ex-affair partner, cheating are all the most common reasons for these violent crime of passion killings. Frankly, she put her entire family in such danger. This is what pisses me off about cheaters they bring potential psychos into the mix--angry betrayed spouses, psycho lovers they just met (and didn't know were psychos), etc. It's even more tragic when the ones that knew nothing about the cheating are killed--kids or spouse so they can get insurance or 'get them out of the way' w/out paying support/alimony. Somebody willing to cheat and play those games and lies is an unstable person.

Yeah. Anyone who buys that line after he stabbed her SIXTY times that he tried to move the body out of “compassion for her kid” is a moron.

Ok, genius. What made him decide to move the body out of the house, then?

He thought it could help cover up his crime. And he was too stupid, high, or scared to make observations and logical decisions?

That makes zero sense, no matter how dumb or high you are.

It makes a lot more sense than someone murdering a woman and then immediately, in the same state of mind, caring about her kids.

Someone in previous posts in this tangent called the handyman a "psychopath." No. This is a crime of passion. Psychopaths do not commit crimes of passion. Psychopaths carry out cold, premeditated plans. And then psychopaths don't hang around and turn themselves in and confess all th

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

I frankly don’t see why the police announced to the world that she had an affair(s). It seems to me that this is private behavior and it seems so cruel to her family to have people speculating on this.

It's fact, not speculation, and the only one to blame it on is the cheater. The police have no obligation to cover up for the cheater and I can't believe you would suggest they should.

On a separate note, I do not understand why he didn't just leave the body in the basement. Wheeling it away in the bag gave the police so much more evidence.

He does not seem very intelligent and didn't plan this, killed her in a fit of rage.

I think he thought he could dump it somewhere else or hide it, but he's such a tiny little man and he doesn't own a car and he got too tired carrying the body that he didn't get too far.

I don't think this was by any means 'compassion for her kid' as some suggest. The guy was a psychopath.

They always cite the cause of the crime and motive. Jilted, jealous lover, ex-affair partner, cheating are all the most common reasons for these violent crime of passion killings. Frankly, she put her entire family in such danger. This is what pisses me off about cheaters they bring potential psychos into the mix--angry betrayed spouses, psycho lovers they just met (and didn't know were psychos), etc. It's even more tragic when the ones that knew nothing about the cheating are killed--kids or spouse so they can get insurance or 'get them out of the way' w/out paying support/alimony. Somebody willing to cheat and play those games and lies is an unstable person.

Yeah. Anyone who buys that line after he stabbed her SIXTY times that he tried to move the body out of “compassion for her kid” is a moron.

Ok, genius. What made him decide to move the body out of the house, then?

He thought it could help cover up his crime. And he was too stupid, high, or scared to make observations and logical decisions?

That makes zero sense, no matter how dumb or high you are.

It makes a lot more sense than someone murdering a woman and then immediately, in the same state of mind, caring about her kids.

Someone in previous posts in this tangent called the handyman a "psychopath." No. This is a crime of passion. Psychopaths do not commit crimes of passion. Psychopaths carry out cold, premeditated plans. And then psychopaths don't hang around and turn themselves in and confess all th

.. confess all the details. He is not like a psychopath at all. Also, no priors.

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Anonymous wrote:Guys it’s basically always the husband.

How did he get his bloody boots that night when he was in Michigan with his son?

No hit man would ever do a shoddy job like that. That was an irrational crime of passion.

They have focused the investigation on the former lover handyman.

He flew home under an alias. And used a boulder.

It was actually a random lightening strike nearby.

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All of you calling this family rich because their home is allegedly “worth” $2M have a skewed sense of NY real estate. Forest hills is a solidly middle class neighborhood for NYC. She/her family were definitely comfortable but not rich.