NY mom murdered

[Anonymous]

They had gotten back together this month. Then broke up again.

Zero remorse:
David Bonola, who was charged with murder in connection with Gaal’s death, readily spoke to detectives at the 112th Precinct after he was taken into custody Wednesday evening, the sources said.

“[The confession was] matter of fact, very thorough, he answered every question they had,” a police source said, adding that the curly-haired suspect didn’t request a lawyer.

Once Bonola was done allegedly spilling his guts to cops, he lapped up a bagel with cream cheese as his statements were being processed, the sources said.

https://nypost.com/2022/04/21/inside-suspect-david-bonolas-confession-to-killing-orsolya-gaal/amp/

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

The bolded is true and so disturbing.

+1. Horrifying to think of putting your kid at risk like that because of your own selfishness.

If it wasn't so gross, it would almost be impressive how far some of you have managed to twist yourselves into pretzels to victim blame here.

I agree. There is more vitriol towards the victim than the sadistic killer here.

Yes, understandably. You're on a mom's website. What kind of mom does this stuff?

The kind that gets murdered in her home with her poor 13-year-old upstairs. That boy will suffer for the rest of his life because of his mother's horrible choices.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

It tells you a lot about the woman responding that think that’s all just fine. It’s just an open marriage, y’all

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

The bolded is true and so disturbing.

+1. Horrifying to think of putting your kid at risk like that because of your own selfishness.

If it wasn't so gross, it would almost be impressive how far some of you have managed to twist yourselves into pretzels to victim blame here.

I agree. There is more vitriol towards the victim than the sadistic killer here.

Yes, understandably. You're on a mom's website. What kind of mom does this stuff?

The kind that gets murdered in her home with her poor 13-year-old upstairs. That boy will suffer for the rest of his life because of his mother's horrible choices.

+1

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Sadly, as a just a handyman at 44, he likely targeted her for her $$$.

Wtf? He targeted her out of some maniacal possessive rage.
Besides the fact that all the capable handymen around here make a good amount of money.

Not day laborers with no insurance and living in one of the most expensive places in the US.

My question is WTH did she see in him. other than she apparently loves Guatemala from her social media posts.

Maybe she had a thing for 'John Oates' from Darry Hall& John Oates.

pretty similar look.

Damn you now I am laughing.

I dunno if the homicidal guy is a shorty, just like Oates, but Oates looked like a little rat. This guy would actually be really good-looking if he were about a foot taller... oh yeah and if you didn't know he stabbed a woman 66+ times, stuffed her into a duffle bag and wheeled her down the sidewalk.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

She may have loved her kids, but she took risks and left the younger one at home past midnight out drinking to meet men she met online. She also just chose not to come home one night without telling anyone. She was reported to be a regular at the bar alone. The things she was doing put her family in danger. If her son came downstairs that night, he likely would have been killed too. Think about that.

That is not being a good mother. Most chronic cheaters like this, as demonstrated, will give the lover preference over the kids.

He definitely would have killed the son too if he had walked in when he offed the mother. He knows the kid would have run to call 911 and been a witness. Thank his he slept through that.

You don't know that. Stop trying so hard to sensationalize this case even more than it already is.

New poster. I hope you're kidding. The woman goes to a local bar alone all the time, sleeps with her handyman for two years, might have slept with a slew of other people given the NYPD search for "boyfriends," and doesn't care about her children and was absent at least that night. And this is just the beginning of this story.

How many mothers here would leave a 13-year-old alone in the house while they went to a play with friends, stopped off to drink by themselves in a bar, and then let an affair partner in the house?

I'm pretty sure if my husband was traveling with my older son, I would be sure to be home one night with my 13-year-old instead of going out for the night with friends, drinking alone in a bar while my kid was home, and well, the rest of it all.

It tells you a lot about the woman responding that think that’s all just fine. It’s just an open marriage, y’all

Nobody thinks that’s “all just fine.” Stop putting words in people’s mouths.

Also…
“Once Bonola was done allegedly spilling his guts to cops, he lapped up a bagel with cream cheese as his statements were being processed, the sources said.”
Never change, New York Post.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How could she leave a 13 year old alone at night. Something is off here.
No way, my 13 year old would stay home alone at night.

I was “a 13 year old alone at night” babysitting other people’s children. This seems like a you problem.

Ha, so true. At 13 I was babysitting 3 kids between 1 and 5 years old until 2am regularly. PP would be HORRIFIED at the amount of (responsibility?) I had by 16.

I am not the pp.
I am horrified at your parents and the parents of the kids you babysat. 13 is way too young.

What? How old are you? I was also babysitting at 13, and so were all of my friends. You must be super young and your parents helicoptered you.

I was in the 80s, but 13-year olds are not staying up to babysit kids past midnight in my area. The fact is, if the dude hasn’t stood her up, she would have been out until the wee hours of the morning (like last time).

It’s what she was doing and why she was leaving the kids alone (to drink and cheat) that is the issue here.

+1. Let’s not pretend she was being a responsible parent.

omg who tf cares?

Because play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

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Anonymous wrote:I keep thinking about how her husband is mourning his wife's death, and at the same time, learning about her affairs.

He may have known about them and encouraged her. It happens way more often than you think.

Oh stop it. That is not a common thing.

He called the cops when she stayed out all night with a man awhile back because he didn’t know where she was. That is not a sign of encouraging her infidelities.

He might have been believing all her bullsh@t gaslighting and now it’s real. It’s quite possible they dealt with it and she swore she had changed. The kid was with her Friday night which is how a lot of couples recovering from infidelity work-don’t leave the cheater home alone or go on trips alone when rebuilding.

If their kids did not know, this is now another thing they will deal with since it’s all over the news in addition to the horror of her death. And if it was a lover that killed her they will have additional trauma.

He was a trader. I'm in the industry and pretty much everyone is ruthless, so he probably knew and they probably had an open relationship. Divorce at their income is $$$. She did not deserve to die. There are some unmedicated cheated wives here who are gleeful about this poor woman being killed because she had affairs. Add the xenophobia about being pretty and Eastern European. I hope you feel better now about sitting on your fat and frigid American a** and feeling all righteous.

Oh, I didn’t realize you were stupid and 14 years old.

[Anonymous]

It doesn’t matter what she was up to. She did not deserve to be murdered!!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It’s possible she and her husband had an open marriage. I wouldn’t be surprised.

I wonder about this. Because early on the police said they were looking for the handyman she had a romantic relationship with. How would they know they were involved so early on unless the husband told them?

Duh. Her phone.

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I frankly don’t see why the police announced to the world that she had an affair(s). It seems to me that this is private behavior and it seems so cruel to her family to have people speculating on this.

It's fact, not speculation, and the only one to blame it on is the cheater. The police have no obligation to cover up for the cheater and I can't believe you would suggest they should.

On a separate note, I do not understand why he didn't just leave the body in the basement. Wheeling it away in the bag gave the police so much more evidence.

He does not seem very intelligent and didn't plan this, killed her in a fit of rage.

I think he thought he could dump it somewhere else or hide it, but he's such a tiny little man and he doesn't own a car and he got too tired carrying the body that he didn't get too far.

I don't think this was by any means 'compassion for her kid' as some suggest. The guy was a psychopath.

They always cite the cause of the crime and motive. Jilted, jealous lover, ex-affair partner, cheating are all the most common reasons for these violent crime of passion killings. Frankly, she put her entire family in such danger. This is what pisses me off about cheaters they bring potential psychos into the mix--angry betrayed spouses, psycho lovers they just met (and didn't know were psychos), etc. It's even more tragic when the ones that knew nothing about the cheating are killed--kids or spouse so they can get insurance or 'get them out of the way' w/out paying support/alimony. Somebody willing to cheat and play those games and lies is an unstable person.

Yeah. Anyone who buys that line after he stabbed her SIXTY times that he tried to move the body out of “compassion for her kid” is a moron.

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Anonymous wrote:Her poor kids, and parents (in Hungary). What a nightmare..

Their lives have been ruined. So sad.

I think the one young son is going to really have a hard time that he was in the house when it happened and possibly could have stopped it (he couldn't but I think it is going to be very normal for him to feel that guilt). This is going to be such severe trauma and PTSD.

This was exactly my thought. He very likely may blame himself for not protecting his Mom. Irrational but fairly common for kids take on blame where it doesn’t belong. I hope he receives the love and support that he will need to get through this. Him and his whole family.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Simply my take (from very afar), based on news/FB:

* Ms. Gaal truly loved her kids (relationship w/ her husband unclear)
* She was naturally beautiful (no matter her hair color/"work done")
* Like most of us, she was probably struggling w/ some form of mental illness
* She also really loved nature (most of her FB pics are of nature, a fact not mentioned in the nearly 30 pages of this post)
* She was very cultured, having traveled to many parts of the world and seems to have genuinely loved the people, foods, and the arts
* Like all of us, Ms. Gaal was a human being who make mistakes
* She and her family deserve respect

I live in a glass house, so no stones being thrown by me.

Oh, thank God. She loved food and the arts! Totally makes it right to bring random strange men into the home where your son is sleeping.