Have you even had the opportunity to have an affair you didn't seek out?

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Anonymous wrote:When my kids were in day care, I had numerous affair opportunities because I did the after-work pickup and I would talk to the moms who were picking up their kids. Often I’d be with the mom for some time if her kid and mine had a play date. These moms came on to me, I didn’t come on to them.

Really? Are you sure these moms came on to you or were they just being friendly? I just find it hard to believe that you've had multiple moms at the daycare come on to you. 'm a very friendly person and I can see why someone who isn't used to interacting with this type of personality, would misinterpret my genuine interest in talking and joking around with someone of the opposite sex as being flirtatious.

Yes, I am sure they came on to me. For example, do you rub your tits on guys you are “just being friendly” with?

LOL, definitely not. I'm just shocked at the outward in your face approach that these women were taking. Didn't realize this was so common!

Man here: It's common but they're not coming on to him for sex. They're just thirsty for acknowledgment and approval. Quite common for moms as they get older. It's that, "do I still have it?" mentality. They'd never act on it and it seems like PP has given them the approval that they needed.

Nothing to see here.

Sorry, I'm still not buying that multiple women have rubbed their breasts against him at daycare pick-up.

Yup me neither! Sounds like more of wishful thinking on his part. I'd like to know where this daycare is.

[Anonymous]

Exes on Facebook is an easy and common one. I’ve gotten a few friend requests from ex-girlfriends who I hadn’t heard from in 20+ years. I can tell what they’re hinting at. Same with business travel. I’ve been propositioned by women in my company (diff branch). One time a neighbor but she was divorced. Women give obvious signals when they are willing.

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It’s like tennis. She lobs a flirt, you lob a flirt. Back and forth... Next think you know, you’re in a hotel banging her like a screen door in a hurricane.

[Anonymous]

Early 60s, married over 30 years, much better than average shape. Two opportunities - one with a divorced woman, the other a single mom. Both very good looking and you would think would not have a problem finding a boyfriend so who knows? One other situation where if I got divorced, 90% sure should we make a move. I have known her for 20 years through work and although we get along great (wife has met her), not physically attracted).

Reasons I have not taken it to the next level with these three women? Do not believe monogamy is natural but don't want to hurt my wife and my kids. I do not want to be the guy where when they meet potential partners tell them, "my dad had an affair and blew up the family". That absolutely sucks and no woman is worth risking it,

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Early 60s, married over 30 years, much better than average shape. Two opportunities - one with a divorced woman, the other a single mom. Both very good looking and you would think would not have a problem finding a boyfriend so who knows? One other situation where if I got divorced, 90% sure should we make a move. I have known her for 20 years through work and although we get along great (wife has met her), not physically attracted).

Reasons I have not taken it to the next level with these three women? Do not believe monogamy is natural but don't want to hurt my wife and my kids. I do not want to be the guy where when they meet potential partners tell them, "my dad had an affair and blew up the family". That absolutely sucks and no woman is worth risking it,

Sort of interesting that you’ve already planned out whom you would be with if you divorcednand the only reason you won’t cheat is because of consequences as opposed to caring at all for your wife. This sounds a-holish. It’s like you’re just waiting for something bad to happen to your wife so that you can move on.

[Anonymous]

LoL so many guys think women are coming on to them, including at schools. Wondering if these women would agree. Likely not.

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Anonymous wrote:My AP was not looking. I was the aggressor. He was basically content in his marriage. I thought he was flirty with me, which is what gave me the confidence to flirt harder, but given how long he held out (over a year) before it turned physical, I don't think he was really looking for it. But he never discouraged it. That was 7 years ago and we're still going strong.

Did he leave his wife to be with you?

I will be

[Anonymous]

Opportunity? It's about options.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My AP was not looking. I was the aggressor. He was basically content in his marriage. I thought he was flirty with me, which is what gave me the confidence to flirt harder, but given how long he held out (over a year) before it turned physical, I don't think he was really looking for it. But he never discouraged it. That was 7 years ago and we're still going strong.

Did he leave his wife to be with you?

I will be

You are going to leave his wife ?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My AP was not looking. I was the aggressor. He was basically content in his marriage. I thought he was flirty with me, which is what gave me the confidence to flirt harder, but given how long he held out (over a year) before it turned physical, I don't think he was really looking for it. But he never discouraged it. That was 7 years ago and we're still going strong.

Did he leave his wife to be with you?

I will be

You are going to leave his wife ?

7 years ...ha!! Haaahaaa. Sure thing. Not.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My AP was not looking. I was the aggressor. He was basically content in his marriage. I thought he was flirty with me, which is what gave me the confidence to flirt harder, but given how long he held out (over a year) before it turned physical, I don't think he was really looking for it. But he never discouraged it. That was 7 years ago and we're still going strong.

Gross. Are you married too?

Why would you do this? It seems like you derive self-worth for thinking you 'stole' him from his wife and family. Get some therapy.

+1. What a predator.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:LoL so many guys think women are coming on to them, including at schools. Wondering if these women would agree. Likely not.

I don’t know why you don’t think this happens. My son's teacher was giving very clear signs she wanted me. If she wasn’t a nun I’d definitely be interested.

[Anonymous]

I think at some point we all have opportunities, it’s the nature of human beings. What it comes down to is the commitment you have in the relationship you are in.

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Anonymous wrote:When my kids were in day care, I had numerous affair opportunities because I did the after-work pickup and I would talk to the moms who were picking up their kids. Often I’d be with the mom for some time if her kid and mine had a play date. These moms came on to me, I didn’t come on to them.

Really? Are you sure these moms came on to you or were they just being friendly? I just find it hard to believe that you've had multiple moms at the daycare come on to you. 'm a very friendly person and I can see why someone who isn't used to interacting with this type of personality, would misinterpret my genuine interest in talking and joking around with someone of the opposite sex as being flirtatious.

Yes, I am sure they came on to me. For example, do you rub your tits on guys you are “just being friendly” with?

NP, so they/she “rubbed” her “tits” on you in broad daylight in a daycare classroom in the middle of busy pickup? Come on.

No, they rubbed their tits on me during play dates after the pickup.

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Every single work conference I attend. It’s like as soon as the cocktail hour begins at 5pm, it’s a light switch. The business man turned horn dog appears. I swear people attend these just to fool around and I’ve witnessed several coworkers partake.