Having DH get a vasectomy before we seperate

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH had a vasectomy after his second child. She was 10 when I got pregnant using donor sperm.

And?

OP’s master plan isn’t going to stop him from starting a new family.

A guy who doesn’t take care of his biological children doesn’t strike me as one who will agree to sperm donation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:you are batshit crazy!

My boyfriend has been separated for two years and will be divorced soon.

His ex wife is a controlling bitch who alienates him from his daughter and tries to limit his custody so she can maximize her CS.

Well she's got another thing coming because now I'm pregnant and we will have our own family. He doesn't have to cry every night from missing his child bc I will give him another one.

Oh and the ex wife kept saying that he better not have another kid. Bye bitch.

Oh my. This sounds, umm, not great.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:you are batshit crazy!

My boyfriend has been separated for two years and will be divorced soon.

His ex wife is a controlling bitch who alienates him from his daughter and tries to limit his custody so she can maximize her CS.

Well she's got another thing coming because now I'm pregnant and we will have our own family. He doesn't have to cry every night from missing his child bc I will give him another one.

Oh and the ex wife kept saying that he better not have another kid. Bye bitch.

OP is crazy. You are a new, different flavor of crazy. If you think having a new kid will be replacement for his existing kid and he will no longer miss her, you are either an idiot or are dating some kind of monster.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So I guess if you get pregnant, he can “make” you have an abortion. Or if you threaten, make you get your tubes tied.

Nobody is talking about "making" or "threatening". OP is not going to hold him down and cut his balls off. Although after what he's done (cheating) I'm sure she'd like to.

She is talking about manipulating him which is not very nice (neither is cheating) but is in NO way comparable to forcing someone to have an abortion.

so you would be okay with a former boyfriend manipulating you into get sterilized because he thinks he knows what’s best for you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:you are batshit crazy!

My boyfriend has been separated for two years and will be divorced soon.

His ex wife is a controlling bitch who alienates him from his daughter and tries to limit his custody so she can maximize her CS.

Well she's got another thing coming because now I'm pregnant and we will have our own family. He doesn't have to cry every night from missing his child bc I will give him another one.

Oh and the ex wife kept saying that he better not have another kid. Bye bitch.

Oh my. This sounds, umm, not great.

Right. Yikes. This guy is between Crazy and Crazier. Sounds like you all deserve eachother

[Anonymous]

OP you are morally bankrupt.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:you are batshit crazy!

My boyfriend has been separated for two years and will be divorced soon.

His ex wife is a controlling bitch who alienates him from his daughter and tries to limit his custody so she can maximize her CS.

Well she's got another thing coming because now I'm pregnant and we will have our own family. He doesn't have to cry every night from missing his child bc I will give him another one.

Oh and the ex wife kept saying that he better not have another kid. Bye bitch.

Wow. Divorce is not even final and you are pregnant. Good times. I’d bet my left leg that you two will not be together 5 years from now.

[Anonymous]

Another man who will be better off than the control freak he originally married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:you are batshit crazy!

My boyfriend has been separated for two years and will be divorced soon.

His ex wife is a controlling bitch who alienates him from his daughter and tries to limit his custody so she can maximize her CS.

Well she's got another thing coming because now I'm pregnant and we will have our own family. He doesn't have to cry every night from missing his child bc I will give him another one.

Oh and the ex wife kept saying that he better not have another kid. Bye bitch.

Sounds like he has a type...

You are crazy if you think a parent can stop missing his child because he has another one. Do you think if you have a second child, your DH will forget about your firstborn because there’s a brand new baby that’s younger and cuter? Or better yet, what if he divorced you and has another baby with a third woman? Maybe he should forget about your kid too? Yikes! Maybe you should rethink children with this man!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:you are batshit crazy!

My boyfriend has been separated for two years and will be divorced soon.

His ex wife is a controlling bitch who alienates him from his daughter and tries to limit his custody so she can maximize her CS.

Well she's got another thing coming because now I'm pregnant and we will have our own family. He doesn't have to cry every night from missing his child bc I will give him another one.

Oh and the ex wife kept saying that he better not have another kid. Bye bitch.

Either you are a troll or you’ll be in exact same boat in a few years when he’s ready to ditch you and the new kid for another sperm receptacle.

[Anonymous]

You are a controlling psycho.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:you are batshit crazy!

My boyfriend has been separated for two years and will be divorced soon.

His ex wife is a controlling bitch who alienates him from his daughter and tries to limit his custody so she can maximize her CS.

Well she's got another thing coming because now I'm pregnant and we will have our own family. He doesn't have to cry every night from missing his child bc I will give him another one.

Oh and the ex wife kept saying that he better not have another kid. Bye bitch.

Sounds like he has a type...

You are crazy if you think a parent can stop missing his child because he has another one. Do you think if you have a second child, your DH will forget about your firstborn because there’s a brand new baby that’s younger and cuter? Or better yet, what if he divorced you and has another baby with a third woman? Maybe he should forget about your kid too? Yikes! Maybe you should rethink children with this man!

He didn’t even care enough to divorce Wife #1 before knocking PP up. She is screwed now.

[Anonymous]

If it's money you're worried about, if he has it now, have him put the money in a trust for your kids with you as the trustee and him with no control over it. That money is your kids' until they turn 25 or 30 or whatever. I'm not a lawyer or a financial planner, for all I know this is a stupid idea that won't work, but an idea.

[Anonymous]

Op, you are crazy. Beyond crazy. Insane.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH had a vasectomy after his second child. She was 10 when I got pregnant using donor sperm.

And?

OP’s master plan isn’t going to stop him from starting a new family.

A guy who doesn’t take care of his biological children doesn’t strike me as one who will agree to sperm donation.

I’d say that depends more on the new lady in his life than anything else. You’d be surprised.