My man introduced me to a guy i was previously intimate with. Help!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My girlfriend sucked 37 dicks!

In a row?

Try not to suck any dicks on your way through the parking lot!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No way would they talk about it. Unless this guy is a lunatic, he would never say to his colleague, "oh, by the way Ted, your girlfriend blew me and a bunch of other guys last year."
I really don't think it came up and I think you're being paranoid. If Ted is acting differently this week it 'so probably because he's reacting to whatever vibes you're putting out there with your worry. Regardless, don't say anything! It's irrelevant - you didn't date the guy or anything. If he doesn't already know, and you "fess up", then you'll be opening up a can of worms unnecessarily.

+1.

[Anonymous]

You probably already blew him and he is with you for yer pretty mouth

[Anonymous]

Guy here... Listen to me. Deny it to the death. Say they must have you mixed up with someone else. Actually convince yourself it didn't happen. There is absolutely no upside to admitting it. Once you hypnotize yourself it didn't happen you will feel much better.

[Anonymous]

Guy here....two thoughts....1) why have I never been to an event like this? And two, Who blows guys they just met? I want to know....Or is a corporate/Luxury suite required?

[Anonymous]

Deny. Unless you met Ted by giving him oral at a sporting event too

[Anonymous]

This thread gives new meaning to the word FIRM.

[Anonymous]

Deny unless your gf wil fess up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This thread gives new meaning to the word FIRM.

That's a hard one to blow off

[Anonymous]

I hope you do not drink a lot around Ted. You probably would not have done this if you had not been drinking. If you still drink a lot socially and Ted finds out about the night in question then he will not think you have changed. Stop drinking, it leads to bad decisions and regrets.

[Anonymous]

wow, why is everyone projecting on OP's BF - we have zero idea of who he is - whether he's cool with a woman's past or not.

all we know is that OP has a serious hang up regarding her own behavior.

OP - so you whored it up one night, big deal. If you are ashamed of your own past then deal with it. but the issue so far has nothing to do with your BF but has everything to do with YOU.

and FWIW, guys absolutely share these types of stories with each other - but the details of the women involved (apart from "she was hot, had huge tits, etc.) are fuzzy at best and often times embellished.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Really, am I THAT naive that a woman would give blow jobs to three men (possibly four - can't remember, giggle!?!?!)

Sick.

I am guessing she is in her late 20s.

Sounds like the antics of the crowd my cousin used to run with. They were very pretty girls who would often get invited to VIP suites, after game parties with professional atheletes, etc. Then they would drink and do stupid shit like this under the guise of oops I got a little drunk.

I am not 100% doubtful of OP.

Sad to say it does not sound unusual.

My question always is, don't the guys feels weird dropping their pants and having an orgasm in front of their buddies and work collegues?

I always am amazed at the guys when I hear something like this. I don't know of any of my girl buddies that i would have been comfortable or drunk enough to willlingly drop my pants around as a guy moves around the room performing oral sex on us one after another. Ewww!

Serioiusly. that must be some kind of bonding. this must be why women can't get into the good ol boy network.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Guy here... Listen to me. Deny it to the death. Say they must have you mixed up with someone else. Actually convince yourself it didn't happen. There is absolutely no upside to admitting it. Once you hypnotize yourself it didn't happen you will feel much better.

wow, marriage material right here, girls.

[Anonymous]

OP, did you get the feeling he recognized you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I just got back on the forum. I don't get why people are saying "37" guys. I"m not even really sure but it was more like 3 or 4 so not even close to the 30s like some of you are saying. I just don't get that. ANyway, even the actual number would freak Ted out.

I'm worried that Ted will "re-evaluate" things if that makes sense. I'm scared that he might break up with me and I don't want that at all!!! He's really a great guy and to be honest I haven't met too many of those.

I also know that guys brag about stuff like that. Also if I remembered him, he can remember me too you know. I know everyone has a past. When Ted and I had the talk we both said we have a past. Ted's past is not quite so out there. When he asked about casual and short flings I said I didn't do that stuff. I know - not truthful but I thought it would bring us closer and in fact we really have gotten closer. Anyway, I can't now say it was just a fling or a one nighter or whatever without making it obvious that I wasn't truthful before.

It's great that some of you support me, butt was a huge mistake that never should have happened. No, I'm not doing it to every guy or anything but Ted would freak I think if he found out. It's just that if it comes from me it may be better than if he hears about it from somebody else.

I would count on him hearing it sooner or later. You did it pretty publicly and it's the kind of thing that guys gossip about. He's going to hear it. He should hear it from you.I would tell him. ASAP. If he freaks now, you can both cut your losses now and walk away. If he hears it later and freaks, you'll both be much further into this relationship and it will be that much more painful.