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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I just got back on the forum. I don't get why people are saying "37" guys. I"m not even really sure but it was more like 3 or 4 so not even close to the 30s like some of you  are saying. I just don't get that. ANyway, even the actual number would freak Ted out.

I'm worried that Ted will "re-evaluate" things if that makes sense. I'm scared that he might break up with me and I don't want that at all!!! He's really a great guy and to be honest I haven't met too many of those.

I also know that guys brag about stuff like that. Also if I remembered him, he can remember me too you know. I know everyone has a past. When Ted and I had the talk we both said we have a past. Ted's past is not quite so out there. When he asked about casual and short flings I said I didn't do that stuff. I know - not truthful but I thought it would bring us closer and in fact we really have gotten closer. Anyway, I can't now say it was just a fling or a one nighter or whatever without making it obvious that I wasn't truthful before.

It's great that some of you support me, butt was a huge mistake that never should have happened. No, I'm not doing it to every guy or anything but Ted would freak I think if he found out. It's just that if it comes from me it may be better than if he hears about it from somebody else. [/quote]

I would count on him hearing it sooner or later.  You did it pretty publicly and it's the kind of thing that guys gossip about.  He's going to hear it. He should hear it from you.I would tell him.  ASAP.  If he freaks now, you can both cut your losses now and walk away.  If he hears it later and freaks, you'll both be much further into this relationship and it will be that much more painful.

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