This is exactly me. Start slow/infrequent until it becomes a habit. And it feels so great putting in that hard work before many people are even up! |
"Just Do It" |
OP you just have to wait until kids are older or your DH makes enough you can go part time or SAH. Just not enough hours in day. |
This is the wrong answer. Fitness and health don’t start when the kids or older and they don’t depend on you being a stay at home parent. You wake up, drink your coffee, and just GO. You go even though you don’t want to. The same way you would not skip brushing your teeth or showering, you make it so habitual to work out that you don’t consider not going just because sleeping or sitting in your chair a little longer sounds nicer. The absolute only way to make it a part of your daily life is to do it often enough that it becomes routine. You literally just make yourself wake up, make yourself get dressed, make yourself get to the gym, make yourself work out. It’s discipline, you just have to cultivate it. |
I wake up at 5am, have a sip of water and I'm off to the gym. I've been like this since my 20s and I'm in my 50s now. |
Start off waking up early 2 days a week to exercise, then work your way up.
I was never a morning person but I adopted the habit of getting up early to work out when my son was a toddler so could get it in before he woke up. Because otherwise I knew I likely wouldn't have the time/energy later. The habit stuck and now I feel 'off' for the rest of the day if I don't do my work out first thing. It wakes me up. And I love getting it out the way and then I can go about the rest of my day as normal. That's actually my biggest motivation. |
You can actually get sick more from working out without enough sleep. |
I’ll be honest, I didn’t start doing it until my kids could drive themselves to high school. Here’s what helped: I’m more of a morning person than a night person anyway, so I’d rather do it at 6:30 in the morning then at 5:30 PM or later after work. I joined a regular gym where I pay a lot of money for 8 classes a month, with more for a la carte classes, and it annoys me if I miss classes or paid and don’t go I joined a women’s only gym so the camaraderie there is pretty nice. I’m done by 7:30 AM I go on days when I don’t also go into the office, except one day a week. I go three times a week consistently. Consistency is the key for me. Unless I’m traveling for work (rare) or sick, I go. It’s a high-quality class so I feel like I’m really getting a good weightlifting workout. |
Ps I’m still getting 7-8 hours of sleep, by going to bed at 10 and waking up at six.
I sleep a little bit more on off days to compensate, but not a ton more |
PPS my gym is only six minute drive from my house |
You sleep in athletic wear and synthetic type material? Sounds uncomfortable and unhealthy. Body needs to "breathe" |
I didn't really work out regularly until my 40s, after my kids were out of the house. For the last 5 years, I've been doing 6 days a week. Weekday workouts are at 5, after work (I have to get up at 5:15 to make this work since i have an hour+ commute).
My "morning" workouts on the weekend are at 10 am lol. My body wants two cups of coffee and food before I even think about it and that has never happened at 4 am or 5 am. Left to my own devices I would go to bed at 1, get up at 8, and workout from 5 to 6:30. |
And you can die from inactivity and obesity. |
Yeah see people like you will always find an excuse not to do it. I need 45 more minutes of sleep. I’ll do it when I’m a stay at home parent. I’ll do it when my kids are teens. I’ll do it when I retire. just wasting time. |
Get your clothes and gym bag ready the night before. I find I am much more likely to go if I have everything ready when I wake up. I will have coffee and a banana before I leave the house. If I start "making" breakfast that will stall or even stop my exit plan. |