If you are a sugar baby why did you decide to be one?

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Anonymous wrote:It’s a thin line between being a sugar baby and an empty nester who doesn’t work but whose lifestyle is totally supported by her husband. I do provide, willingly, a wide range of sexual services, same as a sugar baby. The big difference is that I love the man and bore him three children. I do have some guilt living off his largesse but I can handle it.

The line is not thin, it's actually very thick. You CHOSE your lifestyle. You won't tolerate many things if your husband was a transactional jerk and made decisions for your body. SBs are sad creatures who are pinging all men on seeking trying to get a side hassle doing what these uggo men want.

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Men are so f***g dumb. Don't call sugar babies hookers lol

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A lot of women on this forum view men who see escorts and buy sex as loosers. These same women make up all kind of excuses for sugar babies. This is why of you if you man stop trying to impress women. They don't care. All they care about is their own self interest. Don't fall for the endless gaslighting that men are selfish creatures.

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Anonymous wrote:Sooo… how does one go about this in their 40s? lol.. no but seriously… groceries ain’t cheap

If you look hot I believe it can work.

I am mid 40s woman and was propositioned several times. But you have to be 3 holes qualified and prepared to tolerate pervs. I passed, as I have own income

If you have your own income why would you need to be a sugar baby? And what is three holes qualified?

Be willing to use your 3 holes bc their wives won’t.

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Anonymous wrote:Men are so f***g dumb. Don't call sugar babies hookers lol

Of course they are hookers. Do you prefer paid s3x worker? It’s the same thing.

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There is this debate whether onlyfans empower women. Men buy sex it's a fact and it's not new. Women need to stop viewing these men as some kind of losers. On one hand we applaud the women making very high income on onlyfans and at the same time we criticize those men who continues to their success by buying their products as some kind of losers stuck in their mom's basement playing video games.

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Anonymous wrote:Men are so f***g dumb. Don't call sugar babies hookers lol

Sugar babies don't think they are hookers lol. Because according to them hookers are only the ones that get f**d for money lol. So the sugar babies who have the arrangements where there is no sex view themselves differently. They are just delusional. It's another example of men viewing the woman's body and kind as a commodity that can be bought for self enjoyment.

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Anonymous wrote:Men are so f***g dumb. Don't call sugar babies hookers lol

Sugar babies don't think they are hookers lol. Because according to them hookers are only the ones that get f**d for money lol. So the sugar babies who have the arrangements where there is no sex view themselves differently. They are just delusional. It's another example of men viewing the woman's body and kind as a commodity that can be bought for self enjoyment.

hah? Where did you see sugar babies with arrangements where there is no sex?

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Anonymous wrote:Men are so f***g dumb. Don't call sugar babies hookers lol

Sugar babies don't think they are hookers lol. Because according to them hookers are only the ones that get f**d for money lol. So the sugar babies who have the arrangements where there is no sex view themselves differently. They are just delusional. It's another example of men viewing the woman's body and kind as a commodity that can be bought for self enjoyment.

hah? Where did you see sugar babies with arrangements where there is no sex?

Plenty of those..there are some weird men who just want a woman to hug them talk to them and they will give her money

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I think sugar babies are just the result of the continued rise in loneliness among men.

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Anonymous wrote:Men are so f***g dumb. Don't call sugar babies hookers lol

Sugar babies don't think they are hookers lol. Because according to them hookers are only the ones that get f**d for money lol. So the sugar babies who have the arrangements where there is no sex view themselves differently. They are just delusional. It's another example of men viewing the woman's body and kind as a commodity that can be bought for self enjoyment.

hah? Where did you see sugar babies with arrangements where there is no sex?

Plenty of those..there are some weird men who just want a woman to hug them talk to them and they will give her money

You are very naive

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Anonymous wrote:Most of the people I met off an old site SA were not exclusive to their SD. I knew that and arranged for pay per visit and had a very nice stable with lots of variety.

Easy money if you’re willing to have fun.

As a woman, I would think that most guys who use these sites are either unattractive or pervs, or married. E.g. most attractive women won't sleep with them for free as there is no relationship potential

Or they are the successful to the point types who don't have time for nuanced BS.

I am happily married and have never been in the SB/SD world. When I was dating I was blunt and to the point out of the gate regarding exactly what I was looking for in a relationship, what I wanted in partner. I was not going to wait months for something that was important to me or the relationship to organically present itslef. Some woman were put off, many appreciated laying alll of the cards out on the table.

What are those things that you needed from the start ? 3somes, a..l, gold shower on partners, have her f..k other men at your order in front of you ?
That’s a summary of what men are looking for on seeking

So please, don’t romanticize prostitution it’s dirty and full of pervs

Thanks for your assumptions.
None of it was related to particular sex acts. It was mostly he kind of relationship I wanted. That I have zero tolerance for drama, gossip, excessive social media use. That I am looking for a long term relationship leading to the possibility of marriage. If you are thinking of cheating, just break up. There are two people in the relationship and that is it. The relationship takes priority.

That type of stuff with more specifics.

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It’s funny how language can literally change the perception of something. Sugar baby sounds so much better than “prostitute.” It’s like how trump waved away that tape scandal with the term “locker room talk.” It works on the masses but stop to think for a minute and you see it’s filth.

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I absolutely would have done this in college and law school if it was a thing. I like attention and I like sex and I like money. I don't look down on sex work and see it as honest labor. Being seen with an older man might raise a few eyebrows if I introduce my sugar daddy as "my date," but it would not be something that would get back to my family or work associates.

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Anonymous wrote:I absolutely would have done this in college and law school if it was a thing. I like attention and I like sex and I like money. I don't look down on sex work and see it as honest labor. Being seen with an older man might raise a few eyebrows if I introduce my sugar daddy as "my date," but it would not be something that would get back to my family or work associates.

Sure, one can call any activity with the goal of earning money "work" and to be applauded right?

For these sites, you would have to put your pic up for random men to view.
They will use facial recognition tools to identify you and research your background.
You will not even know who is or has checked you out.
To think that there is no risk you will be found out is naive.