If you are a sugar baby why did you decide to be one?
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Anonymous
| Curious because I heard this term tossed around when I worked with both attractive and unattractive younger people and made it sound like a easy way to be able to afford things you couldn't. So if you are a sugar baby or were a sugar baby how old were you and why did you become one and why did you stop? |
Anonymous
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Because I realized all men wanted was sex, and might as well get something out of it
In my 20s And I got pregnant (not by that guy) |
Anonymous
| I was a college student in DC living in a dump and he put me up in a great apartment for my senior year. He only came by once a week and he was very nice. |
Anonymous
| Sooo… how does one go about this in their 40s? lol.. no but seriously… groceries ain’t cheap |
Anonymous
If you look hot I believe it can work. |
Anonymous
I am mid 40s woman and was propositioned several times. But you have to be 3 holes qualified and prepared to tolerate pervs. I passed, as I have own income |
Anonymous
If you have your own income why would you need to be a sugar baby? And what is three holes qualified? |
Anonymous
I’m a long time sugar daddy. I would not date you atm because I’m 40s too and I go for the 20s-early 30s but I imagine when I’m coming up on 60+ I’d go for a hot milfy 40 something sugar baby Best bet is to have awesome pics and sign up on seeking.com DC unlike most of the country is a sugar baby market meaning that odds are better for SBs than they are for SDs. Because DC is high income and high education area there are plenty of rich daddies but not enough quality SBs (because the quality ladies in DMV tend to already have high income/education) so you will have better luck here than in places like NYC or LA where there are 10 hot SBs to each legit SD |
Anonymous
| Search the old sugar dating thread here. 50 pages of info from what I recall |
Anonymous
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Most of the people I met off an old site SA were not exclusive to their SD. I knew that and arranged for pay per visit and had a very nice stable with lots of variety.
Easy money if you’re willing to have fun. |
Anonymous
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I’m a SB because it makes sense. Most men are cheaters or have some major flaw. Why settle down with someone who’s going to treat.
I’m smart, beautiful, and in my 40s. I’ll ride it out til it ends. |
Anonymous
You had a stable of sugardaddies? |
Anonymous
As a woman, I would think that most guys who use these sites are either unattractive or pervs, or married. E.g. most attractive women won't sleep with them for free as there is no relationship potential |
Anonymous
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I did it 20ish years ago when I was 22 -24. I had two arrangements (not at the same time). One was 48, the other 52. They were both actually good looking, a bit socially awkward. Definitely workaholics that probably would have made miserable partners.
I wasn't looking for a relationship at the time but saw some of the benefits of the SB situation. Honestly, it was a blast. I lucked out with 2 guys I actually enjoyed being with and I got spoiled. I stopped because the arrangement with the 52 year old was getting close to a real relationship and it made me realize I wanted one, but one that would lead to marriage and kids. I met DH about a year later. |
Anonymous
I didn't want/tried to be a sugar baby. These were all men who I didn't want to date: they came forward with "business propositions" after getting that second date bye-bye message. The propositions ranged from offering a skiing trip to Aspen to 5K/month allowance. One was hiding he was married; another was also a poly and perv (wanted threesomes). These men using seeking are nuts and women should be super careful. Just read about Diddy's scandal |