If you are a sugar baby why did you decide to be one?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Sugar relationships only work if the man is crazy loaded or you marry the sugar daddy and never work again. And for example Lady Spencer married a man 20 years older. To me that’s a successful sugar daddy marriage.


He's a billionnaire and she's titled nobility. And they've been married for 2 years.

The very upper crust does such strange things with marriage I don't think we can make any assumptions.

Unless Lady Kitty needed someone to buy her a country pile the size of Althorp, this doesn't fit into sugaring model at all.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:To the 50 yr old sugardaddy: You're not gonna win with this crowd, but it is fun to watch them get all riled up!

I know multiple sugardaddies in my circle. It's more common in the DC area than people think. While I go for women mid 20's to mid 30's, my friends who focus on college girls have a lot to choose from. GW and American in particular have a lot of sugarbabies. A lot of them seem to be doing it to pay for extra things they can't usually afford, like fancy handbags.

When I meet a potential sugarbaby, we go for a drink first, and we'll proceed with something maybe 75% of the time. We've already chatted online before meeting, and I have certain things I look for before proceeding. Some are purely into money, which works for some of my friends. I like good conversation and going out and having fun at restaurants and bars, so my type is a little different. No surprise that the women on such sites are looking for a variety of different things too.


yeah i'm not looking to win over the frumpy DCUM mommas here. I'm mostly posting to see them all riled up ) and also to encourage single/divorced middle aged dads here to go for it if they have the means.. as you know it is absolutely nothing like "escort" or prostitute sex ... genuine connections emotions feelings and fun .. lots of fun and avoid/bypass the whole shitstorm waste of time and energy that is online dating on tinder/hinge/bumble etc.

as promised, reporting back on my date with my favorite baby last night. tell me it reads like a cheap poorly written somewhat graphic romance novel lol

each time we meet it seems better than before. after 6mo the new relationship energy is still escalating and shows no signs of slowing down. this one has longer term potential. the sex is great, outstanding, and with clear communications and transparency on both sides its like the perfect relationship. like you i am definitely not interested in the sex only type of arrangements that work for lot of other guys (mostly the married ones with discrete SBs on the side) .. my baby and I we met up last night after a couple of weeks and it really feels like a couple of long lost lovers making out for a long time. she doesn't call me sugar daddy she calls me her lover who takes care of her. and to all the frumpy mommas here who insist she has no attraction for me ... kissing is something that can't be faked. you can have good kissers and bad kissers but even a great kisser cannot fake it for hours on end over months and months so yeah no i just laugh at the old hags here who insist she is just doing it for money.

we had sex a couple times in the evening. i mentioned before she is a kinky woman and she has a ton of toys we play around with first round. second round i get my toys out this time tie her up with cuffs and collars and really let her have it. me being close to 50 even with the vpill I'm not going to "finish" more than a couple times at night but she has at least half a dozen wild Os where her whole body is out of control.

it was almost 9pm, we are both famished and i find one of the few open places to grab a bite. close down the restaurant ofc the wait staff have to politely encourage us to leave close to midnight .. because like i said before we can't get enough of each other whether its sexy time or like at the restaurant just a gazillion non stop things in common we want to talk to each other about.

head back to the hotel for another round of unbridled sexy time before falling asleep in each others arms.

she is cuddling me all night long and in the morning i get awoken with literally a thousand kisses in my back, neck, ears and literally my hair is standing and goosebumps ... then another vanilla-esque quickie and we are off to brunch. the place is packed with people but all i can see is this woman gazing into my eyes holding my hands and smiling like a lovesick little puppy or kitty as i like to call her .. sorry ! yeah i really don't think these are things that can be faked even by the most talented "escort"

i gotta add here, in the 6mo that i've known this woman we have only a couple of time discussed money. and that was in the beginning. she never brings it up, it is just never part of the conversation and there is no overt transaction happening at any time. she gets what we agreed to and in addition to that i cover all our routine expenses like restaurants, trip etc and i also do cash gifts for things like her bday and plan to do the same for xmas/new yr even though i likely won't be seeing her between thanksgiving and new year because of my other social / family commitments.

now go back above and repeat all of the above every week to every other week and compare that to your own romantic relationship/s or sex life .. this is like the perfect fairy tale for a normal middle aged single dad. no complaints from me. the DCUM mommas can be riled up all they want
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Sugar relationships only work if the man is crazy loaded or you marry the sugar daddy and never work again. And for example Lady Spencer married a man 20 years older. To me that’s a successful sugar daddy marriage.


He's a billionnaire and she's titled nobility. And they've been married for 2 years.

The very upper crust does such strange things with marriage I don't think we can make any assumptions.

Unless Lady Kitty needed someone to buy her a country pile the size of Althorp, this doesn't fit into sugaring model at all.



Well she’s educated, cultured. The thing people were saying was why she shouldn’t need to do this. So if the woman is educated but chooses to, what’s the difference. I’m certain she had many suitors.
Anonymous
So what happened to his plans to tell her about upcoming replacement with a new younger model and “mommy daughter” threesome before parting ways ?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:So what happened to his plans to tell her about upcoming replacement with a new younger model and “mommy daughter” threesome before parting ways ?


That didn’t get sufficient reaction. So now he has to tell it’s the most amazing relationship ever.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:It’s called being a SAHM now.


No, no. You know that SAHMs don't work. This is the gig for a WOHM who had her kids late. And she has to be 3 hole qualified.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So what happened to his plans to tell her about upcoming replacement with a new younger model and “mommy daughter” threesome before parting ways ?


That didn’t get sufficient reaction. So now he has to tell it’s the most amazing relationship ever.


Super lame. You keep insisting I plan to replace her imminently for a newer model but that was never the case. She and I have discussed the short term temporary nature of sugar arrangements in the past. And last night as well. She is completely onboard and knows how it goes. She says she is not jealous (her words) and knows I am actively dating vanilla (hinge bumble etc because end of the day I would love a normal romantic relationship) and she does the same. Im at the moment not searching for any other sugar baby on seeking but am transparent about the fact that I just might do that in the future. Im not deceiving anyone.

Part of our long chats including sharing vanilla dating stories. We did the same last night we had a blast talking and laughing about some recent experiences

I have the perfect thing here for me. And y’all just can’t handle it. The fact that a normal average middle aged man like me with a little more disposable income can be having his best sex life at 50 and like the other guy said it’s so much fun seeing y’all riled up so much

Haha but the jokes on you.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:So what happened to his plans to tell her about upcoming replacement with a new younger model and “mommy daughter” threesome before parting ways ?


She is completely onboard with threesome. She wants MFM and I want FMF and we are going to do both. We talked about it again last night since you are so curious we decided to make a “couple” profile on Feeld. Why don’t you make a profile there and see if you can find us: Super hot mid 30s babe with short fat ugly balding guy ISO guys and girls for 3some 😈😇
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So what happened to his plans to tell her about upcoming replacement with a new younger model and “mommy daughter” threesome before parting ways ?


That didn’t get sufficient reaction. So now he has to tell it’s the most amazing relationship ever.


Super lame. You keep insisting I plan to replace her imminently for a newer model but that was never the case. She and I have discussed the short term temporary nature of sugar arrangements in the past. And last night as well. She is completely onboard and knows how it goes. She says she is not jealous (her words) and knows I am actively dating vanilla (hinge bumble etc because end of the day I would love a normal romantic relationship) and she does the same. Im at the moment not searching for any other sugar baby on seeking but am transparent about the fact that I just might do that in the future. Im not deceiving anyone.

Part of our long chats including sharing vanilla dating stories. We did the same last night we had a blast talking and laughing about some recent experiences

I have the perfect thing here for me. And y’all just can’t handle it. The fact that a normal average middle aged man like me with a little more disposable income can be having his best sex life at 50 and like the other guy said it’s so much fun seeing y’all riled up so much

Haha but the jokes on you.


You cannot seem to keep up with the details of your own story.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So what happened to his plans to tell her about upcoming replacement with a new younger model and “mommy daughter” threesome before parting ways ?


She is completely onboard with threesome. She wants MFM and I want FMF and we are going to do both. We talked about it again last night since you are so curious we decided to make a “couple” profile on Feeld. Why don’t you make a profile there and see if you can find us: Super hot mid 30s babe with short fat ugly balding guy ISO guys and girls for 3some 😈😇


Nice stories Bro. You won’t have much interest for FMF unless you quadruple pay
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So what happened to his plans to tell her about upcoming replacement with a new younger model and “mommy daughter” threesome before parting ways ?


That didn’t get sufficient reaction. So now he has to tell it’s the most amazing relationship ever.


That dude is an exhibitionist. Just think of the 4 star hotel in Hawaii that lost a star because he and SB were doing it in the pool. Couldn't afford an AirBnB with an infinity pool?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So what happened to his plans to tell her about upcoming replacement with a new younger model and “mommy daughter” threesome before parting ways ?


That didn’t get sufficient reaction. So now he has to tell it’s the most amazing relationship ever.


Super lame. You keep insisting I plan to replace her imminently for a newer model but that was never the case. She and I have discussed the short term temporary nature of sugar arrangements in the past. And last night as well. She is completely onboard and knows how it goes. She says she is not jealous (her words) and knows I am actively dating vanilla (hinge bumble etc because end of the day I would love a normal romantic relationship) and she does the same. Im at the moment not searching for any other sugar baby on seeking but am transparent about the fact that I just might do that in the future. Im not deceiving anyone.

Part of our long chats including sharing vanilla dating stories. We did the same last night we had a blast talking and laughing about some recent experiences

I have the perfect thing here for me. And y’all just can’t handle it. The fact that a normal average middle aged man like me with a little more disposable income can be having his best sex life at 50 and like the other guy said it’s so much fun seeing y’all riled up so much

Haha but the jokes on you.


You cannot seem to keep up with the details of your own story.


I’m enjoying you being so intrigued and obsessively following each and every word I post 😈

Not to mention you getting off on my sugar baby stories 😈😈

Sweet dreams 😈😈😈
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So what happened to his plans to tell her about upcoming replacement with a new younger model and “mommy daughter” threesome before parting ways ?


She is completely onboard with threesome. She wants MFM and I want FMF and we are going to do both. We talked about it again last night since you are so curious we decided to make a “couple” profile on Feeld. Why don’t you make a profile there and see if you can find us: Super hot mid 30s babe with short fat ugly balding guy ISO guys and girls for 3some 😈😇


Nice stories Bro. You won’t have much interest for FMF unless you quadruple pay


You need a 3rd grade math lesson. Let me teach you something

1 baby = $X
2 babies = 2 times $X

Not quadruple. Your welcome 😉😇
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So what happened to his plans to tell her about upcoming replacement with a new younger model and “mommy daughter” threesome before parting ways ?


That didn’t get sufficient reaction. So now he has to tell it’s the most amazing relationship ever.


That dude is an exhibitionist. Just think of the 4 star hotel in Hawaii that lost a star because he and SB were doing it in the pool. Couldn't afford an AirBnB with an infinity pool?


Damn right. We like to have sex in public places .. the turn on is the chance of being seen or getting caught. What fun is there having sex in a private secluded airbnb pool?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So what happened to his plans to tell her about upcoming replacement with a new younger model and “mommy daughter” threesome before parting ways ?


That didn’t get sufficient reaction. So now he has to tell it’s the most amazing relationship ever.


That dude is an exhibitionist. Just think of the 4 star hotel in Hawaii that lost a star because he and SB were doing it in the pool. Couldn't afford an AirBnB with an infinity pool?


Damn right. We like to have sex in public places .. the turn on is the chance of being seen or getting caught. What fun is there having sex in a private secluded airbnb pool?



Hey dude- I’m a PP poster woman and I did the same things sexually, except threesomes, just dating and being in love with someone. It only cost two men I dated post divorce a few dinner dates and a jazz concert. Then I was splitting and wad happy to. as they had young kids and I make good money. They however included me in their lives, met with friends and relatives. We saw each other way more (several times a week) simply because we both wanted it.

You end up paying for it so no, it’s not such a great deal vs what you call “vanilla” dating.

Try not paying your 35 yo SB and you’ll quickly see how much in love she actually is. She will quietly ghost you. Good luck with that !

I hope your “regular” dates will see through quickly and get you caught f..ng prostitutes before they get vested into a relationship .
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