If you are a sugar baby why did you decide to be one?

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Anonymous wrote:Sooo… how does one go about this in their 40s? lol.. no but seriously… groceries ain’t cheap

I’m a long time sugar daddy. I would not date you atm because I’m 40s too and I go for the 20s-early 30s but I imagine when I’m coming up on 60+ I’d go for a hot milfy 40 something sugar baby

Best bet is to have awesome pics and sign up on seeking.com DC unlike most of the country is a sugar baby market meaning that odds are better for SBs than they are for SDs. Because DC is high income and high education area there are plenty of rich daddies but not enough quality SBs (because the quality ladies in DMV tend to already have high income/education) so you will have better luck here than in places like NYC or LA where there are 10 hot SBs to each legit SD

There are so few truly attractive women on seeking. Not sure who wants to pay for these 20 year olds that look like cheap baristas. Being 20 doesn't make you more beautiful. If a wet P is the only criteria, then you can get this for free on tinder

No one offers allowance or $ to average fat or ugly girls. You are right most of DC area seeking profiles are ugly. Just like tinder lol. The rare hot women are hard to land but they are there. and that is why I said earlier that DC is a hot market for genuinely attractive sugar babies regardless of age. Go to LA and I’m swimming in 22yr old 9-10-11/10 hotties, new one every week if I want.. Here in DC the hot ones are hard to find think like 2-3mo of effort lol vs 2-3 days in LA or NYC

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Sooo… how does one go about this in their 40s? lol.. no but seriously… groceries ain’t cheap

I’m a long time sugar daddy. I would not date you atm because I’m 40s too and I go for the 20s-early 30s but I imagine when I’m coming up on 60+ I’d go for a hot milfy 40 something sugar baby

Best bet is to have awesome pics and sign up on seeking.com DC unlike most of the country is a sugar baby market meaning that odds are better for SBs than they are for SDs. Because DC is high income and high education area there are plenty of rich daddies but not enough quality SBs (because the quality ladies in DMV tend to already have high income/education) so you will have better luck here than in places like NYC or LA where there are 10 hot SBs to each legit SD

There are so few truly attractive women on seeking. Not sure who wants to pay for these 20 year olds that look like cheap baristas. Being 20 doesn't make you more beautiful. If a wet P is the only criteria, then you can get this for free on tinder

No one offers allowance or $ to average fat or ugly girls. You are right most of DC area seeking profiles are ugly. Just like tinder lol. The rare hot women are hard to land but they are there. and that is why I said earlier that DC is a hot market for genuinely attractive sugar babies regardless of age. Go to LA and I’m swimming in 22yr old 9-10-11/10 hotties, new one every week if I want.. Here in DC the hot ones are hard to find think like 2-3mo of effort lol vs 2-3 days in LA or NYC

Why dont they sleep with you for free?

[Anonymous]

Do any of you retired sugarbanbies ever tell your eventual serious relationships about your past? Or is that information locked in the vault forever?

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Anonymous wrote:Sooo… how does one go about this in their 40s? lol.. no but seriously… groceries ain’t cheap

If you look hot I believe it can work.

I am mid 40s woman and was propositioned several times. But you have to be 3 holes qualified and prepared to tolerate pervs. I passed, as I have own income

If you have your own income why would you need to be a sugar baby? And what is three holes qualified?

I didn't want/tried to be a sugar baby. These were all men who I didn't want to date: they came forward with "business propositions" after getting that second date bye-bye message. The propositions ranged from offering a skiing trip to Aspen to 5K/month allowance. One was hiding he was married; another was also a poly and perv (wanted threesomes).
These men using seeking are nuts and women should be super careful. Just read about Diddy's scandal

Taking money for sex is a few levels of magnitude worse than wanting a threesome. It must be among the top three (pun intended) sexual fantasies. And for the record, I do not personally want to and will never have a threesome but I think your judgement is misplaced.

[Anonymous]

It’s called being a SAHM now.

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I have a friend who did this in her early 40s. Divorced a man, then was with a woman for a
Long time, had her heart broken

Grew up with a single Mom and lack of financial security. Was single. Went on some
Great trips to Japan and Australia and stuff but then met someone, got engaged and stopped.

I’ll be honest when I found this out I kind of ended the friendship. Not because I judge the sexuality- women have sold their bodies for men’s profit for long enough- more for the wealth thirst. Yuck.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have a friend who did this in her early 40s. Divorced a man, then was with a woman for a
Long time, had her heart broken

Grew up with a single Mom and lack of financial security. Was single. Went on some
Great trips to Japan and Australia and stuff but then met someone, got engaged and stopped.

I’ll be honest when I found this out I kind of ended the friendship. Not because I judge the sexuality- women have sold their bodies for men’s profit for long enough- more for the wealth thirst. Yuck.

I don’t know, I think that’s a little judgmental. I don’t think it’s wealth thirst I think it may have been thirst for some companionship while also wanting to survive the daily bills.

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I’m okay with being judgmental about soft prostitution for a woman with a college education, job, and no kids. I understand need. I understand empowerment. And I love sex. But I def think it’s sketch. Transactional relationships like that aren’t about companionship they’re about money. md she had enough money. So yeah, she’s a yoga teacher and all spiritual but bypasses her sugaring. I deeply need to respect my friends. I don’t look down on her, but I also don’t respect this choice.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m a SB because it makes sense. Most men are cheaters or have some major flaw. Why settle down with someone who’s going to treat.

I’m smart, beautiful, and in my 40s. I’ll ride it out til it ends.

Smart woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s called being a SAHM now.

Haha but thats more work than sugar..

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Anonymous wrote:Sooo… how does one go about this in their 40s? lol.. no but seriously… groceries ain’t cheap

I’m a long time sugar daddy. I would not date you atm because I’m 40s too and I go for the 20s-early 30s but I imagine when I’m coming up on 60+ I’d go for a hot milfy 40 something sugar baby

Best bet is to have awesome pics and sign up on seeking.com DC unlike most of the country is a sugar baby market meaning that odds are better for SBs than they are for SDs. Because DC is high income and high education area there are plenty of rich daddies but not enough quality SBs (because the quality ladies in DMV tend to already have high income/education) so you will have better luck here than in places like NYC or LA where there are 10 hot SBs to each legit SD

There are so few truly attractive women on seeking. Not sure who wants to pay for these 20 year olds that look like cheap baristas. Being 20 doesn't make you more beautiful. If a wet P is the only criteria, then you can get this for free on tinder

No one offers allowance or $ to average fat or ugly girls. You are right most of DC area seeking profiles are ugly. Just like tinder lol. The rare hot women are hard to land but they are there. and that is why I said earlier that DC is a hot market for genuinely attractive sugar babies regardless of age. Go to LA and I’m swimming in 22yr old 9-10-11/10 hotties, new one every week if I want.. Here in DC the hot ones are hard to find think like 2-3mo of effort lol vs 2-3 days in LA or NYC

That is because those La hotties have had plastic surgery done up the wazoo and they look to be in their late forties anyway with all that surgery done to their faces and bodies

[Anonymous]

So bottom line— you can be a SB as long as you’re really hot and know your market . (Putting gym clothes on now)

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Sooo… how does one go about this in their 40s? lol.. no but seriously… groceries ain’t cheap

If you look hot I believe it can work.

I am mid 40s woman and was propositioned several times. But you have to be 3 holes qualified and prepared to tolerate pervs. I passed, as I have own income

If you have your own income why would you need to be a sugar baby? And what is three holes qualified?

If you have to ask what that is, you ain't gonna be able to do it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was a college student in DC living in a dump and he put me up in a great apartment for my senior year. He only came by once a week and he was very nice.

Hot

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Anonymous wrote:Sooo… how does one go about this in their 40s? lol.. no but seriously… groceries ain’t cheap

If you look hot I believe it can work.

I am mid 40s woman and was propositioned several times. But you have to be 3 holes qualified and prepared to tolerate pervs. I passed, as I have own income

If you have your own income why would you need to be a sugar baby? And what is three holes qualified?

I didn't want/tried to be a sugar baby. These were all men who I didn't want to date: they came forward with "business propositions" after getting that second date bye-bye message. The propositions ranged from offering a skiing trip to Aspen to 5K/month allowance. One was hiding he was married; another was also a poly and perv (wanted threesomes).
These men using seeking are nuts and women should be super careful. Just read about Diddy's scandal

Taking money for sex is a few levels of magnitude worse than wanting a threesome. It must be among the top three (pun intended) sexual fantasies. And for the record, I do not personally want to and will never have a threesome but I think your judgement is misplaced.

I agree it’s terrible taking money for sex. What’s I’m saying women who are on seeking should be prepared to meet these non-standard sexual demands. Something they can’t get from GFs or wives