If you are a sugar baby why did you decide to be one?

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Anonymous wrote:Most of the people I met off an old site SA were not exclusive to their SD. I knew that and arranged for pay per visit and had a very nice stable with lots of variety.

Easy money if you’re willing to have fun.

As a woman, I would think that most guys who use these sites are either unattractive or pervs, or married. E.g. most attractive women won't sleep with them for free as there is no relationship potential

Or they are the successful to the point types who don't have time for nuanced BS.

I am happily married and have never been in the SB/SD world. When I was dating I was blunt and to the point out of the gate regarding exactly what I was looking for in a relationship, what I wanted in partner. I was not going to wait months for something that was important to me or the relationship to organically present itslef. Some woman were put off, many appreciated laying alll of the cards out on the table.

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Anonymous wrote:Sooo… how does one go about this in their 40s? lol.. no but seriously… groceries ain’t cheap

If you look hot I believe it can work.

I am mid 40s woman and was propositioned several times. But you have to be 3 holes qualified and prepared to tolerate pervs. I passed, as I have own income

If you have your own income why would you need to be a sugar baby? And what is three holes qualified?

She didn’t need to be one. Read it again.

The three holes are your vagina, your mouth, and your anus. Men like to insert their penis in all of them.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Most of the people I met off an old site SA were not exclusive to their SD. I knew that and arranged for pay per visit and had a very nice stable with lots of variety.

Easy money if you’re willing to have fun.

As a woman, I would think that most guys who use these sites are either unattractive or pervs, or married. E.g. most attractive women won't sleep with them for free as there is no relationship potential

Or they are the successful to the point types who don't have time for nuanced BS.

I am happily married and have never been in the SB/SD world. When I was dating I was blunt and to the point out of the gate regarding exactly what I was looking for in a relationship, what I wanted in partner. I was not going to wait months for something that was important to me or the relationship to organically present itslef. Some woman were put off, many appreciated laying alll of the cards out on the table.

What are those things that you needed from the start ? 3somes, a..l, gold shower on partners, have her f..k other men at your order in front of you ?
That’s a summary of what men are looking for on seeking

So please, don’t romanticize prostitution it’s dirty and full of pervs

[Anonymous]

Isn’t this just prostitution? Money for sex?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Most of the people I met off an old site SA were not exclusive to their SD. I knew that and arranged for pay per visit and had a very nice stable with lots of variety.

Easy money if you’re willing to have fun.

As a woman, I would think that most guys who use these sites are either unattractive or pervs, or married. E.g. most attractive women won't sleep with them for free as there is no relationship potential

Or they are the successful to the point types who don't have time for nuanced BS.

I am happily married and have never been in the SB/SD world. When I was dating I was blunt and to the point out of the gate regarding exactly what I was looking for in a relationship, what I wanted in partner. I was not going to wait months for something that was important to me or the relationship to organically present itslef. Some woman were put off, many appreciated laying alll of the cards out on the table.

What are those things that you needed from the start ? 3somes, a..l, gold shower on partners, have her f..k other men at your order in front of you ?
That’s a summary of what men are looking for on seeking

So please, don’t romanticize prostitution it’s dirty and full of pervs

+100. PP also sounds like he’d be really controlling which, when coupled with financial dependence of a SB, could be really abusive.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It’s called being a SAHM now.

Haha but thats more work than sugar..

Not for sugar SAHM’s they have a nanny and cleaning staff.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s called being a SAHM now.

I don't think this is true

On second thought...

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Anonymous wrote:Sooo… how does one go about this in their 40s? lol.. no but seriously… groceries ain’t cheap

I’m a long time sugar daddy. I would not date you atm because I’m 40s too and I go for the 20s-early 30s but I imagine when I’m coming up on 60+ I’d go for a hot milfy 40 something sugar baby

Best bet is to have awesome pics and sign up on seeking.com DC unlike most of the country is a sugar baby market meaning that odds are better for SBs than they are for SDs. Because DC is high income and high education area there are plenty of rich daddies but not enough quality SBs (because the quality ladies in DMV tend to already have high income/education) so you will have better luck here than in places like NYC or LA where there are 10 hot SBs to each legit SD

There are so few truly attractive women on seeking. Not sure who wants to pay for these 20 year olds that look like cheap baristas. Being 20 doesn't make you more beautiful. If a wet P is the only criteria, then you can get this for free on tinder

No one offers allowance or $ to average fat or ugly girls. You are right most of DC area seeking profiles are ugly. Just like tinder lol. The rare hot women are hard to land but they are there. and that is why I said earlier that DC is a hot market for genuinely attractive sugar babies regardless of age. Go to LA and I’m swimming in 22yr old 9-10-11/10 hotties, new one every week if I want.. Here in DC the hot ones are hard to find think like 2-3mo of effort lol vs 2-3 days in LA or NYC

Why dont they sleep with you for free?

Well I’m 50 and only interested in under 32-33 at the most. I’ve got a dad bod, and not super photogenic so don’t get a lot of hits on the dating apps. I’m super busy and don’t have time to socialize and get dates in real life. This is so much easier. The women are much hotter and girls who sugar are definitely kinkier and more sexually open than vanilla dating girls. Instead of wasting lot of time effort and $ on things like dinners, shows and normal courting activities I just give the sugar baby the cash. And the keyword here is time. My work hour is worth 600 and so if I’m spending 2-3-4hours courting a vanilla woman with no guarantee of xxx vs giving a sugar baby 500-1000 and getting straight to xxx it’s definitely worthwhile for me. We both get what we want and need.

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I have a friend in her 40s who goes from one very wealthy man to the next. They always take her and her child on amazing trips and help subsidize other things. She has a professional job but makes less than $150,000 I would guess. Not sure if this counts. She does describe these men as her boyfriend.

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Anonymous wrote:Sooo… how does one go about this in their 40s? lol.. no but seriously… groceries ain’t cheap

I’m a long time sugar daddy. I would not date you atm because I’m 40s too and I go for the 20s-early 30s but I imagine when I’m coming up on 60+ I’d go for a hot milfy 40 something sugar baby

Best bet is to have awesome pics and sign up on seeking.com DC unlike most of the country is a sugar baby market meaning that odds are better for SBs than they are for SDs. Because DC is high income and high education area there are plenty of rich daddies but not enough quality SBs (because the quality ladies in DMV tend to already have high income/education) so you will have better luck here than in places like NYC or LA where there are 10 hot SBs to each legit SD

There are so few truly attractive women on seeking. Not sure who wants to pay for these 20 year olds that look like cheap baristas. Being 20 doesn't make you more beautiful. If a wet P is the only criteria, then you can get this for free on tinder

No one offers allowance or $ to average fat or ugly girls. You are right most of DC area seeking profiles are ugly. Just like tinder lol. The rare hot women are hard to land but they are there. and that is why I said earlier that DC is a hot market for genuinely attractive sugar babies regardless of age. Go to LA and I’m swimming in 22yr old 9-10-11/10 hotties, new one every week if I want.. Here in DC the hot ones are hard to find think like 2-3mo of effort lol vs 2-3 days in LA or NYC

Why dont they sleep with you for free?

Well I’m 50 and only interested in under 32-33 at the most. I’ve got a dad bod, and not super photogenic so don’t get a lot of hits on the dating apps. I’m super busy and don’t have time to socialize and get dates in real life. This is so much easier. The women are much hotter and girls who sugar are definitely kinkier and more sexually open than vanilla dating girls. Instead of wasting lot of time effort and $ on things like dinners, shows and normal courting activities I just give the sugar baby the cash. And the keyword here is time. My work hour is worth 600 and so if I’m spending 2-3-4hours courting a vanilla woman with no guarantee of xxx vs giving a sugar baby 500-1000 and getting straight to xxx it’s definitely worthwhile for me. We both get what we want and need.

Here we go - these women wouldn't have swiped at you on regular dating apps. I’m mid 40s and wouldn’t be interested in you either, if I knew your past. I date only good looking men 5 years around my age. My work hour is also $600 but at a professional job not prostitution.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Sooo… how does one go about this in their 40s? lol.. no but seriously… groceries ain’t cheap

I’m a long time sugar daddy. I would not date you atm because I’m 40s too and I go for the 20s-early 30s but I imagine when I’m coming up on 60+ I’d go for a hot milfy 40 something sugar baby

Best bet is to have awesome pics and sign up on seeking.com DC unlike most of the country is a sugar baby market meaning that odds are better for SBs than they are for SDs. Because DC is high income and high education area there are plenty of rich daddies but not enough quality SBs (because the quality ladies in DMV tend to already have high income/education) so you will have better luck here than in places like NYC or LA where there are 10 hot SBs to each legit SD

There are so few truly attractive women on seeking. Not sure who wants to pay for these 20 year olds that look like cheap baristas. Being 20 doesn't make you more beautiful. If a wet P is the only criteria, then you can get this for free on tinder

No one offers allowance or $ to average fat or ugly girls. You are right most of DC area seeking profiles are ugly. Just like tinder lol. The rare hot women are hard to land but they are there. and that is why I said earlier that DC is a hot market for genuinely attractive sugar babies regardless of age. Go to LA and I’m swimming in 22yr old 9-10-11/10 hotties, new one every week if I want.. Here in DC the hot ones are hard to find think like 2-3mo of effort lol vs 2-3 days in LA or NYC

Why dont they sleep with you for free?

Well I’m 50 and only interested in under 32-33 at the most. I’ve got a dad bod, and not super photogenic so don’t get a lot of hits on the dating apps. I’m super busy and don’t have time to socialize and get dates in real life. This is so much easier. The women are much hotter and girls who sugar are definitely kinkier and more sexually open than vanilla dating girls. Instead of wasting lot of time effort and $ on things like dinners, shows and normal courting activities I just give the sugar baby the cash. And the keyword here is time. My work hour is worth 600 and so if I’m spending 2-3-4hours courting a vanilla woman with no guarantee of xxx vs giving a sugar baby 500-1000 and getting straight to xxx it’s definitely worthwhile for me. We both get what we want and need.

You only make $600/hr? Lol.

Also why say “sugar baby”? You’re using prostitutes, full stop.

[Anonymous]

I’m not judging - I did a lot of shady things in my teens and twenties. Maybe I would have done this too. But as a heads up these transactional relationships can sometimes come back to haunt you emotionally a couple decades later, especially if you become a mother later on. Again, not saying that would definitely happen as we have different reasons for doing the same things and different attachments styles, but I would say it has higher emotional risks than a relationship. All that being said, traditional relationships can be highly risky and damaging too and haunt you in the future so I guess live your life!!

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It is prostitution wrapped in bow tie at best.

Sure it seems like quick and easy money in the moment. But one should think about consequences. When you are dating for real, would that person overlook this if they find out? At work and if you build a career? How about your friends and family?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have a friend in her 40s who goes from one very wealthy man to the next. They always take her and her child on amazing trips and help subsidize other things. She has a professional job but makes less than $150,000 I would guess. Not sure if this counts. She does describe these men as her boyfriend.

Yea, that’s exactly what I was offered. I’m an attractive woman in mid 40s , 5’8 20 BMI look like I’m mid 30s. Men who offered ranged 51-61 yo, and they were all unattractive but wealthy “second date fails”. Met on regular apps, eharmony, match. Professions were tech billionaire (that one was attractive but wanted basically all xxx deviations - bdsm, 3domes of all sorts, peeing on me etc); a large shareholder of a franchise similar to McDonalds but another one; large auto dealer; large window company owner; a law partner. Fat, married, terrible very controlling personalities not attractive.

Yes, all said they would be a BF and wanted something more permanent

[Anonymous]

It’s a thin line between being a sugar baby and an empty nester who doesn’t work but whose lifestyle is totally supported by her husband. I do provide, willingly, a wide range of sexual services, same as a sugar baby. The big difference is that I love the man and bore him three children. I do have some guilt living off his largesse but I can handle it.