Men if you could order the perfect wife/partner she would…

[Anonymous]

I’d hate to be married to someone who is perfect because I’m not thus it would be annoying.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:As a woman in my 40s when I see men posting about how important it is for a wife to love sex and for some to have kinks, it makes me think back to my 20s when men judged women so harshly for having several sexual partners in the past, or if they knew a woman hooked up casually on occasion. A woman like that would be immediately branded a slut and would never seriously be considered as girlfriend or wife material. Guess what guys - when you marry a prude she may just turn out to be prudish!

I don’t know that this is true. I was a virgin until marriage and I love sex and I love when DH wants to try something new. I see a lot of posters here explain why they don’t want to have sex with their husbands and it has little to do with how much they enjoy sex and a lot to do with their relationship and their husband’s behavior. They don’t want to have sex with someone who makes them miserable. My DH does his share of the chores and parenting and makes my life easier.

Please don't call women sluts or prudes. You are part of the problem pp

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As a woman in my 40s when I see men posting about how important it is for a wife to love sex and for some to have kinks, it makes me think back to my 20s when men judged women so harshly for having several sexual partners in the past, or if they knew a woman hooked up casually on occasion. A woman like that would be immediately branded a slut and would never seriously be considered as girlfriend or wife material. Guess what guys - when you marry a prude she may just turn out to be prudish!

I don’t know that this is true. I was a virgin until marriage and I love sex and I love when DH wants to try something new. I see a lot of posters here explain why they don’t want to have sex with their husbands and it has little to do with how much they enjoy sex and a lot to do with their relationship and their husband’s behavior. They don’t want to have sex with someone who makes them miserable. My DH does his share of the chores and parenting and makes my life easier.

Please don't call women sluts or prudes. You are part of the problem pp

+100

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She is curvy
She Doesn’t stress over gaining 2 pounds
She doesn’t scream over small things
Enjoys working out with me at the gym
Keeps natural grooming (I don’t like shaved p***sy)
Enjoys a***nal
Likes to travel to interesting places
Dislikes all inclusive hotels
Doesn’t insist that I share her political views
Doesn’t force me to be religious (I don’t mind if she is, religion is a personal issue)
If she is going to cheat, she should let me know so I can dump her

Ha! I was going to say this is me, but it’s not. I am religious and expect my husband and kids to participate in services and know about their religion. I don’t consider this a “personal issue.” This is part of who we are as a family.
I like to workout outside some of the time. Sometimes the gym feels like torture.
I’m also not picky about hotels

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She is curvy
She Doesn’t stress over gaining 2 pounds
She doesn’t scream over small things
Enjoys working out with me at the gym
Keeps natural grooming (I don’t like shaved p***sy)
Enjoys a***nal
Likes to travel to interesting places
Dislikes all inclusive hotels
Doesn’t insist that I share her political views
Doesn’t force me to be religious (I don’t mind if she is, religion is a personal issue)
If she is going to cheat, she should let me know so I can dump her

Good luck finding a woman who will even tolerate that, let alone "enjoy."

I’m a woman and I enjoy it very much. BF and I do it about 50% of the time.

[Anonymous]

She gets transferred to the other side of the world the week after the butterflies leave.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Be intelligent
Have a sense of humor
Be adventurous
Have a range of interests

Please at least acknowledge here that what you mean is that she shares YOUR sense of humor.

DH and I have more conflict over that than just about anything else. He thinks he is so witty. I think I am very funny. We sometimes don’t agree with each others’ self perception of “sense of humor.”

One that doesn't over analyze everything

How about a man who has an ounce of self reflection?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She is curvy
She Doesn’t stress over gaining 2 pounds
She doesn’t scream over small things
Enjoys working out with me at the gym
Keeps natural grooming (I don’t like shaved p***sy)
Enjoys a***nal
Likes to travel to interesting places
Dislikes all inclusive hotels
Doesn’t insist that I share her political views
Doesn’t force me to be religious (I don’t mind if she is, religion is a personal issue)
If she is going to cheat, she should let me know so I can dump her

Good luck finding a woman who will even tolerate that, let alone "enjoy."

I’m a woman and I enjoy it very much. BF and I do it about 50% of the time.

You nasty

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Be intelligent
Have a sense of humor
Be adventurous
Have a range of interests

Please at least acknowledge here that what you mean is that she shares YOUR sense of humor.

DH and I have more conflict over that than just about anything else. He thinks he is so witty. I think I am very funny. We sometimes don’t agree with each others’ self perception of “sense of humor.”

One that doesn't over analyze everything

How about a man who has an ounce of self reflection?

This is the men's fantasy thread, go make your own thread! Seriously why does this forum of mostly middle aged women NEED yet another thread about men's needs and fantasies? If I didn't believe in the patriarchy before, I certainly do now.

[Anonymous]

As long as she does not think Kooking, Fooking and Klining are three cities in China she is perfect

[Anonymous]

Kind and modest

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Successful in life, and a deviant submissive in marriage.

This right here is why it’s hard to be female. Kick ass at your high earning job ladies, but be sure to submit to your man at home!

Your response is part of the problem. I never said anything about a job or career,. I know plenty of woman who don’t work who are very successful in life.

I also never used the word man or spouse, I said marriage. Prioritize marriage above everything, if your spouse does the same thing you will have a great marriage. I am not religious at all but the analysis in ever decision made centers around what is best for our marriage.

Successful at what?

[Anonymous]

Some of the replies on here remind me of how it’s ok for women to have a nearly impossible laundry list of expectations for men to meet but it’s not ok for a man to have expectations in a wife or else he is labeled a sexist. What a double standard.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She is curvy
She Doesn’t stress over gaining 2 pounds
She doesn’t scream over small things
Enjoys working out with me at the gym
Keeps natural grooming (I don’t like shaved p***sy)
Enjoys a***nal
Likes to travel to interesting places
Dislikes all inclusive hotels
Doesn’t insist that I share her political views
Doesn’t force me to be religious (I don’t mind if she is, religion is a personal issue)
If she is going to cheat, she should let me know so I can dump her

Good luck finding a woman who will even tolerate that, let alone "enjoy."

I got that my 30 birthday never again. Chocolate cream pie

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Uggg, these posts are such a downer. My view of men has been tarnished by dcum.

My view of men has been tarnished by men.