Men if you could order the perfect wife/partner she would…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Successful in life, and a deviant submissive in marriage.

This right here is why it’s hard to be female. Kick ass at your high earning job ladies, but be sure to submit to your man at home!

Your response is part of the problem. I never said anything about a job or career,. I know plenty of woman who don’t work who are very successful in life.

I also never used the word man or spouse, I said marriage. Prioritize marriage above everything, if your spouse does the same thing you will have a great marriage. I am not religious at all but the analysis in ever decision made centers around what is best for our marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ideally a partner would be both easy going AND responsible. Nobody wants an easy going but flaky and irresponsible long term partner who can’t handle any sort of responsibility at home or at work.

Agree. I hate easygoing irresponsible men

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Be intelligent
Have a sense of humor
Be adventurous
Have a range of interests

Please at least acknowledge here that what you mean is that she shares YOUR sense of humor.

DH and I have more conflict over that than just about anything else. He thinks he is so witty. I think I am very funny. We sometimes don’t agree with each others’ self perception of “sense of humor.”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ideally a partner would be both easy going AND responsible. Nobody wants an easy going but flaky and irresponsible long term partner who can’t handle any sort of responsibility at home or at work.

Agree. I hate easygoing irresponsible men

Same with women. Your ADHD manic pixie girlfriend is going to be a crappy spouse regardless of whether she is a SAHM or WOHM.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Be intelligent
Have a sense of humor
Be adventurous
Have a range of interests

Please at least acknowledge here that what you mean is that she shares YOUR sense of humor.

DH and I have more conflict over that than just about anything else. He thinks he is so witty. I think I am very funny. We sometimes don’t agree with each others’ self perception of “sense of humor.”

One that doesn't over analyze everything

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh, and not be an overtly opinionated pain a$$ on political issues. Just shut up as I would as your DH.

Now that's a man I would want to marry. Priority? A woman that will "just shut up." /s

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ideally a partner would be both easy going AND responsible. Nobody wants an easy going but flaky and irresponsible long term partner who can’t handle any sort of responsibility at home or at work.

Agree. I hate easygoing irresponsible men

Same with women. Your ADHD manic pixie girlfriend is going to be a crappy spouse regardless of whether she is a SAHM or WOHM.

Truth.

--Former gorgeous manic pixie dream girl here. I'm not so fascinating anymore and the lack of stability and executive functioning is hard to deal with.

[Anonymous]

Order? Like a person is an object?

Dream on, incels.

[Anonymous]

She is curvy
She Doesn’t stress over gaining 2 pounds
She doesn’t scream over small things
Enjoys working out with me at the gym
Keeps natural grooming (I don’t like shaved p***sy)
Enjoys a***nal
Likes to travel to interesting places
Dislikes all inclusive hotels
Doesn’t insist that I share her political views
Doesn’t force me to be religious (I don’t mind if she is, religion is a personal issue)
If she is going to cheat, she should let me know so I can dump her

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As a woman in my 40s when I see men posting about how important it is for a wife to love sex and for some to have kinks, it makes me think back to my 20s when men judged women so harshly for having several sexual partners in the past, or if they knew a woman hooked up casually on occasion. A woman like that would be immediately branded a slut and would never seriously be considered as girlfriend or wife material. Guess what guys - when you marry a prude she may just turn out to be prudish!

+1. And as a man I think men are either lying to themselves or are just blind regarding women’s sexual past. Women are as horny as men. Women have as many sex as men. Women cheat as much as men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Order? Like a person is an object?

Dream on, incels.

I feel like OD culture fuels this. People seeing a bunch of pictures and swiping to choose, just like they would while comparing items for a cheap purchase on Amazon.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She is curvy
She Doesn’t stress over gaining 2 pounds
She doesn’t scream over small things
Enjoys working out with me at the gym
Keeps natural grooming (I don’t like shaved p***sy)
Enjoys a***nal
Likes to travel to interesting places
Dislikes all inclusive hotels
Doesn’t insist that I share her political views
Doesn’t force me to be religious (I don’t mind if she is, religion is a personal issue)
If she is going to cheat, she should let me know so I can dump her

Good luck finding a woman who will even tolerate that, let alone "enjoy."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She is curvy
She Doesn’t stress over gaining 2 pounds
She doesn’t scream over small things
Enjoys working out with me at the gym
Keeps natural grooming (I don’t like shaved p***sy)
Enjoys a***nal
Likes to travel to interesting places
Dislikes all inclusive hotels
Doesn’t insist that I share her political views
Doesn’t force me to be religious (I don’t mind if she is, religion is a personal issue)
If she is going to cheat, she should let me know so I can dump her

Good luck finding a woman who will even tolerate that, let alone "enjoy."

Lol. I am a guy and I won’t even dare ask my wife to explore the backdoor and that’s not something I have ever experienced myself.

[Anonymous]

I recently read that if men could create the perfect wife/girlfriend she would be a slave to him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She is curvy
She Doesn’t stress over gaining 2 pounds
She doesn’t scream over small things
Enjoys working out with me at the gym
Keeps natural grooming (I don’t like shaved p***sy)
Enjoys a***nal
Likes to travel to interesting places
Dislikes all inclusive hotels
Doesn’t insist that I share her political views
Doesn’t force me to be religious (I don’t mind if she is, religion is a personal issue)
If she is going to cheat, she should let me know so I can dump her

You may have to go to Europe to find that. This is a waxing nation my friend. I don’t know how my wife has the energy to constantly shave and she won’t even get intimate if she feels she is too hairy down there. I am such a horny dog lol it doesn’t matter to me hairy not hairy if the legs are spread I can’t resist lol