Men if you could order the perfect wife/partner she would…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Successful in life, and a deviant submissive in marriage.

Yikes. Hope you are single

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As a woman in my 40s when I see men posting about how important it is for a wife to love sex and for some to have kinks, it makes me think back to my 20s when men judged women so harshly for having several sexual partners in the past, or if they knew a woman hooked up casually on occasion. A woman like that would be immediately branded a slut and would never seriously be considered as girlfriend or wife material. Guess what guys - when you marry a prude she may just turn out to be prudish!

I don’t know that this is true. I was a virgin until marriage and I love sex and I love when DH wants to try something new. I see a lot of posters here explain why they don’t want to have sex with their husbands and it has little to do with how much they enjoy sex and a lot to do with their relationship and their husband’s behavior. They don’t want to have sex with someone who makes them miserable. My DH does his share of the chores and parenting and makes my life easier.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:BJ BJ and more BJs.

So your house is filthy, she lays around all day with no job, she can't complete anything she starts, she's dumb as a door knob, you're kids are nasty and unkept as long as you get a BJ you're ok?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She is curvy
She Doesn’t stress over gaining 2 pounds
She doesn’t scream over small things
Enjoys working out with me at the gym
Keeps natural grooming (I don’t like shaved p***sy)
Enjoys a***nal
Likes to travel to interesting places
Dislikes all inclusive hotels
Doesn’t insist that I share her political views
Doesn’t force me to be religious (I don’t mind if she is, religion is a personal issue)
If she is going to cheat, she should let me know so I can dump her

Perhaps you should find a man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She is curvy
She Doesn’t stress over gaining 2 pounds
She doesn’t scream over small things
Enjoys working out with me at the gym
Keeps natural grooming (I don’t like shaved p***sy)
Enjoys a***nal
Likes to travel to interesting places
Dislikes all inclusive hotels
Doesn’t insist that I share her political views
Doesn’t force me to be religious (I don’t mind if she is, religion is a personal issue)
If she is going to cheat, she should let me know so I can dump her

Why would you want to? At that point just sleep with a man.

Good luck finding a woman who will even tolerate that, let alone "enjoy."

Lol. I am a guy and I won’t even dare ask my wife to explore the backdoor and that’s not something I have ever experienced myself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She is curvy
She Doesn’t stress over gaining 2 pounds
She doesn’t scream over small things
Enjoys working out with me at the gym
Keeps natural grooming (I don’t like shaved p***sy)
Enjoys a***nal
Likes to travel to interesting places
Dislikes all inclusive hotels
Doesn’t insist that I share her political views
Doesn’t force me to be religious (I don’t mind if she is, religion is a personal issue)
If she is going to cheat, she should let me know so I can dump her

Good luck finding a woman who will even tolerate that, let alone "enjoy."

Lol. I am a guy and I won’t even dare ask my wife to explore the backdoor and that’s not something I have ever experienced myself.

Why would you want to? At that point just sleep with a man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Be kind
Be easy going
Love sex
Be attractive

Are these the key attributes? Anything else to round out the top 5?

What you’re really saying is:

Repeat herself very sweetly over and over when you ignore her nagging.
Be a doormat, go along with your wants and not have strong opinions of her own.
Be ready for sex at all times so you can have it whenever you want (goes with being easy going)
Look the way you want her to look- whether that’s certain hair color or length, certain types of clothing, makeup the way you like it, etc.

Would you like a side a fries with your order?

[Anonymous]

+1
It seems like you want someone without a lot of depth that will just agree with you all the time. Also, lots of women were like this pre-kids, career, life.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Be kind
Be easy going
Love sex
Be attractive

Are these the key attributes? Anything else to round out the top 5?

What you’re really saying is:

Repeat herself very sweetly over and over when you ignore her nagging.
Be a doormat, go along with your wants and not have strong opinions of her own.
Be ready for sex at all times so you can have it whenever you want (goes with being easy going)
Look the way you want her to look- whether that’s certain hair color or length, certain types of clothing, makeup the way you like it, etc.

Would you like a side a fries with your order?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Be kind
Be easy going
Love sex
Be attractive

Are these the key attributes? Anything else to round out the top 5?

Not a man but if I were.

Honest
Kind
Sexy
Educated and intelligent
Attractive
Sweet
Funny
Responsible
Stable background

[Anonymous]

...has never heard of this website.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:+1
It seems like you want someone without a lot of depth that will just agree with you all the time. Also, lots of women were like this pre-kids, career, life.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Be kind
Be easy going
Love sex
Be attractive

Are these the key attributes? Anything else to round out the top 5?

What you’re really saying is:

Repeat herself very sweetly over and over when you ignore her nagging.
Be a doormat, go along with your wants and not have strong opinions of her own.
Be ready for sex at all times so you can have it whenever you want (goes with being easy going)
Look the way you want her to look- whether that’s certain hair color or length, certain types of clothing, makeup the way you like it, etc.

Would you like a side a fries with your order?

Why on Earth do you think a man would want or care about “depth?” Have you ever met an actual man? I know one who may care that his wife has depth but he is an outlier in all respects.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She is curvy
She Doesn’t stress over gaining 2 pounds
She doesn’t scream over small things
Enjoys working out with me at the gym
Keeps natural grooming (I don’t like shaved p***sy)
Enjoys a***nal
Likes to travel to interesting places
Dislikes all inclusive hotels
Doesn’t insist that I share her political views
Doesn’t force me to be religious (I don’t mind if she is, religion is a personal issue)
If she is going to cheat, she should let me know so I can dump her

Perhaps you should find a man.

No way! I am a woman and fit most of this criteria.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Successful in life, and a deviant submissive in marriage.

Yikes. Hope you are single

Nope, happily married 14 years.

[Anonymous]

My wife is pretty close to perfect and has been for a very long time. Now she is perfecting her grandmother skills with todays cookie baking with little granddaughters.

[Anonymous]

Just work on yourself and be empathetic and helpful to others. The rest will come.