Not Invited to Half Sibling's Wedding

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't bring it up again. No gift, no card, no more group vacations.

I’d tell any aunts or uncles on yours dads side that you’ve been evil step
mommed and weren’t invited. If they want a rift, why not get the whole family involved

[Anonymous]

What was the distribution of assets when your dad died? I bet it has something to do with that.

[Anonymous]

I think this is worth a conversation with your stepmom. Don’t give the fiancé the power to ruin it. I would be honest with your stepmother about how you are feeling and tell her your relationship with her is important to you, you are trying to sort out your feelings and is there anything she can do to help you not view this as a reflection of how she values your relationship. And the. Listen to what she says.

There are all kinds of ways to be angry, but OP wants the familial relationship. Maybe talk with a counselor about how to have h to e conversation.

I am so sorry.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This sucks....it really does....but it's a long life. Try to wish them well and be somewhat open to them in the future. It sounds baffling from here, but again, it's a long life and a lot can happen. So just try not to let this make you bitter.

Dp. You are too kind pp. I'm sorry but if people show you who they are than believe them. I personally would be very distant and not engage unless they apologized

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think this is worth a conversation with your stepmom. Don’t give the fiancé the power to ruin it. I would be honest with your stepmother about how you are feeling and tell her your relationship with her is important to you, you are trying to sort out your feelings and is there anything she can do to help you not view this as a reflection of how she values your relationship. And the. Listen to what she says.

There are all kinds of ways to be angry, but OP wants the familial relationship. Maybe talk with a counselor about how to have h to e conversation.

I am so sorry.

This is great advice op. Remember that everyone on here doesn’t have anything to lose with their anger but you have a family you care about so express your hurt but do it in a way that works towards repairing this rift. It is easy to say things on the internet but when it is your own family at stake anger won’t help you much (even though you are COMPLETELY JUSTIFIED to be livid based on what we know)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'd be relieved. I hate attending weddings.

You sound fun.

I hate weddings too btw and would be over the moon at being excluded.

I think you can always say no and send present but this is family not some distant relative!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your stepmom just said "I'm sorry" after you found out this way? WTF?! This is her kid!

I'd be so upset. At the half brother sure, but mostly at your stepmom.

Does your momma dictate who goes to your events? He is a grown ass man who can act. An a** and it’s not his momma’s fault.

[Anonymous]

STOP BLAMING THE STEPMOM IT IS NOT HER WEDDING !!!!
YOU SAME HARPIES BLAMING HER WOULD BE THE SAME ONES COMPLAINING ON DDVUM ANOUT YOUR FUTURE MIL INSISTING ON YOU INVITING SOMEONE UOUBDIDNT WANT TO YOUR WEDDING.
BLAME THE BROTHER!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'd be relieved. I hate attending weddings.

This!

[Anonymous]

OP,

Your dad should be defending you. Also, are you nice with half siblings? We're they nice to you? Was the step mom a total bit ch or nice? Tell us more.
I can't help you with such little information

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'd be relieved. I hate attending weddings.

You sound fun.

I hate weddings too btw and would be over the moon at being excluded.

Me too!

[Anonymous]

If they are mean and you are the nice one OP, then call them and tell them. It makes me feel sad when you didn't invite me.

You will feel relieved that you talked your emotions. Maybe they will change, maybe not. Learn to not expect a lot from others.

Make yourself happy, do more things you like. Have a better relationship with your dad. He should be defending you. Or was he mean to you too?

Hugs OP

[Anonymous]

Now, if you were the ahole one then they have the right to not invite you

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What was the distribution of assets when your dad died? I bet it has something to do with that.

I agree.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP,

Your dad should be defending you. Also, are you nice with half siblings? We're they nice to you? Was the step mom a total bit ch or nice? Tell us more.
I can't help you with such little information

Her dad can't defend her because he's dead.