Not Invited to Half Sibling's Wedding

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think your step mom got you disinvited, our "lost" the invite she was supposed to give you. And the reason is money. That she wants to estrange you from the rest of the family as a first step to stealing your inheritance for her real kids. Maybe has something to do with the bay house. Blood is thicker than water op.

You need to get a copy of your father's will and have a lawyer look over it. You may have been distraught at the time and missed something you are owed.

Op, have you seen the will? Is there a will? Are you aware that they are public documents and you can contact the county where he died and get a copy?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you read Jeff's summary of this thread he mentions that OP sock puppets as a different poster!

Shame on you OP. shame shame shame.

So we have a troll. Thanks for the fun OP. Get a life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:STOP BLAMING THE STEPMOM IT IS NOT HER WEDDING !!!!
YOU SAME HARPIES BLAMING HER WOULD BE THE SAME ONES COMPLAINING ON DDVUM ANOUT YOUR FUTURE MIL INSISTING ON YOU INVITING SOMEONE UOUBDIDNT WANT TO YOUR WEDDING.
BLAME THE BROTHER!

Oh, you again.

The all caps... using "harpies" in every post... girl, get off DCUM and go get that caps lock fixed -- and buy a thesaurus while you're out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:STOP BLAMING THE STEPMOM IT IS NOT HER WEDDING !!!!
YOU SAME HARPIES BLAMING HER WOULD BE THE SAME ONES COMPLAINING ON DDVUM ANOUT YOUR FUTURE MIL INSISTING ON YOU INVITING SOMEONE UOUBDIDNT WANT TO YOUR WEDDING.
BLAME THE BROTHER!

Oh, you again.

The all caps... using "harpies" in every post... girl, get off DCUM and go get that caps lock fixed -- and buy a thesaurus while you're out.

Hahaha
Only 2nd time I’ve ever used that word in my life.
LOL!!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What was the distribution of assets when your dad died? I bet it has something to do with that.

I agree.

OP here. Stepmom was left both houses (approx 3M) his retirement, and savings (which were not disclosed but had to be sizable) and all of his kids were given an equal share of money.

I doubt I will see anything from my stepmom when she passes so I did think it was odd that my dad didn't anticipate this and provide more to me and my sister.

OP, clearly you know why you weren't invited. I'm sorry your dad is a jerk who put her before all his kids.

[Anonymous]

This is a shiat situation, but really, it gives you an opportunity to walk away from these chucklefarks and cut the lot of them out. While you see a chance, take it. Just cut them out and firewall them off from here forward. Similar thing happened to me and it was the best decision I ever made. I got over it within 6 weeks and made new friends and acquaintances.

Whatever do, do not inquire further.