Is it weird to ask to wear protection?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How many different men are you sleeping with? Your poor children.

Stop. Children have nothing to do with this.

I am a different poster but I had a near completely sexless marriage for many many years and now that I’m divorced I will sleep with whomever I want. (I also will never marry again so if I’m sleeping with somebody or somebody else a few months after that because the first person didn’t work out, it has absolutely no affect on my kids…they will never meet anyone…my sex life is a complete mile private part of my life (and I use condoms and get tested)…save your sanctimonious attitude that is irrelevant to parenting.

You go girl! + 100000

The “100000” are the men she’s sleeping with.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How many different men are you sleeping with? Your poor children.

Stop. Children have nothing to do with this.

I am a different poster but I had a near completely sexless marriage for many many years and now that I’m divorced I will sleep with whomever I want. (I also will never marry again so if I’m sleeping with somebody or somebody else a few months after that because the first person didn’t work out, it has absolutely no affect on my kids…they will never meet anyone…my sex life is a complete mile private part of my life (and I use condoms and get tested)…save your sanctimonious attitude that is irrelevant to parenting.

NP Your kids will never meet any, you bounce around men just got sex? This is immature and reckless at your age.

I do not count having two boyfriends in 4 years bouncing around. Not immature in the least. I have a separate private life. Better for kids.

They are not boyfriends.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How many different men are you sleeping with? Your poor children.

OP here. Zero! But I’ve dipped my toes back into the dating pool and this was always something that bothered me. And my dating life has nothing to do with my kids (not that I have to explain myself). I can have a healthy adult life and have healthy kids. You need to chillax.

Who says chillax?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How many different men are you sleeping with? Your poor children.

Stop. Children have nothing to do with this.

I am a different poster but I had a near completely sexless marriage for many many years and now that I’m divorced I will sleep with whomever I want. (I also will never marry again so if I’m sleeping with somebody or somebody else a few months after that because the first person didn’t work out, it has absolutely no affect on my kids…they will never meet anyone…my sex life is a complete mile private part of my life (and I use condoms and get tested)…save your sanctimonious attitude that is irrelevant to parenting.

You go girl! + 100000

The “100000” are the men she’s sleeping with.

2 men in 4 years is not a lot. I had zero sex for 7 years while married. My number is probably less than yours.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How many different men are you sleeping with? Your poor children.

Stop. Children have nothing to do with this.

I am a different poster but I had a near completely sexless marriage for many many years and now that I’m divorced I will sleep with whomever I want. (I also will never marry again so if I’m sleeping with somebody or somebody else a few months after that because the first person didn’t work out, it has absolutely no affect on my kids…they will never meet anyone…my sex life is a complete mile private part of my life (and I use condoms and get tested)…save your sanctimonious attitude that is irrelevant to parenting.

NP Your kids will never meet any, you bounce around men just got sex? This is immature and reckless at your age.

I do not count having two boyfriends in 4 years bouncing around. Not immature in the least. I have a separate private life. Better for kids.

They are not boyfriends.

Exclusively monogamous is a boyfriend. A boyfriend does not have to lead to a serious relationship or marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How many different men are you sleeping with? Your poor children.

Stop. Children have nothing to do with this.

I am a different poster but I had a near completely sexless marriage for many many years and now that I’m divorced I will sleep with whomever I want. (I also will never marry again so if I’m sleeping with somebody or somebody else a few months after that because the first person didn’t work out, it has absolutely no affect on my kids…they will never meet anyone…my sex life is a complete mile private part of my life (and I use condoms and get tested)…save your sanctimonious attitude that is irrelevant to parenting.

You go girl! + 100000

The “100000” are the men she’s sleeping with.

2 men in 4 years is not a lot. I had zero sex for 7 years while married. My number is probably less than yours.

Seemingly men are not into you. Bless your heart.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How many different men are you sleeping with? Your poor children.

Stop. Children have nothing to do with this.

I am a different poster but I had a near completely sexless marriage for many many years and now that I’m divorced I will sleep with whomever I want. (I also will never marry again so if I’m sleeping with somebody or somebody else a few months after that because the first person didn’t work out, it has absolutely no affect on my kids…they will never meet anyone…my sex life is a complete mile private part of my life (and I use condoms and get tested)…save your sanctimonious attitude that is irrelevant to parenting.

You go girl! + 100000

The “100000” are the men she’s sleeping with.

2 men in 4 years is not a lot. I had zero sex for 7 years while married. My number is probably less than yours.

Seemingly men are not into you. Bless your heart.

Far from the case. But keep assuming.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How many different men are you sleeping with? Your poor children.

OP here. Zero! But I’ve dipped my toes back into the dating pool and this was always something that bothered me. And my dating life has nothing to do with my kids (not that I have to explain myself). I can have a healthy adult life and have healthy kids. You need to chillax.

Who says chillax?

Gen Xers who grew up in the 90's. Chillax.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How many different men are you sleeping with? Your poor children.

Stop. Children have nothing to do with this.

I am a different poster but I had a near completely sexless marriage for many many years and now that I’m divorced I will sleep with whomever I want. (I also will never marry again so if I’m sleeping with somebody or somebody else a few months after that because the first person didn’t work out, it has absolutely no affect on my kids…they will never meet anyone…my sex life is a complete mile private part of my life (and I use condoms and get tested)…save your sanctimonious attitude that is irrelevant to parenting.

You go girl! + 100000

The “100000” are the men she’s sleeping with.

2 men in 4 years is not a lot. I had zero sex for 7 years while married. My number is probably less than yours.

Seemingly men are not into you. Bless your heart.

Far from the case. But keep assuming.

Your own husband didn’t want to have sec with you for 7 years. That’s not assuming.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How many different men are you sleeping with? Your poor children.

Stop. Children have nothing to do with this.

I am a different poster but I had a near completely sexless marriage for many many years and now that I’m divorced I will sleep with whomever I want. (I also will never marry again so if I’m sleeping with somebody or somebody else a few months after that because the first person didn’t work out, it has absolutely no affect on my kids…they will never meet anyone…my sex life is a complete mile private part of my life (and I use condoms and get tested)…save your sanctimonious attitude that is irrelevant to parenting.

NP Your kids will never meet any, you bounce around men just got sex? This is immature and reckless at your age.

I do not count having two boyfriends in 4 years bouncing around. Not immature in the least. I have a separate private life. Better for kids.

They are not boyfriends.

Exclusively monogamous is a boyfriend. A boyfriend does not have to lead to a serious relationship or marriage.

Mmmmm, exclusively monogamous boyfriend, yet earlier post you said you get tested. Suurrre!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How many different men are you sleeping with? Your poor children.

Stop. Children have nothing to do with this.

I am a different poster but I had a near completely sexless marriage for many many years and now that I’m divorced I will sleep with whomever I want. (I also will never marry again so if I’m sleeping with somebody or somebody else a few months after that because the first person didn’t work out, it has absolutely no affect on my kids…they will never meet anyone…my sex life is a complete mile private part of my life (and I use condoms and get tested)…save your sanctimonious attitude that is irrelevant to parenting.

NP Your kids will never meet any, you bounce around men just got sex? This is immature and reckless at your age.

I do not count having two boyfriends in 4 years bouncing around. Not immature in the least. I have a separate private life. Better for kids.

They are not boyfriends.

Exclusively monogamous is a boyfriend. A boyfriend does not have to lead to a serious relationship or marriage.

Mmmmm, exclusively monogamous boyfriend, yet earlier post you said you get tested. Suurrre!

I get tested before I get a new boyfriend! Hello! If one relationship ends, I get tested before another. What about this do you not understand?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How many different men are you sleeping with? Your poor children.

Stop. Children have nothing to do with this.

I am a different poster but I had a near completely sexless marriage for many many years and now that I’m divorced I will sleep with whomever I want. (I also will never marry again so if I’m sleeping with somebody or somebody else a few months after that because the first person didn’t work out, it has absolutely no affect on my kids…they will never meet anyone…my sex life is a complete mile private part of my life (and I use condoms and get tested)…save your sanctimonious attitude that is irrelevant to parenting.

You go girl! + 100000

The “100000” are the men she’s sleeping with.

2 men in 4 years is not a lot. I had zero sex for 7 years while married. My number is probably less than yours.

Seemingly men are not into you. Bless your heart.

Far from the case. But keep assuming.

Your own husband didn’t want to have sec with you for 7 years. That’s not assuming.

Low testosterone. And I did not want to have sex with him either.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How many different men are you sleeping with? Your poor children.

Stop. Children have nothing to do with this.

I am a different poster but I had a near completely sexless marriage for many many years and now that I’m divorced I will sleep with whomever I want. (I also will never marry again so if I’m sleeping with somebody or somebody else a few months after that because the first person didn’t work out, it has absolutely no affect on my kids…they will never meet anyone…my sex life is a complete mile private part of my life (and I use condoms and get tested)…save your sanctimonious attitude that is irrelevant to parenting.

NP Your kids will never meet any, you bounce around men just got sex? This is immature and reckless at your age.

I do not count having two boyfriends in 4 years bouncing around. Not immature in the least. I have a separate private life. Better for kids.

They are not boyfriends.

Exclusively monogamous is a boyfriend. A boyfriend does not have to lead to a serious relationship or marriage.

Mmmmm, exclusively monogamous boyfriend, yet earlier post you said you get tested. Suurrre!

I get tested before I get a new boyfriend! Hello! If one relationship ends, I get tested before another. What about this do you not understand?

So then your relationship with the old “boyfriend” was not monogamous after all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How many different men are you sleeping with? Your poor children.

Stop. Children have nothing to do with this.

I am a different poster but I had a near completely sexless marriage for many many years and now that I’m divorced I will sleep with whomever I want. (I also will never marry again so if I’m sleeping with somebody or somebody else a few months after that because the first person didn’t work out, it has absolutely no affect on my kids…they will never meet anyone…my sex life is a complete mile private part of my life (and I use condoms and get tested)…save your sanctimonious attitude that is irrelevant to parenting.

You go girl! + 100000

The “100000” are the men she’s sleeping with.

2 men in 4 years is not a lot. I had zero sex for 7 years while married. My number is probably less than yours.

Seemingly men are not into you. Bless your heart.

Far from the case. But keep assuming.

Your own husband didn’t want to have sec with you for 7 years. That’s not assuming.

Low testosterone. And I did not want to have sex with him either.

Are you okay? You are not doing yourself any favors when you try to defend yourself. Your numerous statements that indicate you have relationship issues.
-NP

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How many different men are you sleeping with? Your poor children.

Stop. Children have nothing to do with this.

I am a different poster but I had a near completely sexless marriage for many many years and now that I’m divorced I will sleep with whomever I want. (I also will never marry again so if I’m sleeping with somebody or somebody else a few months after that because the first person didn’t work out, it has absolutely no affect on my kids…they will never meet anyone…my sex life is a complete mile private part of my life (and I use condoms and get tested)…save your sanctimonious attitude that is irrelevant to parenting.

NP Your kids will never meet any, you bounce around men just got sex? This is immature and reckless at your age.

I do not count having two boyfriends in 4 years bouncing around. Not immature in the least. I have a separate private life. Better for kids.

They are not boyfriends.

Exclusively monogamous is a boyfriend. A boyfriend does not have to lead to a serious relationship or marriage.

Mmmmm, exclusively monogamous boyfriend, yet earlier post you said you get tested. Suurrre!

I get tested before I get a new boyfriend! Hello! If one relationship ends, I get tested before another. What about this do you not understand?

So then your relationship with the old “boyfriend” was not monogamous after all.

What? I get tested when I am with a new partner no matter what--it is about their past--not while they are with me, silly. I have always done this. You know HPV can show up years later on a pap smear, right? and you would have no idea where you got it.