Attracted to daughter's friend's dad

[Anonymous]

As a divorced dad who is heavily involved in my daughter's Girl Scout troop, I have found Girl Scout moms to be a good source for adult companionship. One warning to guys: don't try to date two of them at the same time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As a divorced dad who is heavily involved in my daughter's Girl Scout troop, I have found Girl Scout moms to be a good source for adult companionship. One warning to guys: don't try to date two of them at the same time.

With how gossipy women are? Heck no!

[Anonymous]

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On second thought - if you are that adamant, you are made for each other, and will get everything you ask for, and more. He and his issues are someone else's problem, at last. Don't count on "his" money though, because it is not his, it is mine and came from my family. He and his family are leeches. Surprise! "Hot", indeed!

What are you reading? Are you even responding to the same thread? LOL.

You are surprised that some women have their hopes up for what they can't have? You seem extremely naive.

[Anonymous]

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On second thought - if you are that adamant, you are made for each other, and will get everything you ask for, and more. He and his issues are someone else's problem, at last. Don't count on "his" money though, because it is not his, it is mine and came from my family. He and his family are leeches. Surprise! "Hot", indeed!

What are you reading? Are you even responding to the same thread? LOL.

You are surprised that some women have their hopes up for what they can't have? You seem extremely naive.

The only thing I read from the OP is she finds her daughter's friend's dad attractive. She said nothing of being "soul mates" or leaving her family for him or anything of the sort. You are adding fake information and fake narratives into the OPs topic. She doesn't mention money once. What are YOU reading?

[Anonymous]

OP I get the sense that it’s a crush and you think he’d be in into you and you’d be into him and have a fantasy of it. I don’t think that’s bad haha OP literally said it’s a fantasy and she’s just thinking about him not asking how she can find a hotel room alone. OP, get the lelo out / ask husband for some quickies and keep focused on life at home. Crushes fade too.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My daughter went to K and 1st with this kid and they became friends. I met the kid's dad a few times and found him generally attractive. Nice. Friendly. In good shape. The usual. Then COVID-19 came and of course everyone was at home for 1.5 years. Anyway, this fall school started and I noticed his daughter wasn't at the school anymore (well, my daughter noticed she wasn't in the same class). Fast forward to this past week and I'm dropping my daughter off for track camp and he's one of the lead coaches! I see his daughter there and our kids start talking. Then we spoke for a few minutes and I felt like I was around an old college crush or something. Now that he's my daughter's coach he's even hotter! I can't stop thinking about him. I know that's bad. Very bad. But, why is he hotter now just because I found out he coaches? I seriously have not stopped thinking about him since yesterday. Help.

Are you hotter than his wife?

OP here. Yes, I am.

HAHAHAHA. OP, I have news for you. We get it, you think he is as good as yours, and if your family is blown apart why shouldn't somebody else's be? He's not interested. He is nice to everyone, but he is a real arsehole behind closed doors. His family of origin (all) has multiple problems, including untreated anger issues and depression, which are the least of it. Well before I existed. You think you can change him. Good luck with that.

On second thought - if you are that adamant, you are made for each other, and will get everything you ask for, and more. He and his issues are someone else's problem, at last. Don't count on "his" money though, because it is not his, it is mine and came from my family. He and his family are leeches. Surprise! "Hot", indeed!

Did you even read the opening post? You people need to stop making things up and reading into things. All she said was she was thinking about him. She said nothing of them be partners or whatever. People like you just want to hate on others, and if there's not enough there to hate on you just make things up to hate on. You're no better than politicians who lie just to get attention. Take a lesson in reading.

She's comparing himself to his wife that's beyond crush and fantasy territory.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:They have track teams for 2nd graders???

Exactly! I have never heard 2nd grade or even elementary track. BS alert.

Because you’ve heard of everything in your little bubble??

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:They have track teams for 2nd graders???

Exactly! I have never heard 2nd grade or even elementary track. BS alert.

This is the same kind of person who denies racism exists because they’ve never seen it personally.

[Anonymous]

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On second thought - if you are that adamant, you are made for each other, and will get everything you ask for, and more. He and his issues are someone else's problem, at last. Don't count on "his" money though, because it is not his, it is mine and came from my family. He and his family are leeches. Surprise! "Hot", indeed!

What are you reading? Are you even responding to the same thread? LOL.

You are surprised that some women have their hopes up for what they can't have? You seem extremely naive.

The only thing I read from the OP is she finds her daughter's friend's dad attractive. She said nothing of being "soul mates" or leaving her family for him or anything of the sort. You are adding fake information and fake narratives into the OPs topic. She doesn't mention money once. What are YOU reading?

I said nothing of the sort. But you did. You sound prone to drama. Interesting, but not that surprising.

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Anonymous wrote:My daughter went to K and 1st with this kid and they became friends. I met the kid's dad a few times and found him generally attractive. Nice. Friendly. In good shape. The usual. Then COVID-19 came and of course everyone was at home for 1.5 years. Anyway, this fall school started and I noticed his daughter wasn't at the school anymore (well, my daughter noticed she wasn't in the same class). Fast forward to this past week and I'm dropping my daughter off for track camp and he's one of the lead coaches! I see his daughter there and our kids start talking. Then we spoke for a few minutes and I felt like I was around an old college crush or something. Now that he's my daughter's coach he's even hotter! I can't stop thinking about him. I know that's bad. Very bad. But, why is he hotter now just because I found out he coaches? I seriously have not stopped thinking about him since yesterday. Help.

Are you hotter than his wife?

OP here. Yes, I am.

HAHAHAHA. OP, I have news for you. We get it, you think he is as good as yours, and if your family is blown apart why shouldn't somebody else's be? He's not interested. He is nice to everyone, but he is a real arsehole behind closed doors. His family of origin (all) has multiple problems, including untreated anger issues and depression, which are the least of it. Well before I existed. You think you can change him. Good luck with that.

On second thought - if you are that adamant, you are made for each other, and will get everything you ask for, and more. He and his issues are someone else's problem, at last. Don't count on "his" money though, because it is not his, it is mine and came from my family. He and his family are leeches. Surprise! "Hot", indeed!

Did you even read the opening post? You people need to stop making things up and reading into things. All she said was she was thinking about him. She said nothing of them be partners or whatever. People like you just want to hate on others, and if there's not enough there to hate on you just make things up to hate on. You're no better than politicians who lie just to get attention. Take a lesson in reading.

She's comparing himself to his wife that's beyond crush and fantasy territory.

+1

Exactly.

WHACKO.

[Anonymous]

Now I'm feeling kind of rejected. I was a rec soccer coach for 10 years, and I never noticed any of the mom's flirting with me. In the looks department, I'm not God's gift to anything, but I'm certainly not ugly or fat. Oh, well. Probably for the best. I'm happily married and have a good relationship with my kids. Guess I should be grateful not to have the temptation.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My daughter went to K and 1st with this kid and they became friends. I met the kid's dad a few times and found him generally attractive. Nice. Friendly. In good shape. The usual. Then COVID-19 came and of course everyone was at home for 1.5 years. Anyway, this fall school started and I noticed his daughter wasn't at the school anymore (well, my daughter noticed she wasn't in the same class). Fast forward to this past week and I'm dropping my daughter off for track camp and he's one of the lead coaches! I see his daughter there and our kids start talking. Then we spoke for a few minutes and I felt like I was around an old college crush or something. Now that he's my daughter's coach he's even hotter! I can't stop thinking about him. I know that's bad. Very bad. But, why is he hotter now just because I found out he coaches? I seriously have not stopped thinking about him since yesterday. Help.

Are you hotter than his wife?

OP here. Yes, I am.

HAHAHAHA. OP, I have news for you. We get it, you think he is as good as yours, and if your family is blown apart why shouldn't somebody else's be? He's not interested. He is nice to everyone, but he is a real arsehole behind closed doors. His family of origin (all) has multiple problems, including untreated anger issues and depression, which are the least of it. Well before I existed. You think you can change him. Good luck with that.

On second thought - if you are that adamant, you are made for each other, and will get everything you ask for, and more. He and his issues are someone else's problem, at last. Don't count on "his" money though, because it is not his, it is mine and came from my family. He and his family are leeches. Surprise! "Hot", indeed!

Did you even read the opening post? You people need to stop making things up and reading into things. All she said was she was thinking about him. She said nothing of them be partners or whatever. People like you just want to hate on others, and if there's not enough there to hate on you just make things up to hate on. You're no better than politicians who lie just to get attention. Take a lesson in reading.

She's comparing himself to his wife that's beyond crush and fantasy territory.

+1

Exactly.

WHACKO.

The only "whacko" here are the people making stuff up so they can hate on someone else. Feels like Congress in here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Now I'm feeling kind of rejected. I was a rec soccer coach for 10 years, and I never noticed any of the mom's flirting with me. In the looks department, I'm not God's gift to anything, but I'm certainly not ugly or fat. Oh, well. Probably for the best. I'm happily married and have a good relationship with my kids. Guess I should be grateful not to have the temptation.

Why would you not have a good relationship with your kids?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:They have track teams for 2nd graders???

Exactly! I have never heard 2nd grade or even elementary track. BS alert.

I bet you think COVID-19 is fake too right? The entire world is just pretending their families are dying just to make you take a "fake" vaccine. What's it like living in your small basement?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They have track teams for 2nd graders???

Exactly! I have never heard 2nd grade or even elementary track. BS alert.

This is the same kind of person who denies racism exists because they’ve never seen it personally.

Ding Ding Ding.

I'm on the Board of our city's little league association. There's one HS in our city. It's massive and the competition to play Baseball there is insane.

For 6 years I have seen old and new board members attempt to peg a kid as "Varsity material" at the age of 7.

It's pathetic.