Guy I'm seeing made a joke about raping me and doesn't think it's a problem
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Anonymous
| I've been seeing a guy since December. We met in November, but due to the holiday season took some time to go on our first date. I recently had a birthday, so I've been celebrating a lot. One night I had too much to drink and couldn't have sex due to being too drunk. We talked about the next day and he said, I could have raped you and you wouldn't have remembered it. Then laughed. I'm so upset by this and he seems to not think it's a problem. He's also aware that I was sexually abused in college. He thinks it's a silly reason to break things off, but I'm starting to not see him as boyfriend material although we have similar beliefs on certain things and he's educated with a good career. I feel like he doesn't get me. |
Anonymous
| So what's your question? |
Anonymous
| He's not right for you. Period. Move on. |
Anonymous
| Dtmf |
Anonymous
| He doesn't get you. Move on. |
Anonymous
| Run, don't walk, away from him. I can't help but wonder if he has raped another girl or girls. |
Anonymous
| Umm you are an idiot, he didn't have sex with you and was letting you know why. |
Anonymous
...he thinks it's noteworthy that he's not a rapist? Um, gold star, I guess. DTMFA. |
Anonymous
He thinks rape jokes are funny. She was abused as a child. He doesn't have the slightest bid of empathy as to why she is upset. Lack of empathy is a good reason to dump someone. Dump him. |
Anonymous
| Agree with DTMFA. This guy doesn't respect you. |
Anonymous
We tried to have sex, but couldn't. I kept getting dizzy. |
Anonymous
| OP, if you're looking for validation that this is not something to brush off as no big deal, you've got it. Your gut knows this isn't the guy for you. |
Anonymous
| You need to stop drinking, girlfriend. |
Anonymous
| AND stay far away from that creep. |
Anonymous
| Stop seeing him. |