Who Is Most Out Of Bounds Here?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:FYI troll.

No wife in that situation would speed dial YOU, of all people.

Do better Trolls.

This makes more sense as to why wife was calling OP. I literally can't think of another reason that she'd think OP is "sabotaging" her marriage just simply for existing. Thanks for finally giving a legit explanation, not sure why that was so hard for pps.

My gosh this site is full of such annoying people.

You LITERALLY can't think of another reason?

No? I can't? OP didnt put dave on blast. Op isnt sabotaging wife/daves marriage at all. She's just pissed at the wrong person.

Unless OP can come back and say she never knew about this, she can be targeted because she didn't stand up for her friend, given the logic in this thread. She knew and said nothing for years, most likely. But OP was a troll who posted and ran so we'll never know in this fictional drama.

If OP knew and didn't say anythng, how TF is that sabotaging anything? That seems to be what everyone on here would have preferred, just to humiliate the wife without her knowing.

But yes, I too called a troll a while back.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:FYI troll.

No wife in that situation would speed dial YOU, of all people.

Do better Trolls.

This makes more sense as to why wife was calling OP. I literally can't think of another reason that she'd think OP is "sabotaging" her marriage just simply for existing. Thanks for finally giving a legit explanation, not sure why that was so hard for pps.

My gosh this site is full of such annoying people.

You LITERALLY can't think of another reason?

No? I can't? OP didnt put dave on blast. Op isnt sabotaging wife/daves marriage at all. She's just pissed at the wrong person.

Unless OP can come back and say she never knew about this, she can be targeted because she didn't stand up for her friend, given the logic in this thread. She knew and said nothing for years, most likely. But OP was a troll who posted and ran so we'll never know in this fictional drama.

If OP knew and didn't say anythng, how TF is that sabotaging anything? That seems to be what everyone on here would have preferred, just to humiliate the wife without her knowing.

But yes, I too called a troll a while back.

A friend might have given her a heads up.

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Anonymous wrote:"She has called my a dozen times and left horribly unkind VMs accusing me of 'sabotaging' her marriage. I replied with a text once stating take it up with Dave and do not contact me again. Then I blocked her."

Why is the wife saying OP is sabotaging her marriage? Just because it happened to be your post both of them were fighting on? What a misplaced reaction. Maybe she should talk to her shitty husband...

Well, if it's all the truth then it's fair. This group loves misplaced reactions. Nobody has any room to judge another here.

I'm not sure I understand the bolded. Which part is fair? That wife is blaming OP for the destruction of her marriage?

Yep. Airing the private business in public is beyond the pale. OP got what she deserved because of how her husband went about it. He showed zero compassion for the wife, an innocent party. What a douche canoe.

But OP wasn't involved in that at all. Except that she posted the original picture that Dave decided to d*ck out on. I don't see how it's appropriate that the wife is blaming OP. She had nothing to do with it.

Why aren't we blaming the person who did the cheating and broke up the family? OP is a nobody in this situation.

Because OPs husband involved the whole family, publicly. So now everyone is involved. It didn't have to be that way, if you just wanted Dave to come clean. But, vindictive DH went for the jugular. And it all started due to OPs post and an off color joke. I thought we had already decided all the people involved were terrible people? OPs husband and Dave are two a-holes who found each other in life. Who can be surprised?

So instead of being mad at the person who cheated on her, she blames OP? I just don't get it. I'm not OP (and I suspect they may be a troll), but it makes 0 sense that the wife is blaming OP when she has done absolutely nothing in this scenario.

I guess we should break things down into really small pieces for you so you can digest.

OP - did nothing wrong. She posted about her daughter and the comments section blew up. (I assume she is not responsible for any of the obnoxious posts on here so she's blameless)

You still with me?

Dave - major a$$hole for cheating on his wife and for making the comment if he meant to imply that OP's daughter is fat

You good?

OP's DH - major a$$hole for making that comment on OP's Facebook page about Dave's affair (this is NOT an either/or situation where DH being an a$$hole means Dave is also not an a$$hole. It's like how two people can order the same item at a restaurant and the universe will keep spinning)

Still following along?

Dave's wife - her lashing out at OP is not ok, especially since OP had nothing to do with this, and the fact that she is potentially dealing with finding out about her husband's affair on a public forum does not excuse her behavior (do you see how someone being hurt doesn't mean they can act however they want)

Does that all make sense to you?

You have NO IDEA if Dave's wife was ALSO mad at Dave. Presumably she was. Again, see the either/or explanation above. No one is defending her harassing OP. The fact that you can't decipher the various pieces of information is astonishing.

No. DH did nothing wrong.

Only OP or her idiot husband would believe this. Which are you?

Hi cheater

You are completely deranged. I'm not friends with cheaters and I don't blow people up on Facebook posts.

Sure

I doubt you’ve ever stood up for anyone ever, you are a coward and a cheat.

You've completely lost the plot. MY DH and I knew a guy who cheated once. We never saw or spoke to him again. Explain to me how I'm a cheater. This is going to be good!

So you told his wife?

Nope because I never met her or knew her. This was DH coworker who cheated on a business trip. But we never saw him again socially.

Do you just let her get STDs

So I’m right you don’t stand up for people.

I don't even know her. But how did DH stand up for the cheated on wife again? Explain?

He stood up for his daughter.

But that’s all. He’s no hero here. The daughter must be so humiliated that her dad made sure everyone knows about this.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:FYI troll.

No wife in that situation would speed dial YOU, of all people.

Do better Trolls.

This makes more sense as to why wife was calling OP. I literally can't think of another reason that she'd think OP is "sabotaging" her marriage just simply for existing. Thanks for finally giving a legit explanation, not sure why that was so hard for pps.

My gosh this site is full of such annoying people.

You LITERALLY can't think of another reason?

No? I can't? OP didnt put dave on blast. Op isnt sabotaging wife/daves marriage at all. She's just pissed at the wrong person.

This^^^^^^

Dave is a body shamer
Dave is the cheater

It's always the messenger that gets blasted by the wife.

Oh well. Guess if Op can’t handle the heat she should have cleaned up her social media.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:FYI troll.

No wife in that situation would speed dial YOU, of all people.

Do better Trolls.

This makes more sense as to why wife was calling OP. I literally can't think of another reason that she'd think OP is "sabotaging" her marriage just simply for existing. Thanks for finally giving a legit explanation, not sure why that was so hard for pps.

My gosh this site is full of such annoying people.

You LITERALLY can't think of another reason?

No? I can't? OP didnt put dave on blast. Op isnt sabotaging wife/daves marriage at all. She's just pissed at the wrong person.

Unless OP can come back and say she never knew about this, she can be targeted because she didn't stand up for her friend, given the logic in this thread. She knew and said nothing for years, most likely. But OP was a troll who posted and ran so we'll never know in this fictional drama.

If OP knew and didn't say anythng, how TF is that sabotaging anything? That seems to be what everyone on here would have preferred, just to humiliate the wife without her knowing.

But yes, I too called a troll a while back.

A friend might have given her a heads up.

That would apparently be sabotaging the marriage. "How dare you tell me my piece of sh!t husband cheated on me! That will blow up my marriage!"

It's always the messenger who takes the brunt.

That said, I would 100% tell my friend if I knew she was being cheated on.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Both were wrong. Your DH was WAY more wrong.

Agree with this. One guy called another guy’s daughter fat, not to her. One guy blew up the other guy’s marriage.

The cheater blew up his marriage. It was only a matter of time.

Dave sounds like a bully and not a decent person (cheating on spouse, commenting on friend's kid body, who knows what else).

[Anonymous]

This sounds like a 'straw that broke the camel's back' type situation. Team DH.

[Anonymous]

Team Dave's family.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:FYI troll.

No wife in that situation would speed dial YOU, of all people.

Do better Trolls.

This makes more sense as to why wife was calling OP. I literally can't think of another reason that she'd think OP is "sabotaging" her marriage just simply for existing. Thanks for finally giving a legit explanation, not sure why that was so hard for pps.

My gosh this site is full of such annoying people.

You LITERALLY can't think of another reason?

No? I can't? OP didnt put dave on blast. Op isnt sabotaging wife/daves marriage at all. She's just pissed at the wrong person.

This^^^^^^

Dave is a body shamer
Dave is the cheater

It's always the messenger that gets blasted by the wife.

Oh well. Guess if Op can’t handle the heat she should have cleaned up her social media.

Easy Peezy she blocked her

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:FYI troll.

No wife in that situation would speed dial YOU, of all people.

Do better Trolls.

This makes more sense as to why wife was calling OP. I literally can't think of another reason that she'd think OP is "sabotaging" her marriage just simply for existing. Thanks for finally giving a legit explanation, not sure why that was so hard for pps.

My gosh this site is full of such annoying people.

You LITERALLY can't think of another reason?

No? I can't? OP didnt put dave on blast. Op isnt sabotaging wife/daves marriage at all. She's just pissed at the wrong person.

Unless OP can come back and say she never knew about this, she can be targeted because she didn't stand up for her friend, given the logic in this thread. She knew and said nothing for years, most likely. But OP was a troll who posted and ran so we'll never know in this fictional drama.

If OP knew and didn't say anythng, how TF is that sabotaging anything? That seems to be what everyone on here would have preferred, just to humiliate the wife without her knowing.

But yes, I too called a troll a while back.

A friend might have given her a heads up.

That would apparently be sabotaging the marriage. "How dare you tell me my piece of sh!t husband cheated on me! That will blow up my marriage!"

It's always the messenger who takes the brunt.

That said, I would 100% tell my friend if I knew she was being cheated on.

Takes the brunt? So not the wife and kids who now have a broken home? Just the messenger who can block the victim and move on with their life? Ok.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:FYI troll.

No wife in that situation would speed dial YOU, of all people.

Do better Trolls.

This makes more sense as to why wife was calling OP. I literally can't think of another reason that she'd think OP is "sabotaging" her marriage just simply for existing. Thanks for finally giving a legit explanation, not sure why that was so hard for pps.

My gosh this site is full of such annoying people.

You LITERALLY can't think of another reason?

No? I can't? OP didnt put dave on blast. Op isnt sabotaging wife/daves marriage at all. She's just pissed at the wrong person.

This^^^^^^

Dave is a body shamer
Dave is the cheater

It's always the messenger that gets blasted by the wife.

Oh well. Guess if Op can’t handle the heat she should have cleaned up her social media.

Easy Peezy she blocked her

Right so nothing happened to the wife. She came out unscathed. She can bask in her righteousness.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Both were wrong. Your DH was WAY more wrong.

Agree with this. One guy called another guy’s daughter fat, not to her. One guy blew up the other guy’s marriage.

Revenge is most satisfying when it is brutal.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:FYI troll.

No wife in that situation would speed dial YOU, of all people.

Do better Trolls.

This makes more sense as to why wife was calling OP. I literally can't think of another reason that she'd think OP is "sabotaging" her marriage just simply for existing. Thanks for finally giving a legit explanation, not sure why that was so hard for pps.

My gosh this site is full of such annoying people.

You LITERALLY can't think of another reason?

No? I can't? OP didnt put dave on blast. Op isnt sabotaging wife/daves marriage at all. She's just pissed at the wrong person.

Unless OP can come back and say she never knew about this, she can be targeted because she didn't stand up for her friend, given the logic in this thread. She knew and said nothing for years, most likely. But OP was a troll who posted and ran so we'll never know in this fictional drama.

If OP knew and didn't say anythng, how TF is that sabotaging anything? That seems to be what everyone on here would have preferred, just to humiliate the wife without her knowing.

But yes, I too called a troll a while back.

A friend might have given her a heads up.

That would apparently be sabotaging the marriage. "How dare you tell me my piece of sh!t husband cheated on me! That will blow up my marriage!"

It's always the messenger who takes the brunt.

That said, I would 100% tell my friend if I knew she was being cheated on.

Takes the brunt? So not the wife and kids who now have a broken home? Just the messenger who can block the victim and move on with their life? Ok.

I guess Dave shouldn't have broken up the home then?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Bottom Line: If you are going to throw stones, be prepared for a response.


Only way to avoid backlash is to not chuck stones.

I hope you're saying this is a lesson for OP's DH as well as for Dave.

Not really. If you can’t take it, don’t dish it. The obnoxious cheating Dad is also an idiot to insult the family of someone who knows his secret. I have zero sympathy.

[Anonymous]

So one guy insults family and fair game is to humiliate the other family?

Who raised you people?