Who Is Most Out Of Bounds Here?

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Anonymous wrote:"She has called my a dozen times and left horribly unkind VMs accusing me of 'sabotaging' her marriage. I replied with a text once stating take it up with Dave and do not contact me again. Then I blocked her."

Why is the wife saying OP is sabotaging her marriage? Just because it happened to be your post both of them were fighting on? What a misplaced reaction. Maybe she should talk to her shitty husband...

Well, if it's all the truth then it's fair. This group loves misplaced reactions. Nobody has any room to judge another here.

I'm not sure I understand the bolded. Which part is fair? That wife is blaming OP for the destruction of her marriage?

Yep. Airing the private business in public is beyond the pale. OP got what she deserved because of how her husband went about it. He showed zero compassion for the wife, an innocent party. What a douche canoe.

But OP wasn't involved in that at all. Except that she posted the original picture that Dave decided to d*ck out on. I don't see how it's appropriate that the wife is blaming OP. She had nothing to do with it.

Why aren't we blaming the person who did the cheating and broke up the family? OP is a nobody in this situation.

Because OPs husband involved the whole family, publicly. So now everyone is involved. It didn't have to be that way, if you just wanted Dave to come clean. But, vindictive DH went for the jugular. And it all started due to OPs post and an off color joke. I thought we had already decided all the people involved were terrible people? OPs husband and Dave are two a-holes who found each other in life. Who can be surprised?

So instead of being mad at the person who cheated on her, she blames OP? I just don't get it. I'm not OP (and I suspect they may be a troll), but it makes 0 sense that the wife is blaming OP when she has done absolutely nothing in this scenario.

I guess we should break things down into really small pieces for you so you can digest.

OP - did nothing wrong. She posted about her daughter and the comments section blew up. (I assume she is not responsible for any of the obnoxious posts on here so she's blameless)

You still with me?

Dave - major a$$hole for cheating on his wife and for making the comment if he meant to imply that OP's daughter is fat

You good?

OP's DH - major a$$hole for making that comment on OP's Facebook page about Dave's affair (this is NOT an either/or situation where DH being an a$$hole means Dave is also not an a$$hole. It's like how two people can order the same item at a restaurant and the universe will keep spinning)

Still following along?

Dave's wife - her lashing out at OP is not ok, especially since OP had nothing to do with this, and the fact that she is potentially dealing with finding out about her husband's affair on a public forum does not excuse her behavior (do you see how someone being hurt doesn't mean they can act however they want)

Does that all make sense to you?

You have NO IDEA if Dave's wife was ALSO mad at Dave. Presumably she was. Again, see the either/or explanation above. No one is defending her harassing OP. The fact that you can't decipher the various pieces of information is astonishing.

No. DH did nothing wrong.

Only OP or her idiot husband would believe this. Which are you?

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You are completely deranged. I'm not friends with cheaters and I don't blow people up on Facebook posts.

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I doubt you’ve ever stood up for anyone ever, you are a coward and a cheat.

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Omg lol. Outing a cheater is now a vicious temper. Anything to deflect blame off the cheater himself!! Amazing!

Ask OP how nice of a guy her DH is. This can't be the first time he's gone ballistic. If he cared about the right thing he would have dumped Dave and told his wife all about him. He's not that guy.

Nice guy? Who cares?

I want a guy who stands up against bullies not a “nice guy”.

Maybe you think lemmings are better but I don’t. I want somebody who is strong and doesn’t standby. Abuse.

Ha so you're ok with a an aggressive loser who treats you like garbage as long as he's ready to fight with bullies? Gee, what standards you have.

Nobody would ever treat me like garbage because I would leave them in the desk and I would blow them up on the way out the way DH Did with Dave.

I will love forever, a person that stands up against hatred. Just like that show What would you do?

I love the people that stand up to hateful people, but I can’t stand the people that just let it happen

So you would be ok married to a guy who was friends with cheaters? Yuck. OPs guy is like that.

Of course.

My H is friends with cheaters, so am I. They all eventually get caught and blow up their families.

If you’re not friends with cheaters, then you just don’t know that they’re cheating. Which means you are friends with cheaters you’re just in the dark.

That's fine if I don't know. But knowing and choosing to ignore it, is inexcusable. You are mired in the mud with them.

Oh FFS

OPs husband had his back for all those years. Openly friendly with a cheater. What else does he look the other way on? He's clearly unethical. A better man would have turned his back on this "friend" years ago.

I almost want to hear more from you because your brain is so very simple and I'm slightly fascinated about how navigate life. But I can actually tell exactly what kind of person you are by your posts and I really don't want to hear from you again.

She’s clearly an AP or former AP.

So if your friend is cheating on his wife you just look the other way? What kind of person does that make you? I can't even wrap my head around it.

Yes I don’t call every neighbor, coworker. Friends family every time they cheat, drink too much, yell at their kid, etc.

I don’t police my friends.

So you don't think cheating is a big deal. Got it. So why all the hate for Dave? It's like yelling at the kids what's the problem?

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Omg lol. Outing a cheater is now a vicious temper. Anything to deflect blame off the cheater himself!! Amazing!

Ask OP how nice of a guy her DH is. This can't be the first time he's gone ballistic. If he cared about the right thing he would have dumped Dave and told his wife all about him. He's not that guy.

Nice guy? Who cares?

I want a guy who stands up against bullies not a “nice guy”.

Maybe you think lemmings are better but I don’t. I want somebody who is strong and doesn’t standby. Abuse.

Ha so you're ok with a an aggressive loser who treats you like garbage as long as he's ready to fight with bullies? Gee, what standards you have.

Nobody would ever treat me like garbage because I would leave them in the desk and I would blow them up on the way out the way DH Did with Dave.

I will love forever, a person that stands up against hatred. Just like that show What would you do?

I love the people that stand up to hateful people, but I can’t stand the people that just let it happen

That you can't see your hypocrisy is shocking.

Again you’re a person who blamed the wife for asking for a divorce when a H cheats.

It’s the cheaters fault they divorce even if he says he doesn’t want to divorce.

Dave blew up his family all by himself, nobody else, DH is not to blame, he is not hateful, he is not the villain. Dave is.

I am the immediate PP to whom you are responding but I didn't write any of the other responses in this particular part of the thread. I would never blame a wife for leaving her loser husband who cheated on her. I'd applaud her.

But you're saying you would "blow up" someone who did you wrong but also that you stand up against hatred. But whatever. You can't be reasoned with so I don't care anymore.

You are blaming DH for ruining a family. He did not do that Dave did.

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Anonymous wrote:"She has called my a dozen times and left horribly unkind VMs accusing me of 'sabotaging' her marriage. I replied with a text once stating take it up with Dave and do not contact me again. Then I blocked her."

Why is the wife saying OP is sabotaging her marriage? Just because it happened to be your post both of them were fighting on? What a misplaced reaction. Maybe she should talk to her shitty husband...

Well, if it's all the truth then it's fair. This group loves misplaced reactions. Nobody has any room to judge another here.

I'm not sure I understand the bolded. Which part is fair? That wife is blaming OP for the destruction of her marriage?

Yep. Airing the private business in public is beyond the pale. OP got what she deserved because of how her husband went about it. He showed zero compassion for the wife, an innocent party. What a douche canoe.

But OP wasn't involved in that at all. Except that she posted the original picture that Dave decided to d*ck out on. I don't see how it's appropriate that the wife is blaming OP. She had nothing to do with it.

Why aren't we blaming the person who did the cheating and broke up the family? OP is a nobody in this situation.

Because OPs husband involved the whole family, publicly. So now everyone is involved. It didn't have to be that way, if you just wanted Dave to come clean. But, vindictive DH went for the jugular. And it all started due to OPs post and an off color joke. I thought we had already decided all the people involved were terrible people? OPs husband and Dave are two a-holes who found each other in life. Who can be surprised?

So instead of being mad at the person who cheated on her, she blames OP? I just don't get it. I'm not OP (and I suspect they may be a troll), but it makes 0 sense that the wife is blaming OP when she has done absolutely nothing in this scenario.

I guess we should break things down into really small pieces for you so you can digest.

OP - did nothing wrong. She posted about her daughter and the comments section blew up. (I assume she is not responsible for any of the obnoxious posts on here so she's blameless)

You still with me?

Dave - major a$$hole for cheating on his wife and for making the comment if he meant to imply that OP's daughter is fat

You good?

OP's DH - major a$$hole for making that comment on OP's Facebook page about Dave's affair (this is NOT an either/or situation where DH being an a$$hole means Dave is also not an a$$hole. It's like how two people can order the same item at a restaurant and the universe will keep spinning)

Still following along?

Dave's wife - her lashing out at OP is not ok, especially since OP had nothing to do with this, and the fact that she is potentially dealing with finding out about her husband's affair on a public forum does not excuse her behavior (do you see how someone being hurt doesn't mean they can act however they want)

Does that all make sense to you?

You have NO IDEA if Dave's wife was ALSO mad at Dave. Presumably she was. Again, see the either/or explanation above. No one is defending her harassing OP. The fact that you can't decipher the various pieces of information is astonishing.

No. DH did nothing wrong.

Only OP or her idiot husband would believe this. Which are you?

Hi cheater

You are completely deranged. I'm not friends with cheaters and I don't blow people up on Facebook posts.

Sure

I doubt you’ve ever stood up for anyone ever, you are a coward and a cheat.

You've completely lost the plot. MY DH and I knew a guy who cheated once. We never saw or spoke to him again. Explain to me how I'm a cheater. This is going to be good!

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Anonymous wrote:"his vicious temper"
Omg lol. Outing a cheater is now a vicious temper. Anything to deflect blame off the cheater himself!! Amazing!

Ask OP how nice of a guy her DH is. This can't be the first time he's gone ballistic. If he cared about the right thing he would have dumped Dave and told his wife all about him. He's not that guy.

Nice guy? Who cares?

I want a guy who stands up against bullies not a “nice guy”.

Maybe you think lemmings are better but I don’t. I want somebody who is strong and doesn’t standby. Abuse.

Ha so you're ok with a an aggressive loser who treats you like garbage as long as he's ready to fight with bullies? Gee, what standards you have.

Nobody would ever treat me like garbage because I would leave them in the desk and I would blow them up on the way out the way DH Did with Dave.

I will love forever, a person that stands up against hatred. Just like that show What would you do?

I love the people that stand up to hateful people, but I can’t stand the people that just let it happen

So you would be ok married to a guy who was friends with cheaters? Yuck. OPs guy is like that.

Of course.

My H is friends with cheaters, so am I. They all eventually get caught and blow up their families.

If you’re not friends with cheaters, then you just don’t know that they’re cheating. Which means you are friends with cheaters you’re just in the dark.

That's fine if I don't know. But knowing and choosing to ignore it, is inexcusable. You are mired in the mud with them.

Oh FFS

OPs husband had his back for all those years. Openly friendly with a cheater. What else does he look the other way on? He's clearly unethical. A better man would have turned his back on this "friend" years ago.

I almost want to hear more from you because your brain is so very simple and I'm slightly fascinated about how navigate life. But I can actually tell exactly what kind of person you are by your posts and I really don't want to hear from you again.

She’s clearly an AP or former AP.

So if your friend is cheating on his wife you just look the other way? What kind of person does that make you? I can't even wrap my head around it.

Yes I don’t call every neighbor, coworker. Friends family every time they cheat, drink too much, yell at their kid, etc.

I don’t police my friends.

So you don't think cheating is a big deal. Got it. So why all the hate for Dave? It's like yelling at the kids what's the problem?

I think cheating is terrible. I think being married to a MAGA is terrible. I don’t tell my friends who to marry, no.

You do? You tell your friends every terrible thing about their spouse?

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Anonymous wrote:"She has called my a dozen times and left horribly unkind VMs accusing me of 'sabotaging' her marriage. I replied with a text once stating take it up with Dave and do not contact me again. Then I blocked her."

Why is the wife saying OP is sabotaging her marriage? Just because it happened to be your post both of them were fighting on? What a misplaced reaction. Maybe she should talk to her shitty husband...

Well, if it's all the truth then it's fair. This group loves misplaced reactions. Nobody has any room to judge another here.

I'm not sure I understand the bolded. Which part is fair? That wife is blaming OP for the destruction of her marriage?

Yep. Airing the private business in public is beyond the pale. OP got what she deserved because of how her husband went about it. He showed zero compassion for the wife, an innocent party. What a douche canoe.

But OP wasn't involved in that at all. Except that she posted the original picture that Dave decided to d*ck out on. I don't see how it's appropriate that the wife is blaming OP. She had nothing to do with it.

Why aren't we blaming the person who did the cheating and broke up the family? OP is a nobody in this situation.

Because OPs husband involved the whole family, publicly. So now everyone is involved. It didn't have to be that way, if you just wanted Dave to come clean. But, vindictive DH went for the jugular. And it all started due to OPs post and an off color joke. I thought we had already decided all the people involved were terrible people? OPs husband and Dave are two a-holes who found each other in life. Who can be surprised?

So instead of being mad at the person who cheated on her, she blames OP? I just don't get it. I'm not OP (and I suspect they may be a troll), but it makes 0 sense that the wife is blaming OP when she has done absolutely nothing in this scenario.

I guess we should break things down into really small pieces for you so you can digest.

OP - did nothing wrong. She posted about her daughter and the comments section blew up. (I assume she is not responsible for any of the obnoxious posts on here so she's blameless)

You still with me?

Dave - major a$$hole for cheating on his wife and for making the comment if he meant to imply that OP's daughter is fat

You good?

OP's DH - major a$$hole for making that comment on OP's Facebook page about Dave's affair (this is NOT an either/or situation where DH being an a$$hole means Dave is also not an a$$hole. It's like how two people can order the same item at a restaurant and the universe will keep spinning)

Still following along?

Dave's wife - her lashing out at OP is not ok, especially since OP had nothing to do with this, and the fact that she is potentially dealing with finding out about her husband's affair on a public forum does not excuse her behavior (do you see how someone being hurt doesn't mean they can act however they want)

Does that all make sense to you?

You have NO IDEA if Dave's wife was ALSO mad at Dave. Presumably she was. Again, see the either/or explanation above. No one is defending her harassing OP. The fact that you can't decipher the various pieces of information is astonishing.

No. DH did nothing wrong.

Only OP or her idiot husband would believe this. Which are you?

Hi cheater

You are completely deranged. I'm not friends with cheaters and I don't blow people up on Facebook posts.

Sure

I doubt you’ve ever stood up for anyone ever, you are a coward and a cheat.

You've completely lost the plot. MY DH and I knew a guy who cheated once. We never saw or spoke to him again. Explain to me how I'm a cheater. This is going to be good!

So you told his wife?

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Anonymous wrote:"She has called my a dozen times and left horribly unkind VMs accusing me of 'sabotaging' her marriage. I replied with a text once stating take it up with Dave and do not contact me again. Then I blocked her."

Why is the wife saying OP is sabotaging her marriage? Just because it happened to be your post both of them were fighting on? What a misplaced reaction. Maybe she should talk to her shitty husband...

Well, if it's all the truth then it's fair. This group loves misplaced reactions. Nobody has any room to judge another here.

I'm not sure I understand the bolded. Which part is fair? That wife is blaming OP for the destruction of her marriage?

Yep. Airing the private business in public is beyond the pale. OP got what she deserved because of how her husband went about it. He showed zero compassion for the wife, an innocent party. What a douche canoe.

But OP wasn't involved in that at all. Except that she posted the original picture that Dave decided to d*ck out on. I don't see how it's appropriate that the wife is blaming OP. She had nothing to do with it.

Why aren't we blaming the person who did the cheating and broke up the family? OP is a nobody in this situation.

Because OPs husband involved the whole family, publicly. So now everyone is involved. It didn't have to be that way, if you just wanted Dave to come clean. But, vindictive DH went for the jugular. And it all started due to OPs post and an off color joke. I thought we had already decided all the people involved were terrible people? OPs husband and Dave are two a-holes who found each other in life. Who can be surprised?

So instead of being mad at the person who cheated on her, she blames OP? I just don't get it. I'm not OP (and I suspect they may be a troll), but it makes 0 sense that the wife is blaming OP when she has done absolutely nothing in this scenario.

I guess we should break things down into really small pieces for you so you can digest.

OP - did nothing wrong. She posted about her daughter and the comments section blew up. (I assume she is not responsible for any of the obnoxious posts on here so she's blameless)

You still with me?

Dave - major a$$hole for cheating on his wife and for making the comment if he meant to imply that OP's daughter is fat

You good?

OP's DH - major a$$hole for making that comment on OP's Facebook page about Dave's affair (this is NOT an either/or situation where DH being an a$$hole means Dave is also not an a$$hole. It's like how two people can order the same item at a restaurant and the universe will keep spinning)

Still following along?

Dave's wife - her lashing out at OP is not ok, especially since OP had nothing to do with this, and the fact that she is potentially dealing with finding out about her husband's affair on a public forum does not excuse her behavior (do you see how someone being hurt doesn't mean they can act however they want)

Does that all make sense to you?

You have NO IDEA if Dave's wife was ALSO mad at Dave. Presumably she was. Again, see the either/or explanation above. No one is defending her harassing OP. The fact that you can't decipher the various pieces of information is astonishing.

No. DH did nothing wrong.

Only OP or her idiot husband would believe this. Which are you?

Hi cheater

You are completely deranged. I'm not friends with cheaters and I don't blow people up on Facebook posts.

Sure

I doubt you’ve ever stood up for anyone ever, you are a coward and a cheat.

You've completely lost the plot. MY DH and I knew a guy who cheated once. We never saw or spoke to him again. Explain to me how I'm a cheater. This is going to be good!

So you told his wife?

Nope because I never met her or knew her. This was DH coworker who cheated on a business trip. But we never saw him again socially.

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Anonymous wrote:"his vicious temper"
Omg lol. Outing a cheater is now a vicious temper. Anything to deflect blame off the cheater himself!! Amazing!

Ask OP how nice of a guy her DH is. This can't be the first time he's gone ballistic. If he cared about the right thing he would have dumped Dave and told his wife all about him. He's not that guy.

Nice guy? Who cares?

I want a guy who stands up against bullies not a “nice guy”.

Maybe you think lemmings are better but I don’t. I want somebody who is strong and doesn’t standby. Abuse.

Ha so you're ok with a an aggressive loser who treats you like garbage as long as he's ready to fight with bullies? Gee, what standards you have.

Nobody would ever treat me like garbage because I would leave them in the desk and I would blow them up on the way out the way DH Did with Dave.

I will love forever, a person that stands up against hatred. Just like that show What would you do?

I love the people that stand up to hateful people, but I can’t stand the people that just let it happen

So you would be ok married to a guy who was friends with cheaters? Yuck. OPs guy is like that.

Of course.

My H is friends with cheaters, so am I. They all eventually get caught and blow up their families.

If you’re not friends with cheaters, then you just don’t know that they’re cheating. Which means you are friends with cheaters you’re just in the dark.

That's fine if I don't know. But knowing and choosing to ignore it, is inexcusable. You are mired in the mud with them.

Oh FFS

OPs husband had his back for all those years. Openly friendly with a cheater. What else does he look the other way on? He's clearly unethical. A better man would have turned his back on this "friend" years ago.

I almost want to hear more from you because your brain is so very simple and I'm slightly fascinated about how navigate life. But I can actually tell exactly what kind of person you are by your posts and I really don't want to hear from you again.

She’s clearly an AP or former AP.

So if your friend is cheating on his wife you just look the other way? What kind of person does that make you? I can't even wrap my head around it.

Yes I don’t call every neighbor, coworker. Friends family every time they cheat, drink too much, yell at their kid, etc.

I don’t police my friends.

So you don't think cheating is a big deal. Got it. So why all the hate for Dave? It's like yelling at the kids what's the problem?

I think cheating is terrible. I think being married to a MAGA is terrible. I don’t tell my friends who to marry, no.

You do? You tell your friends every terrible thing about their spouse?

Wait till you hear how Kamala got to where she is! Hint- it involves married men, her on her back, and her legs spread wide open.

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Anonymous wrote:"She has called my a dozen times and left horribly unkind VMs accusing me of 'sabotaging' her marriage. I replied with a text once stating take it up with Dave and do not contact me again. Then I blocked her."

Why is the wife saying OP is sabotaging her marriage? Just because it happened to be your post both of them were fighting on? What a misplaced reaction. Maybe she should talk to her shitty husband...

Well, if it's all the truth then it's fair. This group loves misplaced reactions. Nobody has any room to judge another here.

I'm not sure I understand the bolded. Which part is fair? That wife is blaming OP for the destruction of her marriage?

Yep. Airing the private business in public is beyond the pale. OP got what she deserved because of how her husband went about it. He showed zero compassion for the wife, an innocent party. What a douche canoe.

But OP wasn't involved in that at all. Except that she posted the original picture that Dave decided to d*ck out on. I don't see how it's appropriate that the wife is blaming OP. She had nothing to do with it.

Why aren't we blaming the person who did the cheating and broke up the family? OP is a nobody in this situation.

Because OPs husband involved the whole family, publicly. So now everyone is involved. It didn't have to be that way, if you just wanted Dave to come clean. But, vindictive DH went for the jugular. And it all started due to OPs post and an off color joke. I thought we had already decided all the people involved were terrible people? OPs husband and Dave are two a-holes who found each other in life. Who can be surprised?

So instead of being mad at the person who cheated on her, she blames OP? I just don't get it. I'm not OP (and I suspect they may be a troll), but it makes 0 sense that the wife is blaming OP when she has done absolutely nothing in this scenario.

I guess we should break things down into really small pieces for you so you can digest.

OP - did nothing wrong. She posted about her daughter and the comments section blew up. (I assume she is not responsible for any of the obnoxious posts on here so she's blameless)

You still with me?

Dave - major a$$hole for cheating on his wife and for making the comment if he meant to imply that OP's daughter is fat

You good?

OP's DH - major a$$hole for making that comment on OP's Facebook page about Dave's affair (this is NOT an either/or situation where DH being an a$$hole means Dave is also not an a$$hole. It's like how two people can order the same item at a restaurant and the universe will keep spinning)

Still following along?

Dave's wife - her lashing out at OP is not ok, especially since OP had nothing to do with this, and the fact that she is potentially dealing with finding out about her husband's affair on a public forum does not excuse her behavior (do you see how someone being hurt doesn't mean they can act however they want)

Does that all make sense to you?

You have NO IDEA if Dave's wife was ALSO mad at Dave. Presumably she was. Again, see the either/or explanation above. No one is defending her harassing OP. The fact that you can't decipher the various pieces of information is astonishing.

No. DH did nothing wrong.

Only OP or her idiot husband would believe this. Which are you?

Hi cheater

You are completely deranged. I'm not friends with cheaters and I don't blow people up on Facebook posts.

Sure

I doubt you’ve ever stood up for anyone ever, you are a coward and a cheat.

You've completely lost the plot. MY DH and I knew a guy who cheated once. We never saw or spoke to him again. Explain to me how I'm a cheater. This is going to be good!

So you told his wife?

Nope because I never met her or knew her. This was DH coworker who cheated on a business trip. But we never saw him again socially.

Do you just let her get STDs

So I’m right you don’t stand up for people.

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Omg lol. Outing a cheater is now a vicious temper. Anything to deflect blame off the cheater himself!! Amazing!

Ask OP how nice of a guy her DH is. This can't be the first time he's gone ballistic. If he cared about the right thing he would have dumped Dave and told his wife all about him. He's not that guy.

Nice guy? Who cares?

I want a guy who stands up against bullies not a “nice guy”.

Maybe you think lemmings are better but I don’t. I want somebody who is strong and doesn’t standby. Abuse.

Ha so you're ok with a an aggressive loser who treats you like garbage as long as he's ready to fight with bullies? Gee, what standards you have.

Nobody would ever treat me like garbage because I would leave them in the desk and I would blow them up on the way out the way DH Did with Dave.

I will love forever, a person that stands up against hatred. Just like that show What would you do?

I love the people that stand up to hateful people, but I can’t stand the people that just let it happen

So you would be ok married to a guy who was friends with cheaters? Yuck. OPs guy is like that.

Of course.

My H is friends with cheaters, so am I. They all eventually get caught and blow up their families.

If you’re not friends with cheaters, then you just don’t know that they’re cheating. Which means you are friends with cheaters you’re just in the dark.

That's fine if I don't know. But knowing and choosing to ignore it, is inexcusable. You are mired in the mud with them.

Oh FFS

OPs husband had his back for all those years. Openly friendly with a cheater. What else does he look the other way on? He's clearly unethical. A better man would have turned his back on this "friend" years ago.

I almost want to hear more from you because your brain is so very simple and I'm slightly fascinated about how navigate life. But I can actually tell exactly what kind of person you are by your posts and I really don't want to hear from you again.

She’s clearly an AP or former AP.

So if your friend is cheating on his wife you just look the other way? What kind of person does that make you? I can't even wrap my head around it.

Yes I don’t call every neighbor, coworker. Friends family every time they cheat, drink too much, yell at their kid, etc.

I don’t police my friends.

So you don't think cheating is a big deal. Got it. So why all the hate for Dave? It's like yelling at the kids what's the problem?

I think cheating is terrible. I think being married to a MAGA is terrible. I don’t tell my friends who to marry, no.

You do? You tell your friends every terrible thing about their spouse?

Wait till you hear how Kamala got to where she is! Hint- it involves married men, her on her back, and her legs spread wide open.

Lol did she pay them hush money with campaign finance?

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Anonymous wrote:"She has called my a dozen times and left horribly unkind VMs accusing me of 'sabotaging' her marriage. I replied with a text once stating take it up with Dave and do not contact me again. Then I blocked her."

Why is the wife saying OP is sabotaging her marriage? Just because it happened to be your post both of them were fighting on? What a misplaced reaction. Maybe she should talk to her shitty husband...

Well, if it's all the truth then it's fair. This group loves misplaced reactions. Nobody has any room to judge another here.

I'm not sure I understand the bolded. Which part is fair? That wife is blaming OP for the destruction of her marriage?

Yep. Airing the private business in public is beyond the pale. OP got what she deserved because of how her husband went about it. He showed zero compassion for the wife, an innocent party. What a douche canoe.

But OP wasn't involved in that at all. Except that she posted the original picture that Dave decided to d*ck out on. I don't see how it's appropriate that the wife is blaming OP. She had nothing to do with it.

Why aren't we blaming the person who did the cheating and broke up the family? OP is a nobody in this situation.

Because OPs husband involved the whole family, publicly. So now everyone is involved. It didn't have to be that way, if you just wanted Dave to come clean. But, vindictive DH went for the jugular. And it all started due to OPs post and an off color joke. I thought we had already decided all the people involved were terrible people? OPs husband and Dave are two a-holes who found each other in life. Who can be surprised?

So instead of being mad at the person who cheated on her, she blames OP? I just don't get it. I'm not OP (and I suspect they may be a troll), but it makes 0 sense that the wife is blaming OP when she has done absolutely nothing in this scenario.

I guess we should break things down into really small pieces for you so you can digest.

OP - did nothing wrong. She posted about her daughter and the comments section blew up. (I assume she is not responsible for any of the obnoxious posts on here so she's blameless)

You still with me?

Dave - major a$$hole for cheating on his wife and for making the comment if he meant to imply that OP's daughter is fat

You good?

OP's DH - major a$$hole for making that comment on OP's Facebook page about Dave's affair (this is NOT an either/or situation where DH being an a$$hole means Dave is also not an a$$hole. It's like how two people can order the same item at a restaurant and the universe will keep spinning)

Still following along?

Dave's wife - her lashing out at OP is not ok, especially since OP had nothing to do with this, and the fact that she is potentially dealing with finding out about her husband's affair on a public forum does not excuse her behavior (do you see how someone being hurt doesn't mean they can act however they want)

Does that all make sense to you?

You have NO IDEA if Dave's wife was ALSO mad at Dave. Presumably she was. Again, see the either/or explanation above. No one is defending her harassing OP. The fact that you can't decipher the various pieces of information is astonishing.

No. DH did nothing wrong.

Only OP or her idiot husband would believe this. Which are you?

Hi cheater

You are completely deranged. I'm not friends with cheaters and I don't blow people up on Facebook posts.

Sure

I doubt you’ve ever stood up for anyone ever, you are a coward and a cheat.

You've completely lost the plot. MY DH and I knew a guy who cheated once. We never saw or spoke to him again. Explain to me how I'm a cheater. This is going to be good!

So you told his wife?

Nope because I never met her or knew her. This was DH coworker who cheated on a business trip. But we never saw him again socially.

Do you just let her get STDs

So I’m right you don’t stand up for people.

I don't even know her. But how did DH stand up for the cheated on wife again? Explain?

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No wife in that situation would speed dial YOU, of all people.

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This makes more sense as to why wife was calling OP. I literally can't think of another reason that she'd think OP is "sabotaging" her marriage just simply for existing. Thanks for finally giving a legit explanation, not sure why that was so hard for pps.

My gosh this site is full of such annoying people.

You LITERALLY can't think of another reason?

No? I can't? OP didnt put dave on blast. Op isnt sabotaging wife/daves marriage at all. She's just pissed at the wrong person.

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No wife in that situation would speed dial YOU, of all people.

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This makes more sense as to why wife was calling OP. I literally can't think of another reason that she'd think OP is "sabotaging" her marriage just simply for existing. Thanks for finally giving a legit explanation, not sure why that was so hard for pps.

My gosh this site is full of such annoying people.

You LITERALLY can't think of another reason?

No? I can't? OP didnt put dave on blast. Op isnt sabotaging wife/daves marriage at all. She's just pissed at the wrong person.

Unless OP can come back and say she never knew about this, she can be targeted because she didn't stand up for her friend, given the logic in this thread. She knew and said nothing for years, most likely. But OP was a troll who posted and ran so we'll never know in this fictional drama.

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Why is the wife saying OP is sabotaging her marriage? Just because it happened to be your post both of them were fighting on? What a misplaced reaction. Maybe she should talk to her shitty husband...

Well, if it's all the truth then it's fair. This group loves misplaced reactions. Nobody has any room to judge another here.

I'm not sure I understand the bolded. Which part is fair? That wife is blaming OP for the destruction of her marriage?

Yep. Airing the private business in public is beyond the pale. OP got what she deserved because of how her husband went about it. He showed zero compassion for the wife, an innocent party. What a douche canoe.

But OP wasn't involved in that at all. Except that she posted the original picture that Dave decided to d*ck out on. I don't see how it's appropriate that the wife is blaming OP. She had nothing to do with it.

Why aren't we blaming the person who did the cheating and broke up the family? OP is a nobody in this situation.

Because OPs husband involved the whole family, publicly. So now everyone is involved. It didn't have to be that way, if you just wanted Dave to come clean. But, vindictive DH went for the jugular. And it all started due to OPs post and an off color joke. I thought we had already decided all the people involved were terrible people? OPs husband and Dave are two a-holes who found each other in life. Who can be surprised?

So instead of being mad at the person who cheated on her, she blames OP? I just don't get it. I'm not OP (and I suspect they may be a troll), but it makes 0 sense that the wife is blaming OP when she has done absolutely nothing in this scenario.

I guess we should break things down into really small pieces for you so you can digest.

OP - did nothing wrong. She posted about her daughter and the comments section blew up. (I assume she is not responsible for any of the obnoxious posts on here so she's blameless)

You still with me?

Dave - major a$$hole for cheating on his wife and for making the comment if he meant to imply that OP's daughter is fat

You good?

OP's DH - major a$$hole for making that comment on OP's Facebook page about Dave's affair (this is NOT an either/or situation where DH being an a$$hole means Dave is also not an a$$hole. It's like how two people can order the same item at a restaurant and the universe will keep spinning)

Still following along?

Dave's wife - her lashing out at OP is not ok, especially since OP had nothing to do with this, and the fact that she is potentially dealing with finding out about her husband's affair on a public forum does not excuse her behavior (do you see how someone being hurt doesn't mean they can act however they want)

Does that all make sense to you?

You have NO IDEA if Dave's wife was ALSO mad at Dave. Presumably she was. Again, see the either/or explanation above. No one is defending her harassing OP. The fact that you can't decipher the various pieces of information is astonishing.

No. DH did nothing wrong.

Only OP or her idiot husband would believe this. Which are you?

Hi cheater

You are completely deranged. I'm not friends with cheaters and I don't blow people up on Facebook posts.

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I doubt you’ve ever stood up for anyone ever, you are a coward and a cheat.

You've completely lost the plot. MY DH and I knew a guy who cheated once. We never saw or spoke to him again. Explain to me how I'm a cheater. This is going to be good!

So you told his wife?

Nope because I never met her or knew her. This was DH coworker who cheated on a business trip. But we never saw him again socially.

Do you just let her get STDs

So I’m right you don’t stand up for people.

I don't even know her. But how did DH stand up for the cheated on wife again? Explain?

He stood up for his daughter.

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No wife in that situation would speed dial YOU, of all people.

Do better Trolls.

This makes more sense as to why wife was calling OP. I literally can't think of another reason that she'd think OP is "sabotaging" her marriage just simply for existing. Thanks for finally giving a legit explanation, not sure why that was so hard for pps.

My gosh this site is full of such annoying people.

You LITERALLY can't think of another reason?

No? I can't? OP didnt put dave on blast. Op isnt sabotaging wife/daves marriage at all. She's just pissed at the wrong person.

This^^^^^^

Dave is a body shamer
Dave is the cheater

It's always the messenger that gets blasted by the wife.