What is the earliest age you would buy condoms for your son?

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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?

Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.

OMG.

Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.

The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.

DP
Wait what?!? Sex at 14/15 after a year of dating makes one a slut? Has there been a definition change that I was unaware of?

That does sound risqué of a 14 yo. I would think slut and most would even though you pretend you wouldn’t.

The word slut has meaning - it’s not just sexual behaviors you don’t approve of. It means a woman who has many sexual partners. Not someone who loses their virginity at age 15.

She said 14/15. Slut can mean the way pp used it. Presumable if one is having sex at that age, they will have many partners.

Presumably? Calling a girl who loses it at 14 a slut because you assume they will go on to have many casual partners? Delightful.
And what exactly is wrong with many casual sex partners, may I ask?

Only a slut would ask what is wrong with many casual partners.

You’re right. Married to the only man I ever had sex with. First time at 24. You got me!

I’ve got a bridge to sell you. Where can we meet?

Of course you would say that. There couldn’t POSSIBLY be someone out there with an experience that doesn’t line up with your world view.

If you think crying “liar” when someone is sharing their personal experience is an effective way to have a conversation (especially when there is zero reason for that person to lie), I’m not sure there’s much more productive conversation to be had here.

If you think that I or anyone else would take advice from someone who thinks 14 years old having sex is just fine, you need to get examined.

If you could point out exactly here I said “a 14 year old having sex is just fine”, I’d be much obliged.

Jk. You can’t. Never said it. But don’t let that stop your amazing hyperbole and ability to glean exactly what you want (and not what was said) from the information given.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?

Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.

OMG.

Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.

The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.

DP
Wait what?!? Sex at 14/15 after a year of dating makes one a slut? Has there been a definition change that I was unaware of?

Having sex at the age of 14 whether one is dating a year or not is concerning.
17 is average for first timers, 14 is simply way too young.

17 is the AVERAGE. That means many do it younger and many older. 14 may be on the younger side but it’s not scandalous.

14 is scandalous, and correlates to other issues in teens; mental health troubles, trauma, etc.

+1. Astounding someone doesn’t see that.

My husband had sex for the first time at THIRTEEN. We have a great marriage, he’s smart, an excellent dad and is a productive member of society.
No trauma here.

Great! Since this is your husband’s case, it must be true for all. Let’s promote all girls and boys to have sex at 13 because you’re husband did and this turned him to be a productive member of society.

Never said it was true for all. Just pointing out that sex at a young age doesn’t doom your child for life. Probably doesn’t doom most of them.

NP.
You definitely need you head examined. You are naive af.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?

Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.

OMG.

Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.

The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.

DP
Wait what?!? Sex at 14/15 after a year of dating makes one a slut? Has there been a definition change that I was unaware of?

That does sound risqué of a 14 yo. I would think slut and most would even though you pretend you wouldn’t.

The word slut has meaning - it’s not just sexual behaviors you don’t approve of. It means a woman who has many sexual partners. Not someone who loses their virginity at age 15.

She said 14/15. Slut can mean the way pp used it. Presumable if one is having sex at that age, they will have many partners.

Presumably? Calling a girl who loses it at 14 a slut because you assume they will go on to have many casual partners? Delightful.
And what exactly is wrong with many casual sex partners, may I ask?

Only a slut would ask what is wrong with many casual partners.

You’re right. Married to the only man I ever had sex with. First time at 24. You got me!

I’ve got a bridge to sell you. Where can we meet?

Of course you would say that. There couldn’t POSSIBLY be someone out there with an experience that doesn’t line up with your world view.

If you think crying “liar” when someone is sharing their personal experience is an effective way to have a conversation (especially when there is zero reason for that person to lie), I’m not sure there’s much more productive conversation to be had here.

If you think that I or anyone else would take advice from someone who thinks 14 years old having sex is just fine, you need to get examined.

If you could point out exactly here I said “a 14 year old having sex is just fine”, I’d be much obliged.

Jk. You can’t. Never said it. But don’t let that stop your amazing hyperbole and ability to glean exactly what you want (and not what was said) from the information given.

You failed lessons in inferential reading, didn’t you? You only understand literal meaning and not what’s implied or doesn’t need to be stated to be understood.
When someone says their fridge is running, you think it has feet and moving quickly.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?

Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.

OMG.

Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.

The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.

DP.

Are you an adult, PP? Serious question.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?

Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.

OMG.

Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.

The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.

DP
Wait what?!? Sex at 14/15 after a year of dating makes one a slut? Has there been a definition change that I was unaware of?

That does sound risqué of a 14 yo. I would think slut and most would even though you pretend you wouldn’t.

The word slut has meaning - it’s not just sexual behaviors you don’t approve of. It means a woman who has many sexual partners. Not someone who loses their virginity at age 15.

She said 14/15. Slut can mean the way pp used it. Presumable if one is having sex at that age, they will have many partners.

Presumably? Calling a girl who loses it at 14 a slut because you assume they will go on to have many casual partners? Delightful.
And what exactly is wrong with many casual sex partners, may I ask?

Only a slut would ask what is wrong with many casual partners.

You’re right. Married to the only man I ever had sex with. First time at 24. You got me!

I’ve got a bridge to sell you. Where can we meet?

Of course you would say that. There couldn’t POSSIBLY be someone out there with an experience that doesn’t line up with your world view.

If you think crying “liar” when someone is sharing their personal experience is an effective way to have a conversation (especially when there is zero reason for that person to lie), I’m not sure there’s much more productive conversation to be had here.

If you think that I or anyone else would take advice from someone who thinks 14 years old having sex is just fine, you need to get examined.

If you could point out exactly here I said “a 14 year old having sex is just fine”, I’d be much obliged.

Jk. You can’t. Never said it. But don’t let that stop your amazing hyperbole and ability to glean exactly what you want (and not what was said) from the information given.

You failed lessons in inferential reading, didn’t you? You only understand literal meaning and not what’s implied or doesn’t need to be stated to be understood.
When someone says their fridge is running, you think it has feet and moving quickly.

Your inference is incorrect. You are making things up to bolster your argument. If I thought sex at 14 was ok, I would have said it. Unless you can point out exactly what I said that led you to infer that. I’d be open to discussing that.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?

Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.

OMG.

Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.

The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.

DP
Wait what?!? Sex at 14/15 after a year of dating makes one a slut? Has there been a definition change that I was unaware of?

That does sound risqué of a 14 yo. I would think slut and most would even though you pretend you wouldn’t.

The word slut has meaning - it’s not just sexual behaviors you don’t approve of. It means a woman who has many sexual partners. Not someone who loses their virginity at age 15.

She said 14/15. Slut can mean the way pp used it. Presumable if one is having sex at that age, they will have many partners.

Presumably? Calling a girl who loses it at 14 a slut because you assume they will go on to have many casual partners? Delightful.
And what exactly is wrong with many casual sex partners, may I ask?

Only a slut would ask what is wrong with many casual partners.

You’re right. Married to the only man I ever had sex with. First time at 24. You got me!

I’ve got a bridge to sell you. Where can we meet?

Of course you would say that. There couldn’t POSSIBLY be someone out there with an experience that doesn’t line up with your world view.

If you think crying “liar” when someone is sharing their personal experience is an effective way to have a conversation (especially when there is zero reason for that person to lie), I’m not sure there’s much more productive conversation to be had here.

If you think that I or anyone else would take advice from someone who thinks 14 years old having sex is just fine, you need to get examined.

If you could point out exactly here I said “a 14 year old having sex is just fine”, I’d be much obliged.

Jk. You can’t. Never said it. But don’t let that stop your amazing hyperbole and ability to glean exactly what you want (and not what was said) from the information given.

You failed lessons in inferential reading, didn’t you? You only understand literal meaning and not what’s implied or doesn’t need to be stated to be understood.
When someone says their fridge is running, you think it has feet and moving quickly.

Your inference is incorrect. You are making things up to bolster your argument. If I thought sex at 14 was ok, I would have said it. Unless you can point out exactly what I said that led you to infer that. I’d be open to discussing that.

NP. I read up the thread and agree that your comments imply that you have no issue with 14 years old having sex and you condoned promiscuous behavior.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?

Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.

OMG.

Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.

The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.

DP
Wait what?!? Sex at 14/15 after a year of dating makes one a slut? Has there been a definition change that I was unaware of?

That does sound risqué of a 14 yo. I would think slut and most would even though you pretend you wouldn’t.

The word slut has meaning - it’s not just sexual behaviors you don’t approve of. It means a woman who has many sexual partners. Not someone who loses their virginity at age 15.

She said 14/15. Slut can mean the way pp used it. Presumable if one is having sex at that age, they will have many partners.

Presumably? Calling a girl who loses it at 14 a slut because you assume they will go on to have many casual partners? Delightful.
And what exactly is wrong with many casual sex partners, may I ask?

Only a slut would ask what is wrong with many casual partners.

You’re right. Married to the only man I ever had sex with. First time at 24. You got me!

I’ve got a bridge to sell you. Where can we meet?

Of course you would say that. There couldn’t POSSIBLY be someone out there with an experience that doesn’t line up with your world view.

If you think crying “liar” when someone is sharing their personal experience is an effective way to have a conversation (especially when there is zero reason for that person to lie), I’m not sure there’s much more productive conversation to be had here.

If you think that I or anyone else would take advice from someone who thinks 14 years old having sex is just fine, you need to get examined.

If you could point out exactly here I said “a 14 year old having sex is just fine”, I’d be much obliged.

Jk. You can’t. Never said it. But don’t let that stop your amazing hyperbole and ability to glean exactly what you want (and not what was said) from the information given.

You failed lessons in inferential reading, didn’t you? You only understand literal meaning and not what’s implied or doesn’t need to be stated to be understood.
When someone says their fridge is running, you think it has feet and moving quickly.

Your inference is incorrect. You are making things up to bolster your argument. If I thought sex at 14 was ok, I would have said it. Unless you can point out exactly what I said that led you to infer that. I’d be open to discussing that.

I didn’t inference anything, you did and you know I’m not incorrect. You just don’t like being called out for your inappropriate beliefs.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?

Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.

OMG.

Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.

The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.

DP
Wait what?!? Sex at 14/15 after a year of dating makes one a slut? Has there been a definition change that I was unaware of?

Having sex at the age of 14 whether one is dating a year or not is concerning.
17 is average for first timers, 14 is simply way too young.

17 is the AVERAGE. That means many do it younger and many older. 14 may be on the younger side but it’s not scandalous.

14 is scandalous, and correlates to other issues in teens; mental health troubles, trauma, etc.

+1. Astounding someone doesn’t see that.

My husband had sex for the first time at THIRTEEN. We have a great marriage, he’s smart, an excellent dad and is a productive member of society.
No trauma here.

That you and your husband have persuaded yourselves that sex at 13 is ok does not make it so. The data and research unequivocally show sex at that age to be correlated with all kinds of bad outcomes. That you insist otherwise has more to do with your need to self-preserve than actual reality.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?

Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.

OMG.

Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.

The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.

DP
Wait what?!? Sex at 14/15 after a year of dating makes one a slut? Has there been a definition change that I was unaware of?

Having sex at the age of 14 whether one is dating a year or not is concerning.
17 is average for first timers, 14 is simply way too young.

17 is the AVERAGE. That means many do it younger and many older. 14 may be on the younger side but it’s not scandalous.

14 is scandalous, and correlates to other issues in teens; mental health troubles, trauma, etc.

+1. Astounding someone doesn’t see that.

My husband had sex for the first time at THIRTEEN. We have a great marriage, he’s smart, an excellent dad and is a productive member of society.
No trauma here.

Great! Since this is your husband’s case, it must be true for all. Let’s promote all girls and boys to have sex at 13 because you’re husband did and this turned him to be a productive member of society.

Never said it was true for all. Just pointing out that sex at a young age doesn’t doom your child for life. Probably doesn’t doom most of them.

This statement is not based on actual data and research. Please don't just make things up to make you and your husband feel better about his situation.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?

Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.

OMG.

Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.

The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.

DP
Wait what?!? Sex at 14/15 after a year of dating makes one a slut? Has there been a definition change that I was unaware of?

That does sound risqué of a 14 yo. I would think slut and most would even though you pretend you wouldn’t.

The word slut has meaning - it’s not just sexual behaviors you don’t approve of. It means a woman who has many sexual partners. Not someone who loses their virginity at age 15.

She said 14/15. Slut can mean the way pp used it. Presumable if one is having sex at that age, they will have many partners.

Presumably? Calling a girl who loses it at 14 a slut because you assume they will go on to have many casual partners? Delightful.
And what exactly is wrong with many casual sex partners, may I ask?

Only a slut would ask what is wrong with many casual partners.

You’re right. Married to the only man I ever had sex with. First time at 24. You got me!

I’ve got a bridge to sell you. Where can we meet?

Of course you would say that. There couldn’t POSSIBLY be someone out there with an experience that doesn’t line up with your world view.

If you think crying “liar” when someone is sharing their personal experience is an effective way to have a conversation (especially when there is zero reason for that person to lie), I’m not sure there’s much more productive conversation to be had here.

If you think that I or anyone else would take advice from someone who thinks 14 years old having sex is just fine, you need to get examined.

If you could point out exactly here I said “a 14 year old having sex is just fine”, I’d be much obliged.

Jk. You can’t. Never said it. But don’t let that stop your amazing hyperbole and ability to glean exactly what you want (and not what was said) from the information given.

You failed lessons in inferential reading, didn’t you? You only understand literal meaning and not what’s implied or doesn’t need to be stated to be understood.
When someone says their fridge is running, you think it has feet and moving quickly.

Your inference is incorrect. You are making things up to bolster your argument. If I thought sex at 14 was ok, I would have said it. Unless you can point out exactly what I said that led you to infer that. I’d be open to discussing that.

NP. I read up the thread and agree that your comments imply that you have no issue with 14 years old having sex and you condoned promiscuous behavior.

Can you be specific? What part of which comment?

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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?

Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.

OMG.

Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.

The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.

DP
Wait what?!? Sex at 14/15 after a year of dating makes one a slut? Has there been a definition change that I was unaware of?

That does sound risqué of a 14 yo. I would think slut and most would even though you pretend you wouldn’t.

The word slut has meaning - it’s not just sexual behaviors you don’t approve of. It means a woman who has many sexual partners. Not someone who loses their virginity at age 15.

She said 14/15. Slut can mean the way pp used it. Presumable if one is having sex at that age, they will have many partners.

Presumably? Calling a girl who loses it at 14 a slut because you assume they will go on to have many casual partners? Delightful.
And what exactly is wrong with many casual sex partners, may I ask?

Only a slut would ask what is wrong with many casual partners.

You’re right. Married to the only man I ever had sex with. First time at 24. You got me!

I’ve got a bridge to sell you. Where can we meet?

Of course you would say that. There couldn’t POSSIBLY be someone out there with an experience that doesn’t line up with your world view.

If you think crying “liar” when someone is sharing their personal experience is an effective way to have a conversation (especially when there is zero reason for that person to lie), I’m not sure there’s much more productive conversation to be had here.

If you think that I or anyone else would take advice from someone who thinks 14 years old having sex is just fine, you need to get examined.

If you could point out exactly here I said “a 14 year old having sex is just fine”, I’d be much obliged.

Jk. You can’t. Never said it. But don’t let that stop your amazing hyperbole and ability to glean exactly what you want (and not what was said) from the information given.

You failed lessons in inferential reading, didn’t you? You only understand literal meaning and not what’s implied or doesn’t need to be stated to be understood.
When someone says their fridge is running, you think it has feet and moving quickly.

Your inference is incorrect. You are making things up to bolster your argument. If I thought sex at 14 was ok, I would have said it. Unless you can point out exactly what I said that led you to infer that. I’d be open to discussing that.

I didn’t inference anything, you did and you know I’m not incorrect. You just don’t like being called out for your inappropriate beliefs.

You just said you used inferential reading, did you not?

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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?

Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.

OMG.

Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.

The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.

DP
Wait what?!? Sex at 14/15 after a year of dating makes one a slut? Has there been a definition change that I was unaware of?

That does sound risqué of a 14 yo. I would think slut and most would even though you pretend you wouldn’t.

The word slut has meaning - it’s not just sexual behaviors you don’t approve of. It means a woman who has many sexual partners. Not someone who loses their virginity at age 15.

She said 14/15. Slut can mean the way pp used it. Presumable if one is having sex at that age, they will have many partners.

Presumably? Calling a girl who loses it at 14 a slut because you assume they will go on to have many casual partners? Delightful.
And what exactly is wrong with many casual sex partners, may I ask?

Only a slut would ask what is wrong with many casual partners.

You’re right. Married to the only man I ever had sex with. First time at 24. You got me!

I’ve got a bridge to sell you. Where can we meet?

Of course you would say that. There couldn’t POSSIBLY be someone out there with an experience that doesn’t line up with your world view.

If you think crying “liar” when someone is sharing their personal experience is an effective way to have a conversation (especially when there is zero reason for that person to lie), I’m not sure there’s much more productive conversation to be had here.

If you think that I or anyone else would take advice from someone who thinks 14 years old having sex is just fine, you need to get examined.

If you could point out exactly here I said “a 14 year old having sex is just fine”, I’d be much obliged.

Jk. You can’t. Never said it. But don’t let that stop your amazing hyperbole and ability to glean exactly what you want (and not what was said) from the information given.

You failed lessons in inferential reading, didn’t you? You only understand literal meaning and not what’s implied or doesn’t need to be stated to be understood.
When someone says their fridge is running, you think it has feet and moving quickly.

Your inference is incorrect. You are making things up to bolster your argument. If I thought sex at 14 was ok, I would have said it. Unless you can point out exactly what I said that led you to infer that. I’d be open to discussing that.

I didn’t inference anything, you did and you know I’m not incorrect. You just don’t like being called out for your inappropriate beliefs.

The reader infers, not the writer.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?

Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.

OMG.

Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.

The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.

DP
Wait what?!? Sex at 14/15 after a year of dating makes one a slut? Has there been a definition change that I was unaware of?

That does sound risqué of a 14 yo. I would think slut and most would even though you pretend you wouldn’t.

The word slut has meaning - it’s not just sexual behaviors you don’t approve of. It means a woman who has many sexual partners. Not someone who loses their virginity at age 15.

She said 14/15. Slut can mean the way pp used it. Presumable if one is having sex at that age, they will have many partners.

Presumably? Calling a girl who loses it at 14 a slut because you assume they will go on to have many casual partners? Delightful.
And what exactly is wrong with many casual sex partners, may I ask?

Only a slut would ask what is wrong with many casual partners.

You’re right. Married to the only man I ever had sex with. First time at 24. You got me!

I’ve got a bridge to sell you. Where can we meet?

Of course you would say that. There couldn’t POSSIBLY be someone out there with an experience that doesn’t line up with your world view.

If you think crying “liar” when someone is sharing their personal experience is an effective way to have a conversation (especially when there is zero reason for that person to lie), I’m not sure there’s much more productive conversation to be had here.

If you think that I or anyone else would take advice from someone who thinks 14 years old having sex is just fine, you need to get examined.

If you could point out exactly here I said “a 14 year old having sex is just fine”, I’d be much obliged.

Jk. You can’t. Never said it. But don’t let that stop your amazing hyperbole and ability to glean exactly what you want (and not what was said) from the information given.

You failed lessons in inferential reading, didn’t you? You only understand literal meaning and not what’s implied or doesn’t need to be stated to be understood.
When someone says their fridge is running, you think it has feet and moving quickly.

Your inference is incorrect. You are making things up to bolster your argument. If I thought sex at 14 was ok, I would have said it. Unless you can point out exactly what I said that led you to infer that. I’d be open to discussing that.

I didn’t inference anything, you did and you know I’m not incorrect. You just don’t like being called out for your inappropriate beliefs.

I have 15 & 17 yo virgins. I’m just not going to be judgy McJudgypants when other teens have sex earlier, especially when there’s literally nothing a parent can do to stop them. If that’s an inappropriate belief then so be it.

[Anonymous]

In other countries, teenagers are not permitted to behave in this manner.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In other countries, teenagers are not permitted to behave in this manner.

And in other countries, they are.