14 is scandalous, and correlates to other issues in teens; mental health troubles, trauma, etc. |
Do you have a label for the boy? |
F boy, player. Whatever you’ve heard. |
+1. Astounding someone doesn’t see that. |
You’re right. Married to the only man I ever had sex with. First time at 24. You got me! |
My husband had sex for the first time at THIRTEEN. We have a great marriage, he’s smart, an excellent dad and is a productive member of society. No trauma here. |
They don't have the same weight as slut. |
I’ve got a bridge to sell you. Where can we meet? |
Then you come up with something if it doesn’t satisfy you. |
Of course you would say that. There couldn’t POSSIBLY be someone out there with an experience that doesn’t line up with your world view. If you think crying “liar” when someone is sharing their personal experience is an effective way to have a conversation (especially when there is zero reason for that person to lie), I’m not sure there’s much more productive conversation to be had here. |
Great! Since this is your husband’s case, it must be true for all. Let’s promote all girls and boys to have sex at 13 because you’re husband did and this turned him to be a productive member of society. |
Oh please. No one calls promiscuous boys anything. No one is on this site talking about how they dress or how much they flirt or how many girls they have sex with. Enough with this deliberately obtuse bs. |
If you think that I or anyone else would take advice from someone who thinks 14 years old having sex is just fine, you need to get examined. |
Never said it was true for all. Just pointing out that sex at a young age doesn’t doom your child for life. Probably doesn’t doom most of them. |
Go be mad at the world for that. I didn’t make it that way. However, you are pushing that thought while trying to pretend you aren’t. |