What is the earliest age you would buy condoms for your son?

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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?

Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.


OMG.


Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.


The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.


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Wait what?!? Sex at 14/15 after a year of dating makes one a slut? Has there been a definition change that I was unaware of?


Having sex at the age of 14 whether one is dating a year or not is concerning.
17 is average for first timers, 14 is simply way too young.


17 is the AVERAGE. That means many do it younger and many older. 14 may be on the younger side but it’s not scandalous.


14 is scandalous, and correlates to other issues in teens; mental health troubles, trauma, etc.
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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?

Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.


OMG.


Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.


The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.


DP
Wait what?!? Sex at 14/15 after a year of dating makes one a slut? Has there been a definition change that I was unaware of?

That does sound risqué of a 14 yo. I would think slut and most would even though you pretend you wouldn’t.


The word slut has meaning - it’s not just sexual behaviors you don’t approve of. It means a woman who has many sexual partners. Not someone who loses their virginity at age 15.


As you said, it’s not just sexual behaviors one doesn’t approve of but it also includes that.


I haven’t found a definition that includes that.


It’s slut.


Do you have a label for the boy?
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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?

Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.


OMG.


Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.


The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.


DP
Wait what?!? Sex at 14/15 after a year of dating makes one a slut? Has there been a definition change that I was unaware of?

That does sound risqué of a 14 yo. I would think slut and most would even though you pretend you wouldn’t.


The word slut has meaning - it’s not just sexual behaviors you don’t approve of. It means a woman who has many sexual partners. Not someone who loses their virginity at age 15.


As you said, it’s not just sexual behaviors one doesn’t approve of but it also includes that.


I haven’t found a definition that includes that.


It’s slut.


Do you have a label for the boy?

F boy, player. Whatever you’ve heard.
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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?

Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.


OMG.


Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.


The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.


DP
Wait what?!? Sex at 14/15 after a year of dating makes one a slut? Has there been a definition change that I was unaware of?


Having sex at the age of 14 whether one is dating a year or not is concerning.
17 is average for first timers, 14 is simply way too young.


17 is the AVERAGE. That means many do it younger and many older. 14 may be on the younger side but it’s not scandalous.


14 is scandalous, and correlates to other issues in teens; mental health troubles, trauma, etc.

+1. Astounding someone doesn’t see that.
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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?

Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.


OMG.


Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.


The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.


DP
Wait what?!? Sex at 14/15 after a year of dating makes one a slut? Has there been a definition change that I was unaware of?

That does sound risqué of a 14 yo. I would think slut and most would even though you pretend you wouldn’t.


The word slut has meaning - it’s not just sexual behaviors you don’t approve of. It means a woman who has many sexual partners. Not someone who loses their virginity at age 15.


She said 14/15. Slut can mean the way pp used it. Presumable if one is having sex at that age, they will have many partners.


Presumably? Calling a girl who loses it at 14 a slut because you assume they will go on to have many casual partners? Delightful.
And what exactly is wrong with many casual sex partners, may I ask?

Only a slut would ask what is wrong with many casual partners.


You’re right. Married to the only man I ever had sex with. First time at 24. You got me!
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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?

Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.


OMG.


Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.


The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.


DP
Wait what?!? Sex at 14/15 after a year of dating makes one a slut? Has there been a definition change that I was unaware of?


Having sex at the age of 14 whether one is dating a year or not is concerning.
17 is average for first timers, 14 is simply way too young.


17 is the AVERAGE. That means many do it younger and many older. 14 may be on the younger side but it’s not scandalous.


14 is scandalous, and correlates to other issues in teens; mental health troubles, trauma, etc.

+1. Astounding someone doesn’t see that.


My husband had sex for the first time at THIRTEEN. We have a great marriage, he’s smart, an excellent dad and is a productive member of society.
No trauma here.
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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?

Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.


OMG.


Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.


The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.


DP
Wait what?!? Sex at 14/15 after a year of dating makes one a slut? Has there been a definition change that I was unaware of?

That does sound risqué of a 14 yo. I would think slut and most would even though you pretend you wouldn’t.


The word slut has meaning - it’s not just sexual behaviors you don’t approve of. It means a woman who has many sexual partners. Not someone who loses their virginity at age 15.


As you said, it’s not just sexual behaviors one doesn’t approve of but it also includes that.


I haven’t found a definition that includes that.


It’s slut.


Do you have a label for the boy?

F boy, player. Whatever you’ve heard.


They don't have the same weight as slut.
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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?

Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.


OMG.


Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.


The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.


DP
Wait what?!? Sex at 14/15 after a year of dating makes one a slut? Has there been a definition change that I was unaware of?

That does sound risqué of a 14 yo. I would think slut and most would even though you pretend you wouldn’t.


The word slut has meaning - it’s not just sexual behaviors you don’t approve of. It means a woman who has many sexual partners. Not someone who loses their virginity at age 15.


She said 14/15. Slut can mean the way pp used it. Presumable if one is having sex at that age, they will have many partners.


Presumably? Calling a girl who loses it at 14 a slut because you assume they will go on to have many casual partners? Delightful.
And what exactly is wrong with many casual sex partners, may I ask?

Only a slut would ask what is wrong with many casual partners.


You’re right. Married to the only man I ever had sex with. First time at 24. You got me!


I’ve got a bridge to sell you. Where can we meet?
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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?

Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.


OMG.


Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.


The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.


DP
Wait what?!? Sex at 14/15 after a year of dating makes one a slut? Has there been a definition change that I was unaware of?

That does sound risqué of a 14 yo. I would think slut and most would even though you pretend you wouldn’t.


The word slut has meaning - it’s not just sexual behaviors you don’t approve of. It means a woman who has many sexual partners. Not someone who loses their virginity at age 15.


As you said, it’s not just sexual behaviors one doesn’t approve of but it also includes that.


I haven’t found a definition that includes that.


It’s slut.


Do you have a label for the boy?

F boy, player. Whatever you’ve heard.


They don't have the same weight as slut.


Then you come up with something if it doesn’t satisfy you.
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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?

Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.


OMG.


Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.


The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.


DP
Wait what?!? Sex at 14/15 after a year of dating makes one a slut? Has there been a definition change that I was unaware of?

That does sound risqué of a 14 yo. I would think slut and most would even though you pretend you wouldn’t.


The word slut has meaning - it’s not just sexual behaviors you don’t approve of. It means a woman who has many sexual partners. Not someone who loses their virginity at age 15.


She said 14/15. Slut can mean the way pp used it. Presumable if one is having sex at that age, they will have many partners.


Presumably? Calling a girl who loses it at 14 a slut because you assume they will go on to have many casual partners? Delightful.
And what exactly is wrong with many casual sex partners, may I ask?

Only a slut would ask what is wrong with many casual partners.


You’re right. Married to the only man I ever had sex with. First time at 24. You got me!


I’ve got a bridge to sell you. Where can we meet?


Of course you would say that. There couldn’t POSSIBLY be someone out there with an experience that doesn’t line up with your world view.

If you think crying “liar” when someone is sharing their personal experience is an effective way to have a conversation (especially when there is zero reason for that person to lie), I’m not sure there’s much more productive conversation to be had here.
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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?

Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.


OMG.


Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.


The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.


DP
Wait what?!? Sex at 14/15 after a year of dating makes one a slut? Has there been a definition change that I was unaware of?


Having sex at the age of 14 whether one is dating a year or not is concerning.
17 is average for first timers, 14 is simply way too young.


17 is the AVERAGE. That means many do it younger and many older. 14 may be on the younger side but it’s not scandalous.


14 is scandalous, and correlates to other issues in teens; mental health troubles, trauma, etc.

+1. Astounding someone doesn’t see that.


My husband had sex for the first time at THIRTEEN. We have a great marriage, he’s smart, an excellent dad and is a productive member of society.
No trauma here.


Great! Since this is your husband’s case, it must be true for all. Let’s promote all girls and boys to have sex at 13 because you’re husband did and this turned him to be a productive member of society.
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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?

Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.


OMG.


Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.


The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.


DP
Wait what?!? Sex at 14/15 after a year of dating makes one a slut? Has there been a definition change that I was unaware of?

That does sound risqué of a 14 yo. I would think slut and most would even though you pretend you wouldn’t.


The word slut has meaning - it’s not just sexual behaviors you don’t approve of. It means a woman who has many sexual partners. Not someone who loses their virginity at age 15.


As you said, it’s not just sexual behaviors one doesn’t approve of but it also includes that.


I haven’t found a definition that includes that.


It’s slut.


Do you have a label for the boy?

F boy, player. Whatever you’ve heard.


They don't have the same weight as slut.


Then you come up with something if it doesn’t satisfy you.


Oh please. No one calls promiscuous boys anything. No one is on this site talking about how they dress or how much they flirt or how many girls they have sex with. Enough with this deliberately obtuse bs.
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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?

Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.


OMG.


Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.


The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.


DP
Wait what?!? Sex at 14/15 after a year of dating makes one a slut? Has there been a definition change that I was unaware of?

That does sound risqué of a 14 yo. I would think slut and most would even though you pretend you wouldn’t.


The word slut has meaning - it’s not just sexual behaviors you don’t approve of. It means a woman who has many sexual partners. Not someone who loses their virginity at age 15.


She said 14/15. Slut can mean the way pp used it. Presumable if one is having sex at that age, they will have many partners.


Presumably? Calling a girl who loses it at 14 a slut because you assume they will go on to have many casual partners? Delightful.
And what exactly is wrong with many casual sex partners, may I ask?

Only a slut would ask what is wrong with many casual partners.


You’re right. Married to the only man I ever had sex with. First time at 24. You got me!


I’ve got a bridge to sell you. Where can we meet?


Of course you would say that. There couldn’t POSSIBLY be someone out there with an experience that doesn’t line up with your world view.

If you think crying “liar” when someone is sharing their personal experience is an effective way to have a conversation (especially when there is zero reason for that person to lie), I’m not sure there’s much more productive conversation to be had here.


If you think that I or anyone else would take advice from someone who thinks 14 years old having sex is just fine, you need to get examined.
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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?

Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.


OMG.


Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.


The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.


DP
Wait what?!? Sex at 14/15 after a year of dating makes one a slut? Has there been a definition change that I was unaware of?


Having sex at the age of 14 whether one is dating a year or not is concerning.
17 is average for first timers, 14 is simply way too young.


17 is the AVERAGE. That means many do it younger and many older. 14 may be on the younger side but it’s not scandalous.


14 is scandalous, and correlates to other issues in teens; mental health troubles, trauma, etc.

+1. Astounding someone doesn’t see that.


My husband had sex for the first time at THIRTEEN. We have a great marriage, he’s smart, an excellent dad and is a productive member of society.
No trauma here.


Great! Since this is your husband’s case, it must be true for all. Let’s promote all girls and boys to have sex at 13 because you’re husband did and this turned him to be a productive member of society.


Never said it was true for all. Just pointing out that sex at a young age doesn’t doom your child for life. Probably doesn’t doom most of them.
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Anonymous wrote:OP here, answering the question: Is there some reason your kid can’t walk into CVS and buy his own?

Yes. He's 14. GF is 15.


OMG.


Stop clutching your pearls. I was having sex at 14/15 (after a year of dating) and I found a way to buy condoms or my BF did.


The “pearl clutching” catchphrase is so lame
You were also a slut.


DP
Wait what?!? Sex at 14/15 after a year of dating makes one a slut? Has there been a definition change that I was unaware of?

That does sound risqué of a 14 yo. I would think slut and most would even though you pretend you wouldn’t.


The word slut has meaning - it’s not just sexual behaviors you don’t approve of. It means a woman who has many sexual partners. Not someone who loses their virginity at age 15.


As you said, it’s not just sexual behaviors one doesn’t approve of but it also includes that.


I haven’t found a definition that includes that.


It’s slut.


Do you have a label for the boy?

F boy, player. Whatever you’ve heard.


They don't have the same weight as slut.


Then you come up with something if it doesn’t satisfy you.


Oh please. No one calls promiscuous boys anything. No one is on this site talking about how they dress or how much they flirt or how many girls they have sex with. Enough with this deliberately obtuse bs.


Go be mad at the world for that. I didn’t make it that way.
However, you are pushing that thought while trying to pretend you aren’t.
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