Is "sugar" a thing in DMV upper class?

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Anonymous wrote:Us hot women in the DMV makes lots of money, we don't have to stoop to doing this BS.

Yes. I’m the guy who keeps posting my seeking experience. This is true. The hotter women in DMV are usually highly educated and have solid careers. From UMC families. Compare 25-35 yr olds on hinge and seeking and it’s obvious hinge pool is much more high value (hotter and better education/career etc) but like I posted earlier if you are patient, persistent and learn to use seeking for what it has to offer there are diamonds to be found. Sometimes rough diamond that just needs a little polish.

The hot women in places like NYC and LA end up pursuing careers like arts, theater, modeling and etc which don’t provide a stable income for 90% of them. So much more hot girls from LA and NYC on seeking available for the average sugar daddy. I don’t go to NYC much but when I’m in LA every evening can be a new hot (8+) young charming fun and interesting date (lot of actresses happy to act out your fantasies for you)

I’m a former sugar baby and agree. Sure there are some messed up women without a degree but many actually do have a degree. This is like saying attractive people can’t be intelligent.

Please define having a degree. I doubt that women who graduate from top20 schools are doing this.

Is Duke a top-20 school?

Liberal arts ?

Computer engineering.

But the question is was it just fun for you ? If not the money would would you let these men into your bedroom ?

Yes, it was fun for me but I'm the man. She was the Duke grad. She had a good time too.

I’m sure you believe this, but she doesn’t

[Anonymous]

Ignorance is bliss!

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Anonymous wrote:Us hot women in the DMV makes lots of money, we don't have to stoop to doing this BS.

Yes. I’m the guy who keeps posting my seeking experience. This is true. The hotter women in DMV are usually highly educated and have solid careers. From UMC families. Compare 25-35 yr olds on hinge and seeking and it’s obvious hinge pool is much more high value (hotter and better education/career etc) but like I posted earlier if you are patient, persistent and learn to use seeking for what it has to offer there are diamonds to be found. Sometimes rough diamond that just needs a little polish.

The hot women in places like NYC and LA end up pursuing careers like arts, theater, modeling and etc which don’t provide a stable income for 90% of them. So much more hot girls from LA and NYC on seeking available for the average sugar daddy. I don’t go to NYC much but when I’m in LA every evening can be a new hot (8+) young charming fun and interesting date (lot of actresses happy to act out your fantasies for you)

I’m a former sugar baby and agree. Sure there are some messed up women without a degree but many actually do have a degree. This is like saying attractive people can’t be intelligent.

Please define having a degree. I doubt that women who graduate from top20 schools are doing this.

Is Duke a top-20 school?

Liberal arts ?

Computer engineering.

But the question is was it just fun for you ? If not the money would would you let these men into your bedroom ?

Yes, it was fun for me but I'm the man. She was the Duke grad. She had a good time too.

I’m sure you believe this, but she doesn’t

[Anonymous]

A lot of men use SA to try stuff their wife won’t allow, like putting the schlong in the chocolate starfish, certain types of role play, and start to finish BJ’s. Me and all of my friends use it. I’ve met a few dozen off there over the years.

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Anonymous wrote:A lot of men use SA to try stuff their wife won’t allow, like putting the schlong in the chocolate starfish, certain types of role play, and start to finish BJ’s. Me and all of my friends use it. I’ve met a few dozen off there over the years.

do girls ask you for STI panel for these acts ? Just curious as it’s easy to get hepatitis

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A lot of men use SA to try stuff their wife won’t allow, like putting the schlong in the chocolate starfish, certain types of role play, and start to finish BJ’s. Me and all of my friends use it. I’ve met a few dozen off there over the years.

This is my experience too. I’ve posted on this thread a few times. without exception the girls of seeking are much more sexually adventurous and open minded than women I dated in my generation 20yrs ago.

I don’t think it’s necessarily seeking or sugar specific. I think that porn has normalized sexual acts that would have been a bit too edgy or somewhat on the extreme kink side for older generations. People and especially the younger generation are just much more sex positive these days.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:A lot of men use SA to try stuff their wife won’t allow, like putting the schlong in the chocolate starfish, certain types of role play, and start to finish BJ’s. Me and all of my friends use it. I’ve met a few dozen off there over the years.

do girls ask you for STI panel for these acts ? Just curious as it’s easy to get hepatitis

I always show and ask for STI panels. I make sure girls don’t have hsv either as hsv isn’t normally tested for on a routine sti test. Sometimes if I like the girl enough I’ll give her an extra $100 upfront to get it done before we start our arrangement. I also feel like girls and boys of seeking might be a bit more particular about clean tests because there is the assumption that both parties are non exclusive. In the vanilla world it’s so easy for both parties to be caught up in the “feelings” and just go for it and maybe talk about sti status later.

In my 2+yrs on seeking and scores of girls I’ve slept with (90% times no condoms because I insist on testing) I have not had any sti.

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Anonymous wrote:A lot of men use SA to try stuff their wife won’t allow, like putting the schlong in the chocolate starfish, certain types of role play, and start to finish BJ’s. Me and all of my friends use it. I’ve met a few dozen off there over the years.

do girls ask you for STI panel for these acts ? Just curious as it’s easy to get hepatitis

I always show and ask for STI panels. I make sure girls don’t have hsv either as hsv isn’t normally tested for on a routine sti test. Sometimes if I like the girl enough I’ll give her an extra $100 upfront to get it done before we start our arrangement. I also feel like girls and boys of seeking might be a bit more particular about clean tests because there is the assumption that both parties are non exclusive. In the vanilla world it’s so easy for both parties to be caught up in the “feelings” and just go for it and maybe talk about sti status later.

In my 2+yrs on seeking and scores of girls I’ve slept with (90% times no condoms because I insist on testing) I have not had any sti.

But she could have slept with someone a few days before and after the test. No consume is extremely risky. I’m a regular woman who dates exclusively and tests partners. Men gave me ureaplasma for example that’s not on the standard panel
I saw guys on FL displaying their instruments with clear papillomas on the skin . Looking for threesome partners.

You make it sound like an ideal man’s world but it’s actually super disgusting

[Anonymous]

If a woman is at the stage of her life where she's going to be having casual sex and is more interested in fun experience than an actual relationship, why not do the sugar thing? I know girls in college who did it—not exclusively or for a career, but they were juniors or seniors, over the college boys and if some 45yo wants to take them to a fancy dinner or on his boat or to the mall and all he expects in return is for her to sleep with him, why not?

Without being crude or obnoxious, she was probably going to have sex with someone who didn't mean a lot to her that weekend, why not have sex with someone who doesn't mean a lot, but also paid her car payment?

None of them were prostitutes, none of them were being taken advantage of, all of them have settled into normal loving relationships—as do most women who go through "fun" eras in their love life in late college.

Who cares?

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Anonymous wrote:If a woman is at the stage of her life where she's going to be having casual sex and is more interested in fun experience than an actual relationship, why not do the sugar thing? I know girls in college who did it—not exclusively or for a career, but they were juniors or seniors, over the college boys and if some 45yo wants to take them to a fancy dinner or on his boat or to the mall and all he expects in return is for her to sleep with him, why not?

Without being crude or obnoxious, she was probably going to have sex with someone who didn't mean a lot to her that weekend, why not have sex with someone who doesn't mean a lot, but also paid her car payment?

None of them were prostitutes, none of them were being taken advantage of, all of them have settled into normal loving relationships—as do most women who go through "fun" eras in their love life in late college.

Who cares?

Yay finally a reasonable dcum momma. I think you are a female lol. I’m the guy who keeps posting my experiences whenever this thread pops back up on the front page.

I met my Turkish Russian minx yesterday. We had sex only for 4hours straight which is a quickie by our standards. This woman is completely classy, educated, at home talking to frumpy mamas of baby toddlers as she is walking in and out of the luxury shops in the Tyson’s galleria. Works an almost 6 figure job at a top 3 national bank. No one could hold up a finger at her and say she is a ho or sugar baby or any bs being talked about here. A whole lot of these girls are just super normal people.

This weekend I’m meeting for the 2nd time a 28yr old IT professional who has a bachelors in engineering and been with a large tech company for 5yrs. I wouldn’t be surprised if she is pulling in 150k+ based on her LinkedIn. She is gorgeous and amazing kisser and the sex is outstanding (tho she can’t go as longggg as my banker girl). Again no one would be able to point a finger at her and call her a prostitute or ho.

Like you said none of these girls are being taken advantage and they are probably just as likely to end up having normal/happy/loving lives and relationships after their fun seeking era as any other mommas here on dcum. Plus a nice cash savings account (untaxed) to boot 😇

[Anonymous]

Why the discomfort with calling it prostitution? It's money for sex. You can be a banker AND a prostitute. If you're paying someone who would not otherwise have sex with you to have sex with you, that is what's happening. Why not own it?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If a woman is at the stage of her life where she's going to be having casual sex and is more interested in fun experience than an actual relationship, why not do the sugar thing? I know girls in college who did it—not exclusively or for a career, but they were juniors or seniors, over the college boys and if some 45yo wants to take them to a fancy dinner or on his boat or to the mall and all he expects in return is for her to sleep with him, why not?

Without being crude or obnoxious, she was probably going to have sex with someone who didn't mean a lot to her that weekend, why not have sex with someone who doesn't mean a lot, but also paid her car payment?

None of them were prostitutes, none of them were being taken advantage of, all of them have settled into normal loving relationships—as do most women who go through "fun" eras in their love life in late college.

Who cares?

Yay finally a reasonable dcum momma. I think you are a female lol. I’m the guy who keeps posting my experiences whenever this thread pops back up on the front page.

I met my Turkish Russian minx yesterday. We had sex only for 4hours straight which is a quickie by our standards. This woman is completely classy, educated, at home talking to frumpy mamas of baby toddlers as she is walking in and out of the luxury shops in the Tyson’s galleria. Works an almost 6 figure job at a top 3 national bank. No one could hold up a finger at her and say she is a ho or sugar baby or any bs being talked about here. A whole lot of these girls are just super normal people.

This weekend I’m meeting for the 2nd time a 28yr old IT professional who has a bachelors in engineering and been with a large tech company for 5yrs. I wouldn’t be surprised if she is pulling in 150k+ based on her LinkedIn. She is gorgeous and amazing kisser and the sex is outstanding (tho she can’t go as longggg as my banker girl). Again no one would be able to point a finger at her and call her a prostitute or ho.

Like you said none of these girls are being taken advantage and they are probably just as likely to end up having normal/happy/loving lives and relationships after their fun seeking era as any other mommas here on dcum. Plus a nice cash savings account (untaxed) to boot 😇

Well, you do have a weird vibe... I'm saying none of MY friends were taken advantage of or prostituting. There are definitely people out there being taken advantage of and prostituting. I can imagine it could be the first step in a pretty ugly decline through the world of sex work.

The only point that I'm making is we don't begrudge a 21yo HS junior who spends a couple months having fun and hooking up (as long as her grades don't suffer) or a 24yo professional woman who is not tied down and isn't trying to marry someone. What's the difference between hooking up with a guy you meet at a bar in Georgetown and going on a date with a Sugar Daddy—both are not particularly meaningful sexual relationships, there's about an even chance that either one could be a ton of fun or terrible, but one will take you for a tasting menu at a top restaurant, tell you to keep the $1200 high heels, etc. and the other will just be meaningless sex.

We don't judge the date with the guy you met at the bar, why judge the other?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why the discomfort with calling it prostitution? It's money for sex. You can be a banker AND a prostitute. If you're paying someone who would not otherwise have sex with you to have sex with you, that is what's happening. Why not own it?

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If a woman is at the stage of her life where she's going to be having casual sex and is more interested in fun experience than an actual relationship, why not do the sugar thing? I know girls in college who did it—not exclusively or for a career, but they were juniors or seniors, over the college boys and if some 45yo wants to take them to a fancy dinner or on his boat or to the mall and all he expects in return is for her to sleep with him, why not?

Without being crude or obnoxious, she was probably going to have sex with someone who didn't mean a lot to her that weekend, why not have sex with someone who doesn't mean a lot, but also paid her car payment?

None of them were prostitutes, none of them were being taken advantage of, all of them have settled into normal loving relationships—as do most women who go through "fun" eras in their love life in late college.

Who cares?

This is the exact definition of prostitution.

I am pro-sex work, so no judgement at all, but let's call it what it is.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If a woman is at the stage of her life where she's going to be having casual sex and is more interested in fun experience than an actual relationship, why not do the sugar thing? I know girls in college who did it—not exclusively or for a career, but they were juniors or seniors, over the college boys and if some 45yo wants to take them to a fancy dinner or on his boat or to the mall and all he expects in return is for her to sleep with him, why not?

Without being crude or obnoxious, she was probably going to have sex with someone who didn't mean a lot to her that weekend, why not have sex with someone who doesn't mean a lot, but also paid her car payment?

None of them were prostitutes, none of them were being taken advantage of, all of them have settled into normal loving relationships—as do most women who go through "fun" eras in their love life in late college.

Who cares?

This is the exact definition of prostitution.

I am pro-sex work, so no judgement at all, but let's call it what it is.

I guess. But none of them accepted cash. None of them did anything they weren't going to do that night/weekend, they just did it in a nicer place and walked away with a nice gift or clothes or whatever. If they had met a guy at a frat party and had sex with him and woke up the next morning, and he said "I had such a great time let me drive you to the mall and I want you to pick out any pair of shoes you want and we'll have a nice lunch before I drop you at home!" You might think it's a little odd, but you'd more likely think he was just a generous guy who maybe spends a little too freely and maybe equates money with affection, etc. etc. But you wouldn't say she was turning a trick.

But if that same girl meets a 44yo guy, has sex with him and then goes to the mall where he gives her a nice gift, takes her to a nice lunch and drives her home... it's prostitution?

It's both meaningless sex that could be fun, or maybe boring, but in one instance there's a nice gift and in the other there's almost certainly not, because frat guys just want to bang, not be generous.

[Anonymous]

“Sugar???”

Stop with the euphemisms.

If you have to use them, be aware that what you are doing is gross.