Is "sugar" a thing in DMV upper class?

[Anonymous]

Like someone said above

“happy customers feel good about themselves“

What a schmuck. “these ladies are trying out their fantasies on me.” haha

[Anonymous]

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Please define having a degree. I doubt that women who graduate from top20 schools are doing this.

I went to an elite boarding school, private top 20 college, ivy-league graduate school. I have a full-time job and a part-time gig job.

I am on there because I am a single parent after husband left. I need the money to support my children to stay in my houses. To support my career in the social justice field. I’m there because men make way more than women.

I don’t want to be there but also do not have time for a third job.

Please do not judge what you don’t know about.

There are plenty of “highly educated” girls moonlighting as sugar baby. I came across two medical residents, a Harvard grad and a couple of PHD students too. It’s frankly no big deal to the younger generation.

Tell yourself whatever stories you like, but you know and we know the average sugar baby is not UMC and not highly educated. I hate that media like Tiktok and articles in Cosmopolitan glamorize this for young women.

Exactly.

Also, women who are hoping to have a career, respectable standing in society, etc wouldn't do this.
This type of stuff would destroy their future.

[Anonymous]

Most people keep records to protect themselves

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:i'm the guy who has posted my experiences on this thread.. I agree a lot of normal seemingly UMC types to be found not necessarily desperate for money but it is an easy way for pretty girls to make money

but i am also finding many of these "good girl" types do it for a thrill. not just is "sugaring" a thrill for girls coming from normal UC/UMC/MC families but many of these girls are completely open minded sexually speaking (absolutely no holds bar) and will be open to doing downright nasty things that they might not want to explore with the "bf material" or "husband material" guys they would normally vanilla date. a lot of them playing out their own pornstar fantasies without being a porn star.

Fantasies. Like what? There is only so much you can do. It’s all on line. Why all this effort ? I do think straight s*x is getting more novel and people try anything now -/stuff the gay community has done for decades. Good for everyone.

Nerds are wearing corsets with hairy chests and no one really cares. With all that: You really think a fantasy is why your date is seeking you out? For her fantasy needs? unlikely. I am sure your ego loves that idea thu

Your analysis re: their motivation is not correct. I would think they would be thrilled to do this with a real BF they are not using you as a test drive . It’s something else😄

I can tell you these men’s dreams as someone who was offer something like that but through a friend’s intro. An uber rich Forbes guy with own jet. The dream was hardcore bdsm (complete ownership of a female slave with elements of humiliation, peeing on her etc). Group sex, hard anal, him enjoying the slave with friends. I’m very submissive but had to pass - these were things I wouldn’t be ever able to process. I would end up suicidal and dead under his penthouse balcony. And my reputation tarnished. Yes there is a contract and records keeping.
It’s what they can’t do with a wife or GF.

[Anonymous]

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Please define having a degree. I doubt that women who graduate from top20 schools are doing this.

I went to an elite boarding school, private top 20 college, ivy-league graduate school. I have a full-time job and a part-time gig job.

I am on there because I am a single parent after husband left. I need the money to support my children to stay in my houses. To support my career in the social justice field. I’m there because men make way more than women.

I don’t want to be there but also do not have time for a third job.

Please do not judge what you don’t know about.

There are plenty of “highly educated” girls moonlighting as sugar baby. I came across two medical residents, a Harvard grad and a couple of PHD students too. It’s frankly no big deal to the younger generation.

Tell yourself whatever stories you like, but you know and we know the average sugar baby is not UMC and not highly educated. I hate that media like Tiktok and articles in Cosmopolitan glamorize this for young women.

Exactly.

Also, women who are hoping to have a career, respectable standing in society, etc wouldn't do this.
This type of stuff would destroy their future.

Highly educated and talented women in art and music do this, unfortunately. It’s the only way for them to survive in large megapolis centers. But they are not famous, have visible careers and never will.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Us hot women in the DMV makes lots of money, we don't have to stoop to doing this BS.

Yes. I’m the guy who keeps posting my seeking experience. This is true. The hotter women in DMV are usually highly educated and have solid careers. From UMC families. Compare 25-35 yr olds on hinge and seeking and it’s obvious hinge pool is much more high value (hotter and better education/career etc) but like I posted earlier if you are patient, persistent and learn to use seeking for what it has to offer there are diamonds to be found. Sometimes rough diamond that just needs a little polish.

The hot women in places like NYC and LA end up pursuing careers like arts, theater, modeling and etc which don’t provide a stable income for 90% of them. So much more hot girls from LA and NYC on seeking available for the average sugar daddy. I don’t go to NYC much but when I’m in LA every evening can be a new hot (8+) young charming fun and interesting date (lot of actresses happy to act out your fantasies for you)

I’m a former sugar baby and agree. Sure there are some messed up women without a degree but many actually do have a degree. This is like saying attractive people can’t be intelligent.

Please define having a degree. I doubt that women who graduate from top20 schools are doing this.

Is Duke a top-20 school?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Us hot women in the DMV makes lots of money, we don't have to stoop to doing this BS.

Yes. I’m the guy who keeps posting my seeking experience. This is true. The hotter women in DMV are usually highly educated and have solid careers. From UMC families. Compare 25-35 yr olds on hinge and seeking and it’s obvious hinge pool is much more high value (hotter and better education/career etc) but like I posted earlier if you are patient, persistent and learn to use seeking for what it has to offer there are diamonds to be found. Sometimes rough diamond that just needs a little polish.

The hot women in places like NYC and LA end up pursuing careers like arts, theater, modeling and etc which don’t provide a stable income for 90% of them. So much more hot girls from LA and NYC on seeking available for the average sugar daddy. I don’t go to NYC much but when I’m in LA every evening can be a new hot (8+) young charming fun and interesting date (lot of actresses happy to act out your fantasies for you)

I’m a former sugar baby and agree. Sure there are some messed up women without a degree but many actually do have a degree. This is like saying attractive people can’t be intelligent.

Please define having a degree. I doubt that women who graduate from top20 schools are doing this.

Is Duke a top-20 school?

Liberal arts ?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Us hot women in the DMV makes lots of money, we don't have to stoop to doing this BS.

Yes. I’m the guy who keeps posting my seeking experience. This is true. The hotter women in DMV are usually highly educated and have solid careers. From UMC families. Compare 25-35 yr olds on hinge and seeking and it’s obvious hinge pool is much more high value (hotter and better education/career etc) but like I posted earlier if you are patient, persistent and learn to use seeking for what it has to offer there are diamonds to be found. Sometimes rough diamond that just needs a little polish.

The hot women in places like NYC and LA end up pursuing careers like arts, theater, modeling and etc which don’t provide a stable income for 90% of them. So much more hot girls from LA and NYC on seeking available for the average sugar daddy. I don’t go to NYC much but when I’m in LA every evening can be a new hot (8+) young charming fun and interesting date (lot of actresses happy to act out your fantasies for you)

I’m a former sugar baby and agree. Sure there are some messed up women without a degree but many actually do have a degree. This is like saying attractive people can’t be intelligent.

Please define having a degree. I doubt that women who graduate from top20 schools are doing this.

Is Duke a top-20 school?

Liberal arts ?

Computer engineering.

[Anonymous]

Disagree. Many I have met have the education...they really do.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Please define having a degree. I doubt that women who graduate from top20 schools are doing this.

I went to an elite boarding school, private top 20 college, ivy-league graduate school. I have a full-time job and a part-time gig job.

I am on there because I am a single parent after husband left. I need the money to support my children to stay in my houses. To support my career in the social justice field. I’m there because men make way more than women.

I don’t want to be there but also do not have time for a third job.

Please do not judge what you don’t know about.

There are plenty of “highly educated” girls moonlighting as sugar baby. I came across two medical residents, a Harvard grad and a couple of PHD students too. It’s frankly no big deal to the younger generation.

Tell yourself whatever stories you like, but you know and we know the average sugar baby is not UMC and not highly educated. I hate that media like Tiktok and articles in Cosmopolitan glamorize this for young women.

+1. Prostitutes from any background have the street smarts to say that they are in school and that is why they need money, not their heroin addiction. This way their customer can tell himself he is helping out struggling law or nursing student, not exploiting a drug addict or mentally unstable poor person. Like every salesperson, they know they can extract more money from happy customers who feel good about themselves.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Us hot women in the DMV makes lots of money, we don't have to stoop to doing this BS.

Yes. I’m the guy who keeps posting my seeking experience. This is true. The hotter women in DMV are usually highly educated and have solid careers. From UMC families. Compare 25-35 yr olds on hinge and seeking and it’s obvious hinge pool is much more high value (hotter and better education/career etc) but like I posted earlier if you are patient, persistent and learn to use seeking for what it has to offer there are diamonds to be found. Sometimes rough diamond that just needs a little polish.

The hot women in places like NYC and LA end up pursuing careers like arts, theater, modeling and etc which don’t provide a stable income for 90% of them. So much more hot girls from LA and NYC on seeking available for the average sugar daddy. I don’t go to NYC much but when I’m in LA every evening can be a new hot (8+) young charming fun and interesting date (lot of actresses happy to act out your fantasies for you)

I’m a former sugar baby and agree. Sure there are some messed up women without a degree but many actually do have a degree. This is like saying attractive people can’t be intelligent.

Please define having a degree. I doubt that women who graduate from top20 schools are doing this.

Is Duke a top-20 school?

Liberal arts ?

Computer engineering.

But the question is was it just fun for you ? If not the money would would you let these men into your bedroom ?

[Anonymous]

The average one may not be highly educated, I agree.

But from experience in the DMV, 50% + have college degrees, 20% approx have graduate degrees.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Please define having a degree. I doubt that women who graduate from top20 schools are doing this.

I went to an elite boarding school, private top 20 college, ivy-league graduate school. I have a full-time job and a part-time gig job.

I am on there because I am a single parent after husband left. I need the money to support my children to stay in my houses. To support my career in the social justice field. I’m there because men make way more than women.

I don’t want to be there but also do not have time for a third job.

Please do not judge what you don’t know about.

There are plenty of “highly educated” girls moonlighting as sugar baby. I came across two medical residents, a Harvard grad and a couple of PHD students too. It’s frankly no big deal to the younger generation.

Tell yourself whatever stories you like, but you know and we know the average sugar baby is not UMC and not highly educated. I hate that media like Tiktok and articles in Cosmopolitan glamorize this for young women.

Exactly.

Also, women who are hoping to have a career, respectable standing in society, etc wouldn't do this.
This type of stuff would destroy their future.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Please define having a degree. I doubt that women who graduate from top20 schools are doing this.

I went to an elite boarding school, private top 20 college, ivy-league graduate school. I have a full-time job and a part-time gig job.

I am on there because I am a single parent after husband left. I need the money to support my children to stay in my houses. To support my career in the social justice field. I’m there because men make way more than women.

I don’t want to be there but also do not have time for a third job.

Please do not judge what you don’t know about.

Requesting a clarification: you wrote above that you need the money to stay in your houses. That is house with a plural?

[Anonymous]

That was me writing. No. Major typo!! To stay in my ONE small house with two kids. I am trying to stay in our house for my kids to have consistency. I want to buy out my ex’s equity over the next 20 years.

Every man I have seen has been extremely kind, warm, and respectful. One is widowed and not ready to date for a relationship but wants physical connection.

I’m sure there is a lot of shady stuff out there on SA. But as a woman if I never stoop below someone I’d date normally it feels like any other dating. . . Except the guys are much more generous than the many guys in the DMV who want to split the first coffee date.

[Anonymous]

Many wives simply cut their husbands off in the bedroom after 15 years of marriage. Do you want the man to leave his kids over that? A sugar baby on the side is a much better alternative for both the man and his children.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Us hot women in the DMV makes lots of money, we don't have to stoop to doing this BS.

Yes. I’m the guy who keeps posting my seeking experience. This is true. The hotter women in DMV are usually highly educated and have solid careers. From UMC families. Compare 25-35 yr olds on hinge and seeking and it’s obvious hinge pool is much more high value (hotter and better education/career etc) but like I posted earlier if you are patient, persistent and learn to use seeking for what it has to offer there are diamonds to be found. Sometimes rough diamond that just needs a little polish.

The hot women in places like NYC and LA end up pursuing careers like arts, theater, modeling and etc which don’t provide a stable income for 90% of them. So much more hot girls from LA and NYC on seeking available for the average sugar daddy. I don’t go to NYC much but when I’m in LA every evening can be a new hot (8+) young charming fun and interesting date (lot of actresses happy to act out your fantasies for you)

I’m a former sugar baby and agree. Sure there are some messed up women without a degree but many actually do have a degree. This is like saying attractive people can’t be intelligent.

Please define having a degree. I doubt that women who graduate from top20 schools are doing this.

Is Duke a top-20 school?

Liberal arts ?

Computer engineering.

But the question is was it just fun for you ? If not the money would would you let these men into your bedroom ?

Yes, it was fun for me but I'm the man. She was the Duke grad. She had a good time too.