What do you the most judgemental about?

[Anonymous]

I judge the "I went to a top school and I'm awesome" posters. Or rather I laugh. I was accepted into "Top Schools" but I was SMART enough to go to a state one for 75% less tuition. Went on to have a great career making more than most of my "top school" peers. Debt free is really nice, in case you were wondering.

[Anonymous]

I judge people with tonsil stones.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

I judge moms who say, "oh forgive my house, it is a mess" and then you go and it is PERFECT. Please, they know it, you know it. It is so annoying. You wanna see a messy shithole, come to my house.

You got an Amen from me on that one.

[Anonymous]

I judge this entire thread and the many hateful and nasty comments on it!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I judge this entire thread and the many hateful and nasty comments on it!

Come on!! The subject was volunteering topics that bring out our judgmental nature. We all have our own prejudices and being judgmental is not a positive trait, you had to have known that this was going to be a rough and tumble thread before entering.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I judge this entire thread and the many hateful and nasty comments on it!

Amen. The title of this thread should be "What makes you even slightly bitchy?"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:- people who use improper grammar
- people who always misspell words like their and there
- people who misuse apostrophes
I judge all of the above especially when people do this on their Facebook status update. Check your spelling before showing all 600 of your friends your poor writing skills.

- teachers who do not have enough background knowledge to answer students' questions about, for example, social studies lessons
- financially secure adult women who have an unwanted pregnany as a result of consensual sex and decide to abort
- women who wear clothes that are too tight and have VPL/visible thong, or women who think that a thong is an acceptable alternative to a slip when wearing a sheer skirt
- parents who still go out and get drunk with their friends
- parents who bring their children to parties where there is lots of drinking and keep them there too late

What is wrong with going out with friend and drinking? I mean, getting pass-out drunk to the point of not being functional the next day is one thing, but what's wrong with getting a sitter one night and going out for dinner and drinks with friends? You've never had a plentiful amount of great wine at a dinner party?

If you're going to alienate people based on this, I don't know how many people would be left. I'm hoping your issue is just with getting rip-roaring frat party drunk and not being able to take care of your kids the next day.

I don't alienate these people, I just judge them. I'm not even saying that I will never get drunk (I'm a FTM), but I'll feel guilty about it. I don't think these people are bad people, I'm just secretly judgmental of them, isn't this the theme of the thread? And to clarify, yes, I am talking about the people that go get wasted and pass out on a friend's couch instead of taking a cab home and being lucid enough to wake up and parent the next morning.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

I judge moms who say, "oh forgive my house, it is a mess" and then you go and it is PERFECT. Please, they know it, you know it. It is so annoying. You wanna see a messy shithole, come to my house.

You got an Amen from me on that one.

This along the lines of something I judge - well, it's more of a pet peeve: skinny people who say they're fat and people who drive Cadillacs and carry Louis Vuitton purses and call themselves poor.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am judgmental of moms who complain and complain and complain about their rotten kids and do not do SHIT to help themselves.

I judge moms who seem to have no idea what their kids are doing b/c they either work 100 hours a week (hello, get a dog) or they are really checked out at home, busying themselves with the mundane.

I judge moms who say, "oh forgive my house, it is a mess" and then you go and it is PERFECT. Please, they know it, you know it. It is so annoying. You wanna see a messy shithole, come to my house.

I judge moms (unfairly, I think) when they look like total crap all the time and then wonder why they never have sex. Come one girl, get your game on.

I judge moms who don't leave the gym. Even when their kid is obviously ill. Even when the kids is screaming and it is pouring and everyone should have stayed home, but there she is, 50 minutes on the elliptical.

I judge moms who are on every PTA, mom's group, blah blah. Get a life outside of your family.

I judge myself for being insecure enough to judge everyone else, b/c at the end of day, everyone is trying the best they can, they best way they know how, even if it is fair to middlin'. And if I weren't so fucking judgmental, I could give more people a chance.

I like you. And I second everything you said.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am judgmental of moms who complain and complain and complain about their rotten kids and do not do SHIT to help themselves.

I judge moms who seem to have no idea what their kids are doing b/c they either work 100 hours a week (hello, get a dog) or they are really checked out at home, busying themselves with the mundane.

I judge moms who say, "oh forgive my house, it is a mess" and then you go and it is PERFECT. Please, they know it, you know it. It is so annoying. You wanna see a messy shithole, come to my house.

I judge moms (unfairly, I think) when they look like total crap all the time and then wonder why they never have sex. Come one girl, get your game on.

I judge moms who don't leave the gym. Even when their kid is obviously ill. Even when the kids is screaming and it is pouring and everyone should have stayed home, but there she is, 50 minutes on the elliptical.

I judge moms who are on every PTA, mom's group, blah blah. Get a life outside of your family.

I judge myself for being insecure enough to judge everyone else, b/c at the end of day, everyone is trying the best they can, they best way they know how, even if it is fair to middlin'. And if I weren't so fucking judgmental, I could give more people a chance.

I like you. And I second everything you said.

I was thinking so too. Except for the dog part. No dog should be left alone for that long. Possibly a fish. But if you're working that much you probably don't have time for the upkeep of those either.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So school snob, if someone saved up their meager earnings in a third world country to immigrate to the U.S., to work a minimum wage job to put herself through a community college to become a nurse, then what? If they don't have guidance, upbringing or resources as you did, what is the judgment you make on them? that they are less than you? bad people? insignificant pebbles in your shoe?

Is it actually fun for you and your friends to gossip about how inflated your egos are and how oh-so-special you must be compared to the people of this earth?

No, we don't spend our time gossiping about our inflated egos. I love how this thread has turned from "what are you (secretly) judgmental about" to "HOW DARE YOU BE JUDGMENTAL"? To all the posters who think they have friends that went to top schools and aren't arrogant about it, you're kidding yourselves. We might not be openly arrogant (I am certainly not openly arrogant in my every day life, contrary to the amusing indignation expressed here), but you can be sure we all know we went to good schools and are pretty darn aware of others that did/ did not. And even your nicest, kindest "top school" friends fit this bill. Do I consider someone with less resources who goes to nursing school a "pebble in my shoe"? Of course not. You're taking my comments to an extreme I never intended them to go.

Nevertheless, to those posters who think it's (a) insecurity or (b) equivalent to buying a nice car to "show off" -- there must be an awful lot of insecure people out there because the acceptance rates to the schools I went to are pretty darn low, which means tons of people want the same insecurity I have; oh, and that education secured me a pretty nice car, so that makes me doubly insecure (but in a very nice ride).

I wasn't jumping to an extreme. I was asking you a question out of sheer curiosity, because out of all the judgments on this thread, yours is the only one I cannot understand. What is the judgment you make on people that have less education than you? That they are _____. You fill in the blank. I'm just trying to understand your judgment.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:- people who use improper grammar
- people who always misspell words like their and there
- people who misuse apostrophes
I judge all of the above especially when people do this on their Facebook status update. Check your spelling before showing all 600 of your friends your poor writing skills.

- teachers who do not have enough background knowledge to answer students' questions about, for example, social studies lessons
- financially secure adult women who have an unwanted pregnany as a result of consensual sex and decide to abort
- women who wear clothes that are too tight and have VPL/visible thong, or women who think that a thong is an acceptable alternative to a slip when wearing a sheer skirt
- parents who still go out and get drunk with their friends
- parents who bring their children to parties where there is lots of drinking and keep them there too late

What is wrong with going out with friend and drinking? I mean, getting pass-out drunk to the point of not being functional the next day is one thing, but what's wrong with getting a sitter one night and going out for dinner and drinks with friends? You've never had a plentiful amount of great wine at a dinner party?

If you're going to alienate people based on this, I don't know how many people would be left. I'm hoping your issue is just with getting rip-roaring frat party drunk and not being able to take care of your kids the next day.

I don't alienate these people, I just judge them. I'm not even saying that I will never get drunk (I'm a FTM), but I'll feel guilty about it. I don't think these people are bad people, I'm just secretly judgmental of them, isn't this the theme of the thread? And to clarify, yes, I am talking about the people that go get wasted and pass out on a friend's couch instead of taking a cab home and being lucid enough to wake up and parent the next morning.

Thanks for being honest and clarifying. For a moment there (when I wrote my post in response to yours) I forgot that this was an anonymous thread on what we are judgemental about. Sorry to have judged your judging.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

I judge moms who say, "oh forgive my house, it is a mess" and then you go and it is PERFECT. Please, they know it, you know it. It is so annoying. You wanna see a messy shithole, come to my house.

You got an Amen from me on that one.

This along the lines of something I judge - well, it's more of a pet peeve: skinny people who say they're fat and people who drive Cadillacs and carry Louis Vuitton purses and call themselves poor.

Oh good one! The "poor person" with a trust fund. One of my least favorite people when I was in graduate school.

[Anonymous]

Lol.


I judge people who scream at their kids in public (actually yelling and scolding, not screaming their names because they are going too far or something).
I also judge people who "couldn't care less" that their kids are running around pinching and bullying other kids in the playground. It's even worse when I realize that the reason the kid is a bully is because the mom lets him bully her. And when he starts freaking out, kicking (her) and screaming, all she can say is "C'mon, buddy, why are you so upset? Do you want to go get some icecream?"

[Anonymous]

I judge people who have pets instead of children, and these pets have everything, they go to hotels, they go to the vet, they eat like kings and in this world millions of children die every day of hunger or because they do not have money to afford a doctor, so sad, really.