What do you the most judgemental about?

[Anonymous]

I secretly judge formula feeders. I'd never say anything though. Don't bother with the explanations, PLEASE! We've all heard about reason and your right and your personal choice yadda yadda yadda.

[Anonymous]

OOh ooh! Anonymous judging is so fun. I can be pretty judgmental but my biggest is parents who cross the street in the middle of the block, where there is no crosswalk, WHILE DRAGGING THEIR TODDLER BY THE ARM OR PUSHING A STROLLER. I see this all the time where I live. Like OP, I almost yelled at a parent who decided to "cheat" oncoming traffic and run across the street while literally dragging a toddler along behind him by his little arm.

Although I guess I also need to judge city planners or whoever for being so predestrian-un-friendly and not creating more/safer ways to cross the street.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I secretly judge formula feeders. I'd never say anything though. Don't bother with the explanations, PLEASE! We've all heard about reason and your right and your personal choice yadda yadda yadda.

I judge formula feeders too. And if they used formula from the first day, I judge them more harshly. It's one of the most selfish "personal choices" there is.

And formula stinks. I gag just looking at it.

[Anonymous]

Sanctimommies and women who are into the mommy group gossip thing.

I just can't deal and I judge you for annoying me. I don't care how someone gave birth, how they feed their kid, how their kid sleeps and do not want to hear about it or their opinion on what others are doing. I do not want to be part of any conversation where someone asks what to do about a queen bee in a neighborhood. I don't like Barbies or gun toys but as long as the gift is not a real loaded gun or a real prostitute dressed like Barbie I do not mind my child getting that gift. There is no need for you to cluck cluck that so and so gave an inappropriate gift. I do not want to dicsuss different parenting books or philosophies. I focus on survival and literacy everything after that is just gravy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"... I would followed them to their parking space and gone on a diatribe about the dangers of second hand smoke on a baby."

Would you really?

OP here. Maybe it is my pregnancy hormones talking but no, I am not sure if I really would have actually done it. I won't lie; I like to think I would have had the balls to do it though. Smoking in a car with no ventilation is nothing short of child endangerment to me. And FWIW, I also judge parents who put their babies to sleep using sleep positioners or blankets. Again, child endangerment. Not to mention the unattractive flat head from the sleep positioner...

Sorry on the typo in the subject line - boo/hiss on me, but whatinthehell is wrong with the word "smidge?"

[Anonymous]

1. loud people

2. obese people

3. people very partisan in their politics, either left or right.

4. I will go along with those that don't tip well and those that jaywalk with kids.

5. people who are anti-immigration

6. minorities who use racism as an excuse for their own failings as parents.

[Anonymous]

I judge formula feeders as well. Esp. those who never try to breastfeed. I would never in a million zillion years say a thing but I secretly judge them every time.

[Anonymous]

I judge people who have 3 screaming kids running wild around the house, acting up, screaming and climbing up the walls and the only thing they (the parents) do is say "You should be in bed by now, why are you acting like this?" or "You are so tired, why don't you just go to sleep?"

Because parents are too lazy to put me in bed, that's why.

[Anonymous]

I judge parents who explain away bad behavior based on gender... "Boys with be boys" or "My daughter is just sassy." No, your kids are ill-behaving brats.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I judge parents who explain away bad behavior based on gender... "Boys with be boys" or "My daughter is just sassy." No, your kids are ill-behaving brats.

Sorry- meant to say "Boys WILL be boys"...

[Anonymous]

Oh, phew!!


lol

[Anonymous]

Wow I hope none of you secret formula feeder judgers are my friends. Especially if you were one of my friends who to my face told me that I had certainly tried hard enough to breast feed and not to beat myself up that it wasn't working. If you are, just come clean so I don't waste any more time with you. I don't need you secretly judging me. It's one thing to agree that formula isn't the ideal way to go, and another to be this judgemental about something when you haven't walked in my shoes.

[Anonymous]

Not saying it's right, but I judge:

women who didn't even TRY to breastfeed

parents who feed their children crap and then act like I'm so picky for caring about what my kids eat

people with rude children

women with kids in school all day who have no intention of ever working again

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I secretly judge formula feeders. I'd never say anything though. Don't bother with the explanations, PLEASE! We've all heard about reason and your right and your personal choice yadda yadda yadda.

I judge formula feeders too. And if they used formula from the first day, I judge them more harshly. It's one of the most selfish "personal choices" there is.

And formula stinks. I gag just looking at it.

I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels this way.

[Anonymous]

I judge people who hate dogs. I think that they must be slightly cold inside.

I judge people who say, "I'm not religious, but I am spiritual." I think it's wishy-washy. Pick a side.

I judge people who don't believe in evolution. I think they're a little bit stupid. Or a lot.

I judge people who admire and respect Sarah Palin. Ditto on the stupid.

I judge people who pride themselves on never watching television, or not having a television. So boring and pretentious.