Wife Goes Silent on Work Travel

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oh, and please call the AP's wife, if he has one. When I went through this, it was nice to have a partner. I wouldn't expect the bond that me and his wife had, but I think that she will appreciate knowing.

+1000

This is a must. Expose all cheaters. Anonymously report them to their corporate Ethics office.

Stand up for what’s right!

The Ethics Office might be a little much. She's going to need to be able to pay child support.

+1
Tell his wife for sure. The Ethics office won't, and shouldn't, care.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh, and please call the AP's wife, if he has one. When I went through this, it was nice to have a partner. I wouldn't expect the bond that me and his wife had, but I think that she will appreciate knowing.

I wouldn't go that route. Focus on you. Work on you. While it sucks, good to know you weren't crazy. Her behavior told you something. Glad you were courageous enough to follow your instincts. It does suck for you and the kids. Now you have to figure out if there is anything left to salvage and, if so, iare either of you willing to put in the work to save it? If you both aren't completely committed, it's time to figure out how to move on with the least damage to the children.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Love these fake threads where "OP" swoops in every few pages with some tasty tidbits. Yeah.

Real or fake, I don't care. I like them.

Same, so sorry op

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oh, and please call the AP's wife, if he has one. When I went through this, it was nice to have a partner. I wouldn't expect the bond that me and his wife had, but I think that she will appreciate knowing.

+1000

This is a must. Expose all cheaters. Anonymously report them to their corporate Ethics office.

Stand up for what’s right!

The Ethics Office might be a little much. She's going to need to be able to pay child support.

+1
Tell his wife for sure. The Ethics office won't, and shouldn't, care.

If they have security clearances they’ll care

[Anonymous]

Normal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I love how the majority assume that because it is a woman she can't possibly be up to anything. They can't even fathom a woman doing wrong.

If this was a man, this would be a very different thread. All the possible nefarious things he could / must be up to would be the focus.

That is true for a reason. Guess what could it be.

[Anonymous]

Oap, how are you doing?

[Anonymous]

Oh, no. Sorry to hear the update, OP. Strength to you as you navigate a difficult time... sounds like you are a great dad though so glad that your kids have you in their lives. Stay strong.

[Anonymous]

Bump

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Bump

Why?

[Anonymous]

I didn't bump, but all for it. Wanna know what happened!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here, no real issues with trust. As I mentioned we've never cheated and we are both attractive, fit, very social people- meaning we could if we wanted. In fact, if I weren't mistaken I'm about 95% sure our daughter's K teacher was picking up on me during the PTCs last week. Smiled constantly, never broke eye contact and touched me on the shoulder as I left.

The hang up is the travel with men and no mention of them. And I do know they socialize and drink as a group because one of her colleagues (35, male, single, ex military) just got fired after the last trip for being drunk twice, including once around the client. This is a big no-no with her employer.

I simply can't envision being single, drinking, in some far flung place with attractive women and not picking up on them.

Oh, god. You pathetic, insecure little man. No, Your wife isn’t cheating on you. And your child’s K teacher doesn’t want you. You’re getting older, aren’t you? And a bit insecure about whether or not you’re still sexually attractive? So you have to make up little stories to tell yourself about younger women wanting you, and you have to clamp down on your wife to ensure she doesn’t stray. She’s probably a bit younger and more attractive than you, which makes you nervous. Men like you are a dime a dozen, a cliche. Pleas keep your crisis of confidence to yourself, and don’t confront your wife, or make a pass at the teacher.

Sounds like a bitter, single, depressed 38 yr old woman. Back on the meds!

[Anonymous]

Never, EVER marry a woman who frequently travels for work. You may trust HER, but don't trust the men buying your wife drinks thousands of miles away.

"It just happened!"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Never, EVER marry a woman who frequently travels for work. You may trust HER, but don't trust the men buying your wife drinks thousands of miles away.

"It just happened!"

I'm a DW who travels frequently for work to far flung places for 1-2 weeks at a time. I'm attractive and have never had issues attracting men. I've also never had issues turning down advances, which, by the way, are not THAT frequent. Men don't blindly pursue, they need at least some encouragement.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I didn't bump, but all for it. Wanna know what happened!

+ 1

OP, how are you?