Women 35+ who have never been in a relationship

[Anonymous]

Another case I found, just staying on topic but yeah another reminder how most people and most Society expect cases like this to be male-dominated:
https://www.elle.com/life-love/ask-e-jean/advice/a11719/ask-e-jean-dating-advice/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=arb_ga_elm_md_pmx_us_urlx_17925201838&gclid=Cj0KCQiAsburBhCIARIsAExmsu7Dy11HUjP4TRXhpay7Eve7yoxdAZO0Inm2gNA6zGaiUORpULJL2kMaAv_zEALw_wcB

[Anonymous]

A woman who escaped forever alone, single, at 35:

https://www.reddit.com/r/FA30plus/comments/18bixhz/a_genuinely_nice_success_story_hope_its_ok_to/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

[Anonymous]

Also, barely found out, Susan Boyle. I believe she never had a boyfriend until her 50s

[Anonymous]

A podcast link I found of a woman who claims that her career has always kept her single and she is in her early 30s:
https://open.spotify.com/episode/11HDQE0Yn7t4LS9r7bpCsI?si=ByjDCzexSmuGGVyY18k93Q&fbclid=IwAR0ZOXWModMpZVuRUTW8DOlBN6Dk1SNm7f2ngcyO_HiZXWOlGVfIqSGAZr0&nd=1&dlsi=b057b6c842304dd6

[Anonymous]

Bumping a huge bump but on Facebook a woman there claims she's 43 and never been in a relationship before, I'm open to the possibility that women just choose not to disclose their case or situation as much as men do

[Anonymous]

Guy here. A lot of women I know have no accurate clue as to whether many other women are attractive to men or not. Some women they think are attractive are maybe 3s on a ten point scale. Other women who are pretty on the surface just don’t have a vibe that men find arousing. I imagine that the same things might be said of many men.

[Anonymous]

Yeah I'm open to that possibility

[Anonymous]

I only have one friend like this and she’s mentally ill. She still talks about men problems she had in high school and college even though she’s 40. I’m sure that’s unattractive to men. She also seems distant from dates. Sometimes it’s a bad vibe thing. Men are less forgiving with mental illness and and stuff like this. If a women is attractive I think she has a very high chance of getting married IF that’s really what she wants. Many of these women are delusional about pairing up. I’m average but I attract men. When you want something you can get it if you try. I probably went on 20+ dates before I met my now husband and that was all in about 1 year.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

It is interesting that women will not settle for a man who is less educated but men will do the same.

Men are smart. There are things that really matter in a relationship, but your resume isn’t one of them.

I can’t be in a relationship with someone I can’t really talk to. Maybe these men just don’t really talk to or listen to women regardless, so it doesn’t matter to them.

I know someone who does all the talking in a relationship. Will talk your ear off. Is just desperate for a man and keeps dating people and showing them off as amazing and going on trips but after 6 months you learn they have a mental illness, are an alcoholic, can tell the guy is seeing several other people etc. She doesnt care because she treats them like a doll doing all the work and talking in a relationship. The men in their 50s that girlfriends meet are actually turning me off to men further. I do enjoy talking to some single men but these ones come across as asexual. There doesn't seem to be a happy middle ground between desperate and relationship overfocus to friendly but uninterested.

[Anonymous]

The other thing this does is help to create more men who are looking for people who are a cross between a sex doll and their mom. Men get conditioned to liking a woman to take care of everything and start treating it like it's the norm so when a woman comes along who wants a partner, that person can come across as too aloof and too independent because these other woman have used this man beyond what is a sustainable level. The men are in perpetual boyhood unable to transition into being more than a boy or guy instead of a man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It sounds heavenly. As a woman who dated a lot in high school and met my husband in college I really wish I’d been the single woman who was living her life. I had my kids because that was the natural order of things. College, career, husband, house, dog, kids. Checked those boxes off.

After the divorce I realized how incredibly happy I could be alone. How amazing it was to be completely and utterly selfish and it wouldn’t impact anyone and no one could judge me for the way I chose to live. I’ve been able to make decisions for me and do whatever I wanted to do. It’s incredibly freeing.

Kids are in college and will always come first but the freedom being alone brings is just amazing! I’d bet at least a few of those women the OP knows are single by choice. There comes a time when you can be pickier about a partner and if you’re living the good life a partner needs to bring a lot to the table to be worthy of adding them into your life.

Totally agree.

The typical order of things, spurred on by your ovaries, is not necessarily the happiest way to live life.

[Anonymous]

From my experience women seem more embarrassed at being single compared to men. I honestly don't know why but for a lot of women not having a boyfriend or a husband really affects them. In my opinion this could explain why women are far more likely to file for divorce because whether they admit or not that desire to be in a relationship and/or have children drive so many to just pick a guy for the sake of picking and then convince themselves that he has more green flags than red flags. Some my friends I asked myself how on earth did any woman agree to marry them. Their issues are so evident and no surprise that a few are either divorced or in unhappy marriages.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:From my experience women seem more embarrassed at being single compared to men. I honestly don't know why but for a lot of women not having a boyfriend or a husband really affects them. In my opinion this could explain why women are far more likely to file for divorce because whether they admit or not that desire to be in a relationship and/or have children drive so many to just pick a guy for the sake of picking and then convince themselves that he has more green flags than red flags. Some my friends I asked myself how on earth did any woman agree to marry them. Their issues are so evident and no surprise that a few are either divorced or in unhappy marriages.

Yes I can believe that

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:From my experience women seem more embarrassed at being single compared to men. I honestly don't know why but for a lot of women not having a boyfriend or a husband really affects them. In my opinion this could explain why women are far more likely to file for divorce because whether they admit or not that desire to be in a relationship and/or have children drive so many to just pick a guy for the sake of picking and then convince themselves that he has more green flags than red flags. Some my friends I asked myself how on earth did any woman agree to marry them. Their issues are so evident and no surprise that a few are either divorced or in unhappy marriages.

Women file for divorce more because they need novelty, thats why lesbians have the highest divorce rate out of any type of couple

[Anonymous]

Naturally for all time it just feels like most chronically alone forever single people in the world are male-dominated cases, should be obvious