wow. I don't even know where to start with this your daughter is not you Nora she an extension of you. She is her own person with her own body . You have no obligation to teach your daughter at all about how an adult woman should take care of her body. Your job is to teach your daughter nutrition and healthy exercise and how to best take care of her growing body. Telling her what she needs and doesn't need based on your experience is absolutely setting up some kind of disordered, dysmorphic thinking of looking at your body |
Starbucks uses unsweetened coconut and almond milk. |
They do not, at least not the last time I asked. They are both “lightly” sweetened. They showed me the cartons. |
Actually, only the almond milk is unsweetened. |
Just one issue is that you subbed a fruit that is 90% water (watermelon) for a fruit that is full of carbs (apple). This isn't the entire reason you aren't losing but it shows you don't understand nutrition very well. It's all about calories in and calories out. Doesn't matter how healthy the food are if you're not in a calorie deficit. You will nkt lose. |
| I am fat but grew up with a very eating disordered mom. If you don’t want your dc to struggle with weight please consider what they are learning by watching you. Especially those of th who are at a normal weight but seem desperate to starve yourselves thinner. |
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I hear you, short people. I am the same. The weight sits in the middle more after 40.
Cut out the simple sugar you see. If you normally eat a big chocolate chip cookie, cut that in half. If you eat a sandwich, use one slice of bread. If you drink soda, cut that or drink half of it. If you eat a plate of pasta, cut that into half or 1/4 of your plate. Add protein and vegetables. Almost like a diabetic meal. If you replace some of your carbs with plants, you will see a difference in a week. Don't forget to move. Walking is the simplest but walk faster each time and increase the distance. If you don't to increase distance, walk hills. Don't cut the carbs entirely because if you exercise, you need that. |
I only go to independent coffee shops. That said I have cut out lattes completely and have black coffee or a red eye. |
Well, breakfast and lunch are at work, so they'd never notice that. If I skip dinner it is only when their dad isn't home, so they prefer to read at dinner and ignore me anyway. Perhaps they do notice, but they've never commented on it. I'm usually cleaning up as they eat & read, so it is isn't in their face. |
I don't eat any simple sugar and barely any processed food and I can't lose weight at 5'0". It may work for some but not for all. |
this. you don't need to necessarily cut out any food group, but yes, limiting processed carbs and filling up high-fiber foods and protein helps. |
especially if you work out every day. i don't get the fascination with women wanting to disappear. |
The almond milk is sweetened, but it does have the least amount of sugar of the three non-dairy milks. I've had good results with mixing protein powder (chocolate or vanilla) into my coffee with a bit of half & half. It tastes like a mocha and actually keeps me full, rather than plain coffee which just makes me ravenous. I have one for breakfast with a pice of fruit or oatmeal, and one in the afternoon as a snack. I find sipping on a drink over the course of an hour keeps me from snacking (which I can't stop doing once I start!). |
| I'm 5 foot. I was at 139 and lost 10 lbs. over six months so now I'm at 129. I lost by tracking what I ate, trying to eat well and watching carbs, sugar, alcohol and snacks. Its really hard to maintain weight loss because any cheating at all such as adding cheese to a sandwich or drinking 2 glasses of wine, kills the day's progress. |