What revenge did you do to your spouse or partner when you found out they were cheating?

[Anonymous]

I posted this a ways back but still my favorite. A lady I know found out her husband was cheating once again. She never let on, had a friend do hang up calls when he was there. Then sent herself some sexy thongs in the mail. All the while he thought the AP was doing it, so they ended up in heated fights. She did a bunch of stuff like that and tortured them both for months. They broke up, she ended up divorcing him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I caught DH cheating, but didn't tell him I knew. Instead, I put the moves on the friend who introduced him to the OW. I also set up a hidden camera in the bedroom I shared with DH and caught him and OW on it. A few weeks later, I had DH served with divorce papers. The divorce went quickly and DH didn't put up a fight because I told him I would send copies of the sex tape to everyone he and OW knew.

A couple of years after the divorce was finalized, he was giving me grief over the kids, so I mailed copies of the video of DH and OW having sex to several of DH's relatives, the OW's parents and siblings, and the OW's boss. I also told DH about my affair with his best friend. The ensuing drama in DH's life took his attention off the kids and made my life a lot easier.

This is awful. You're just as bad as your ex-husband.

I would say worse. Sounds like he is lucky to be rid of you. I feel so bad for all the kids, including yours. There is absolutely no way you are a good mother. Not possible. I've been married for 29 years. Not the OW. There is nothing in this world that would make me behave the way you did.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I got really fit, found a great job, learned a new language, traveled the world, met a new guy, and had a great kid.

Basically I made myself into the best thing he ever lost, and I rarely think about him.

He drunk dialed me once. He left me a VM crying and apologizing. Then he threw up. It was funny.

Thingsthatneverhappened.com

I believe it. My sil's ex called her after 8 years!! The lady he left her for ended up dying, he was drunk and she played it for me. It was pretty funny too, but he didn't throw up!! She wanted to use it for her Ring Tone, lol.
She also played it for everyone in her family including their 2 grown kids.

[Anonymous]

My ex who cheated has never been good about his credit. When bills come for him to my address (still, after many years) I don't tell him: I throw them out. A couple have gone to collections. He recently lost a job because he couldn't pass the clearance because of his bad credit!

I also give bill collectors his AP home phone number.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I caught DH cheating, but didn't tell him I knew. Instead, I put the moves on the friend who introduced him to the OW. I also set up a hidden camera in the bedroom I shared with DH and caught him and OW on it. A few weeks later, I had DH served with divorce papers. The divorce went quickly and DH didn't put up a fight because I told him I would send copies of the sex tape to everyone he and OW knew.

A couple of years after the divorce was finalized, he was giving me grief over the kids, so I mailed copies of the video of DH and OW having sex to several of DH's relatives, the OW's parents and siblings, and the OW's boss. I also told DH about my affair with his best friend. The ensuing drama in DH's life took his attention off the kids and made my life a lot easier.

This is awful. You're just as bad as your ex-husband.

I would say worse. Sounds like he is lucky to be rid of you. I feel so bad for all the kids, including yours. There is absolutely no way you are a good mother. Not possible. I've been married for 29 years. Not the OW. There is nothing in this world that would make me behave the way you did.

Definitely not worse then cheating and breaking up a family imo. Not my cup of tea, but displaced kids ranks up there...more so then a few relatives viewing a sex tape. Her kids never saw it, I will bet her ex made that up.

[Anonymous]

Man, this thread is so toxic. We need this song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M9BNoNFKCBI

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My ex who cheated has never been good about his credit. When bills come for him to my address (still, after many years) I don't tell him: I throw them out. A couple have gone to collections. He recently lost a job because he couldn't pass the clearance because of his bad credit!

I also give bill collectors his AP home phone number.

I know someone that kept looking up their ex in the county. Found out a few credit cards had filed liens on him but didn't have his new address to serve him etc. Yep she did, and his pay check was further garnished.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I caught DH cheating, but didn't tell him I knew. Instead, I put the moves on the friend who introduced him to the OW. I also set up a hidden camera in the bedroom I shared with DH and caught him and OW on it. A few weeks later, I had DH served with divorce papers. The divorce went quickly and DH didn't put up a fight because I told him I would send copies of the sex tape to everyone he and OW knew.

A couple of years after the divorce was finalized, he was giving me grief over the kids, so I mailed copies of the video of DH and OW having sex to several of DH's relatives, the OW's parents and siblings, and the OW's boss. I also told DH about my affair with his best friend. The ensuing drama in DH's life took his attention off the kids and made my life a lot easier.

This is awful. You're just as bad as your ex-husband.

I would say worse. Sounds like he is lucky to be rid of you. I feel so bad for all the kids, including yours. There is absolutely no way you are a good mother. Not possible. I've been married for 29 years. Not the OW. There is nothing in this world that would make me behave the way you did.

Definitely not worse then cheating and breaking up a family imo. Not my cup of tea, but displaced kids ranks up there...more so then a few relatives viewing a sex tape. Her kids never saw it, I will bet her ex made that up.

Disagree. Adults who seek revenge are basically emotionally stunted adults. My ex cheated. It hurt. It sucked. We divorced and life went on. Some of my actions were immature and petty, but nowhere near the level this poster describes. Our kids are happy, healthy adults because despite their father's infidelity, they were raised by people with emotional maturity.

I hope the pp's ex-husband's wife was able to give those kids a real mother.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I caught DH cheating, but didn't tell him I knew. Instead, I put the moves on the friend who introduced him to the OW. I also set up a hidden camera in the bedroom I shared with DH and caught him and OW on it. A few weeks later, I had DH served with divorce papers. The divorce went quickly and DH didn't put up a fight because I told him I would send copies of the sex tape to everyone he and OW knew.

A couple of years after the divorce was finalized, he was giving me grief over the kids, so I mailed copies of the video of DH and OW having sex to several of DH's relatives, the OW's parents and siblings, and the OW's boss. I also told DH about my affair with his best friend. The ensuing drama in DH's life took his attention off the kids and made my life a lot easier.

This is awful. You're just as bad as your ex-husband.

I would say worse. Sounds like he is lucky to be rid of you. I feel so bad for all the kids, including yours. There is absolutely no way you are a good mother. Not possible. I've been married for 29 years. Not the OW. There is nothing in this world that would make me behave the way you did.

Definitely not worse then cheating and breaking up a family imo. Not my cup of tea, but displaced kids ranks up there...more so then a few relatives viewing a sex tape. Her kids never saw it, I will bet her ex made that up.

Disagree. Adults who seek revenge are basically emotionally stunted adults. My ex cheated. It hurt. It sucked. We divorced and life went on. Some of my actions were immature and petty, but nowhere near the level this poster describes. Our kids are happy, healthy adults because despite their father's infidelity, they were raised by people with emotional maturity.

I hope the pp's ex-husband's wife was able to give those kids a real mother.

I hope PP found a real father for those kids.

[Anonymous]

Boo. You guys sucked the fun out of this thread. I want more crazy!

[Anonymous]

Mental Note: Figure out a way to replace the boss's shampoo with Nair. She doesn't shampoo at work.

[Anonymous]

A bf I was serious with was talking to his ex behind my back. Not only that he refused to get rid of her pictures. After we broke up I took all the pics of her mainly because she kept harassing us. I was surprised he kept them when we moved in together, obviously that was one of many red flags.

[Anonymous]

When I was in my 20s, my then BF was cheating on me. I contacted the OW and told her that she could have him, but I needed her to work with me for a moment. One day I picked her up and took her back to our place. (Craziness now that I think about all that could have occurred). BF was asleep when we arrived back at our place. I woke him up by caressing him and making him believe that we were getting into some hot and heavy sex. I then told him that someone was there to join us and I invited her into the room. His face hit the floor and he was speechless. To this day I'm surprised that she did not clue him in...I guess she really wanted him for herself. I moved out that weekend and never looked back.

[Anonymous]

My friends sister probably takes the cake on revenge and being happy. She did both, so yes it's possible.

She wanted a 3rd child, but found out dh was cheating. Continued to not take her birth control and got pregnant. A year later she divorced him and got the house, kids, and the court ordered him to move out of the home. Turned out he was doing Cocaine with his gf, so he was court ordered to take tests. The gf broke up with him. Today she is happily re-married to a great guy. He is living in a rental paying a lot of support. I don't know how someone can tank their family over a stranger. The kids will never see the cheater parent in the same light again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I caught DH cheating, but didn't tell him I knew. Instead, I put the moves on the friend who introduced him to the OW. I also set up a hidden camera in the bedroom I shared with DH and caught him and OW on it. A few weeks later, I had DH served with divorce papers. The divorce went quickly and DH didn't put up a fight because I told him I would send copies of the sex tape to everyone he and OW knew.

A couple of years after the divorce was finalized, he was giving me grief over the kids, so I mailed copies of the video of DH and OW having sex to several of DH's relatives, the OW's parents and siblings, and the OW's boss. I also told DH about my affair with his best friend. The ensuing drama in DH's life took his attention off the kids and made my life a lot easier.

Wow, you acted worse than your husband did. Psycho.

Seriously, even more so because it happened several years after the divorce was finalized so PP can't even claim it was a heat of the moment mistake.

That's what you do when you're still not over it.