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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I caught DH cheating, but didn't tell him I knew. Instead, I put the moves on the friend who introduced him to the OW.  I also set up a hidden camera in the bedroom I shared with DH and caught him and OW on it.  A few weeks later, I had DH served with divorce papers.  The divorce went quickly and DH didn't put up a fight because I told him I would send copies of the sex tape to everyone he and OW knew.

[b]A couple of years after the divorce was finalized, he was giving me grief over the kids, so I mailed copies of the video of DH and OW having sex to several of DH's relatives, the OW's parents and siblings, and the OW's boss.  I also told DH about my affair with his best friend.  The ensuing drama in DH's life took his attention off the kids and made my life a lot easier[/b].[/quote]

This is awful.  You're just as bad as your ex-husband.  [/quote]

I would say worse.   Sounds like he is lucky to be rid of you.   I feel so bad for all the kids,  including yours.   There is absolutely no way you are a good mother.  Not possible.  I've been married for 29 years.   Not the OW.  There is nothing in this world that would make me behave the way you did. [/quote]

Definitely not worse then cheating and breaking up a family imo.   Not my cup of tea, but displaced kids ranks up there...more so then a few relatives viewing a sex tape.  Her kids never saw it, I will bet her ex made that up.

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Disagree.  Adults who seek revenge are basically emotionally stunted adults.   My ex cheated.  It hurt.  It sucked.   We divorced and life went on.  Some of my actions were immature and petty,  but nowhere near the level this poster describes.  Our kids are happy,  healthy adults because despite their father's infidelity,  they were raised by people with emotional maturity.

I hope the pp's ex-husband's wife was able to give those kids a real mother. [/quote]

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